WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2019
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My husband has completed both parts of the driver's assessment ... a physical & written test and the driving test. But he does not have his driver's licence back. Next, the assessors need to write a report which, I presume, goes to his specialist and also to the driver's licencing board.
Although it all seemed to go well, he may possibly have some restrictions of some sort.
He's hoping everything will go smoothly and that in 10 days or so, he may indeed have his licence back.
Meanwhile, he's been making good use of the bus ... as I do.
M in Oz6 -
I'm home and in bed with pajamas on.today was a very hard and stressful day..this young guy is gung ho on expensive treatment plans and pushing it right out if the gate.. we have been there longer than both the owner and this guy and we know our patients..
I'm back I to my very part time hours and then working every other Saterday which is at least a little break..
Rita I want to read that book to..and congrats on the 35 lb loss.i cant wait till I get there.
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Winds are still blowing. We are rocking around but otherwise wind is coming in from the back of the RV.
RV's a rocking Rita4 -
Prayers for the young woman (age 26, physically disabled) who rents a room in my son's temporary house (bedroom next to his). She overdosed on pills this afternoon and was taken by ambulance to the hospital. I had been there this afternoon from 3:00-4:30 and she was avoiding me and wouldn’t talk to me. Instead, she went into her dark bedroom, played blaring music and closed the door. She tends to be depressed and wants her privacy, so I honored that and I’m so sorry I did. I left both her and my son (this is the disabled son) alone at 4:30. Sometime between then and when her personal care aide came on at 5:00 she overdosed. Her aide found her alive, but incoherent. My son also respected the closed door and was reading ... unaware of the young woman's actions. Heartbreaking.17
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Beth, heartbreaking indeed! Please don't beat yourself up for respecting the closed door, you can't possibly have known that she meant to harm herself. Hoping for the best outcome....
Machka, I know this is from a while back, but the topiary town that you visited looks pretty darn awesome! Sincerest wishes for hubby's license to be back in his possession! He must feel relieved to have passed both tests, things are definitely going in the right direction for him!
Tracy, keeping you in my thoughts for the job interview on Friday! Hoping that your interviewer will realize that YOU are the person that they need!
Rebecca, oh my,marmalade would definitely be a keeper! Good for you for getting to the base gym, unfortunate when people hog the machines....
Heather, sounds like a lovely time was had by all! This definitely seems to have been the right move for you, I know the financial part has been tough, but your joy with the new location just comes thru every time you post!
Rita, how rude of the teacher to leave a box of garbage under a picnic table! Maybe we should be generous and say she forgot, but still.... Raccoons, wind and garbage, oh joy......
Went to a core strength class yesterday, had been going quite steadily, but then the regular teacher was away for a few weeks, iduring that time the snow came so I didn't go, then I got sick with the flu, so of course didn't go. Well, regular teacher was back yesterday.... she kicks butt! I'm surprised I'm not hurting as much as I thought I would, a few spots are wondering WTH happened, but.... It's a good hurt, right?? lol And the scale is being kind, I am paying attention, still not logging, but that will come eventually. Sure is making a difference knowing what I'm going to make for dinner a few days in advance tho! Need to keep up with the planning!
Speaking of dinner, I must go and put the rest of tonights in the oven, having baked potatoes with teriyaki chicken breasts, not sure of the veg yet, but that's the easy part!
Hope everyone has a great day!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island, where the sun is shining and it was 10C today! I believe that's close to 50F! Positively balmy! (or at least it would be if the wind took a hike....)6 -
beth heart wrenching.
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stats for the day:
bike ride hm 2 gym- 8.16min, 11.5amph, 135mhr, 1.5mi= 90c
new SKI MACHINE- 27min, 105aw, 96astrpm, 119ahr, 143mhr, lvl3 out of 10, 12.1km= 219c
bike ride gym 2 dome- 5.23min, 134mhr, 16.4amph, 1.4mi= 66c
ride puy 2 sumn station- 15.28min, 11.7amph, 148mhr,3mi= 154c
jog sta 2 wrk- 5.20min, 10.13min mi, 149mhr, .5mi= 64c
jog wrk 2 sta- 4.29min, 9.54min mi, 150mhr, .4mi= 57c
bike ride dome 2 hm- 19min, 8.3amph, 149mhr,2.6mi= 189c
total cal 8392 -
Machka, I'm thinking good thoughts for your husband getting his drivers license back. Passing the tests is a great accomplishment.
