WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2019
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Karen in VA, I have been meaning to ask you about the LG frig. Sorry to hear that you are still having trouble with it. It was just a lemon.
Hope you will be able to replace it with a new frig at some point. Do not get another LG or Samsung as I have read that they are very difficult to get parts for.
Allie, you've been given good advice by others. Good thoughts for you and continue to wish for a better job.
Heather, when my DH was doing the 4 day antique shows, I felt just like you are feeling now with the cricket matches. It is just good to know that there is another human in the house even if you are both in other rooms doing different things much of the time.
Carol in GA2 -
I love the posts here! Real people not a bunch of fakers and fluff!
I have Sjogrens which affects my joints and muscles and causes severe fatigue. I am also type 2 diabetic. Other issues, but those 2 are the most frustrating. Endo doc put me on another new med, and I was like UGH! BUT