Barbie4 -
Hi Gals,
Lisa you are doing great!!! I’m impressed
Welcome newbies – Jillery,
Wind turbines - I live not far from the Livermore wind turbines, they are interesting, when you hike near them they make a very distinctive noise, and while I have not heard of bat deaths, we do have problems with raptors being killed… I know they have done assorted things to mitigate the problem.
Yvonne – I changed accountants a few years back, I asked other small business owners who they used and picked one of the referrals. It has been so much better! He has saved me a mint, but has warned me that as a small business with no employees the tax changes will not help me – I’ll turn my stuff in in about a week, and see how much it hurts.
Katla – I wanted to spilt a Costco membership with my mom and she said we had to live in the same house…
Tracy – sending good thoughts!
Machka – Congrats to DH for getting this far; one more hurdle!
Kim from N. California
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(((Beth))) Hugs for your son too!1
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Hi everyone. Lots of rain and we have major flooding going on. 2 inches in my basement and my sump pump broke. More rain coming. sigh. My exercise will be cleaning the basement of all the ruined stuff and then trying to get the water out and bleaching. Our rivers are over the banks in many areas in Iowa, Nebraska and Sioux Falls. Living on top of the hill didn't help us. after a 12 shift this is not the news I wanted to come home to.4
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Thank you all for the birthday wishes. Much appreciated!
Beth So so sorry about your sons neighbor girl. That is heartbreaking. Sounds like the aide should administer her the pills.
Megamom That’s terrible you were flooded. You have a lot of work ahead. We live up in a hill about 10-12’ higher than the road. I guess we could get flooded if the water rose high enough.
I guess my big 70th birthday messed up my diet. But back on track. I have pictures of my DH and me for you. And our dogwood tree at the bottom of the road. The rain just quit and the sun came out on it.
Thought y’all would like it!
Well, have a good evening!
Dana In Arkansas
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KJKelly, I'm sorry to hear about Tim's mom. I hope things don't become too stressful.
Machka, happy VERY belated birthday!
I loved your cycling film. Young women of my generation in the Midwest usually have up cycling about the time they began dating seriously - about 15-16. Not me. My parents didn't like the young man I was seeing, so I'd hop on my bicycle with a friend along, then leave her to ride the 14 miles to his parents' place. It ended, sadly, when I left for college. Mom made sure I went away to school. I did love my 3-speed, though. It was a Raleigh, which was a pretty good bicycle back then.
Heather UK, I know you're trying to be considerate, but isn't it possible your friend would prefer to see you than some cousins who came a greater distance? How about saying "I can come up on the 20th. Will that work for you?"
Ketone Karen, thanks for the reply regarding Saxenda! Saves me a research workout.
All I can do for today. Supposed to be a day off, but I had to go to work anyway! I left My Precious (this iPhone!) there last night. I looked all over the house and car before getting out the "Find My iPhone" app. And of course it said it was 14 miles as the crow flies away! That's a long slow 45 minute drive of about 20 miles. No shortcut.
I must cut this short. My eldest grandson is coming down in the morning for ComiCon in Seattle this weekend. He's staying with me until Sunday, but will commute back and forth. He doesn't drive, since he's very ADD, even with meds.
Sharon, who's now snowed under (with tax work) rather than snowed in, Near Seattle4 -
woke up at 3 couldnt go back to sleep, so here I am.. my stomach still in knots
I am having my cup of tea, and then will watch Joyce and look through the classified ads on indeed.3 -
Allie - Our old private practice at our last house was great and reasonably priced, but then sold out to a chain. The prices went up astronomically. We argued with them and told them they were sharks and should be ashamed if themselves and were not serving the community. We left them and found an NHS dentist (subsidised) at a nearby city. Your prices have to fit the neighbourhood. NYC prices in a small town don't work.
Good luck with finding a better job with some caring people.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx2 -
Walking To Date
2019 - 213.91 km
2018 - 328.5 km
2017 - 312.75 km
2016 - 195.05 km
2015 - 181.36 km
Starting to pick up the pace a bit with the walking ... back at uni!
BTW 213.91 km is about 280,721.78 steps. Not too bad for someone who has a back & hip injury ... and who had the flu recently.
http://www.kylesconverter.com/length/kilometers-to-steps
M in Oz3 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »I had a call yesterday from a recruiter for a job I had applied for a few weeks ago. She told me that job had been filled but she had another client that she thought I would be a good fit for. I have an interview on Friday. I am praying to find the right words and confidence that will help me get this. The pay, hours, location and duties sound like something I would like. This is my first interview after 150+ resumes being sent out since December. Yesterday there were not even any postings to apply on.
I should go and do something, I feel I have done nothing all week!
Tracey in Edmonton
All the best!!
One idea (which you may have tried all ready) ... have you applied with employment services? When I lived in RD (south of you) I worked for two different employment services. Most of the time I worked for one that got me into a place in Joffred doing document control. That was excellent. For a short period of time, I worked for the other which put me into a reception position in an architectural firm which was really interesting. I learned a lot.
M ... now in Oz, but then in AB
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KetoneKaren wrote: »Katla My grandson and I were brainstorming in a devil's-advocate-kind-of-way in preparation for his writing assignment. He wants to write a persuasive letter to the editor in favor of windmills. I asked him to give me 10 "cons", and he included "they kill bats" (I didn't know). The next step will be to determine which of the "cons" is valid for a windmill farm 27 miles off shore. I find it interesting that several of the women in this group have windmill farms nearby!
Machka Your husband got his driver's license back? That's major! How great! Glad for both of you.
Karen in Virginia
You could look up wind farms in Tasmania too ... we've got a few. It can get pretty breezy along parts of the coast.
And he should get the licence back in about 10 days, I hope.
M in the southern-most state of Oz4 -
Heather~ thanks for the vote of confidence... yes this kid (he is 32) worked in the Bronx in New York. the Dr bought the practice and has sunk a bunch of money into it.. this is a small town office not a part of a chain or part of multiple offices, we have a good amount of patients over 50 , and state patients .. this guy no discounts ,and push push push. i have a maxi skirt on and a sweater, I will apply for part time work at the vets office, which I would love.. and its right across the street, but I am guessing it wont pay as much as I make now, but i will get to see puppies and kittys every day..
very hard at my age to start over, I keep praying that the good Lord points me in the right direction..6 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »I had a call yesterday from a recruiter for a job I had applied for a few weeks ago. She told me that job had been filled but she had another client that she thought I would be a good fit for. I have an interview on Friday. I am praying to find the right words and confidence that will help me get this. The pay, hours, location and duties sound like something I would like. This is my first interview after 150+ resumes being sent out since December. Yesterday there were not even any postings to apply on.
I should go and do something, I feel I have done nothing all week!
Tracey in Edmonton
All the best!!
One idea (which you may have tried all ready) ... have you applied with employment services? When I lived in RD (south of you) I worked for two different employment services. Most of the time I worked for one that got me into a place in Joffred doing document control. That was excellent. For a short period of time, I worked for the other which put me into a reception position in an architectural firm which was really interesting. I learned a lot.
M ... now in Oz, but then in AB
Great advice Machka!. Tracey, I completely forgot about temping (what we call it here). I temped many summers during college, I met my DH at my first temp assignment. It was a one week project, they liked me and kept me all summer, moving me to cover for whoever was on vacation or needed help. They offered me a permanent position, but I had college to finish.
Okie in the TX Hill Country3 -
Beth - I am so sorry. How traumatic for both you and your son! Hugs!!
Megamom - I’m so sorry to hear you’re taking on water. Best wishes that you don’t lose too many treasures from the flooding.
Allie - Good luck finding something new.
We drive through a wind farm going back to OK. We typically only drive through during the day. We drove home last month at night and it took us a few minutes to figure out what the lights we were seeing were.
Okie in the TX Hill Country1 -
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Need to catch up again, but wanted to pop in. Yes, I changed sheets on bed, vacuumed and shampooed carpets, moved a China cabinet out of home, put things in attic and cooked breakfast all in heels and a dress. I know I am crazy! But I felt pretty and in charge all day! My husband doesn't get it, but he appreciates it. I have a closet full of lovely dresses and rarely any get worn. I pretty much only pack dresses for vacations and wear them to car shows. Often they are paired with tennis shoes, but still pretty dresses.
Trying to get my act together! Just back to feeling 7 steps behind. Today is a new day!
Welcome!
Congratulations!
Hugs!
Stay strong lovely ladies! And let your inner goddess out in the best way for you!
Kylia in Ohio where it is raining but warm!
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Dana ... great photos! I'm so jealous of your Dogwood in blossom. We're expected to get more snow.
Both my son and the young woman who overdosed currently live self-directed/independent lives. They hire their own care aides and direct them. While my son is physically incapable of administering his own medications, this young woman has better fine motor skills and managed her own medications. My son is currently in the process of changing over to a "certified" type of living arrangement ... one where there is state oversight and responsibility. While he is capable of managing his own life, he needs the structure and accountability provided in a certified setting ... especially as his Dad and I are aging. The young woman rejected offers to move over with him because she didn't want to give up any autonomy ... even though she has minimal support mechanisms. I have not yet heard how she is doing today, but I'm guessing her life has changed drastically as a result of her actions yesterday ...7 -
Dana ... great photos! I'm so jealous of your Dogwood in blossom. We're expected to get more snow.
Both my son and the young woman who overdosed currently live self-directed/independent lives. They hire their own care aides and direct them. While my son is physically incapable of administering his own medications, this young woman has better fine motor skills and managed her own medications. My son is currently in the process of changing over to a "certified" type of living arrangement ... one where there is state oversight and responsibility. While he is capable of managing his own life, he needs the structure and accountability provided in a certified setting ... especially as his Dad and I are aging. The young woman rejected offers to move over with him because she didn't want to give up any autonomy ... even though she has minimal support mechanisms. I have not yet heard how she is doing today, but I'm guessing her life has changed drastically as a result of her actions yesterday ...
I'm sorry to hear what happened ... and I know that the world of care and carers and autonomy is complicated.1 -
Kylia - I wear dresses most of the time in Summer/Spring/Fall (in winter I'm too cold to wear dresses). A girlfriend finally figured out I prefer dresses because pants were always too short (high waters) growing up so I wore dresses. I never made that connection until she said something a couple of years ago. Normally they are paired with sandals or flip flops, but sometimes cute tennies. Heels are reserved for weddings in my life (or formal events, of which I have none).
Okie in the TX Hill Country2 -
Sort of funny in a weird way ... whenever I see the name of my husband's back-to-work coordinator on an email or wherever, I go into a hot flash!
It's stress.
One good thing, I suppose, my stress level is heading up to the point where my appetite starts to disappear.
M in Oz3 -
okiewoman510 wrote: »Kylia - I wear dresses most of the time in Summer/Spring/Fall (in winter I'm too cold to wear dresses). A girlfriend finally figured out I prefer dresses because pants were always too short (high waters) growing up so I wore dresses. I never made that connection until she said something a couple of years ago. Normally they are paired with sandals or flip flops, but sometimes cute tennies. Heels are reserved for weddings in my life (or formal events, of which I have none).
Okie in the TX Hill Country
I wear skirts much of the time ... year round. I just find them more comfortable. I wear them with leggings of some sort ... shorts in the summer, 3/4 on slightly cooler days, and full-length in the winter. In warmer weather, I go with sandals ... in cooler weather, it's boots.
I'll wear pants on days when I've got to walk to/from the university, and it's windy. It's a long enough walk that I don't want to deal with my skirt up around my ears. This semester, I have to walk there 2 days a week, and so I went out and bought a couple pair of capris and a couple pair of pants. I do have some, but I've put on a bit of weight what with this past year's situation, and they aren't comfortable. Pants aren't comfortable at the best of times, but the few I've got have moved into "really uncomfortable" so the ones I got are stretchier which I hope will work as I lose the weight again.
Aside from pants being uncomfortable, I also find them too short. I'm not tall, but for some reason manufacturers make the leg lengths so short almost all the time. I get really excited if I happen to find a pair of pants with a decent leg length. If they more or less fit me otherwise and are nearly long enough, I might wear them with boots.
Machka in Oz2
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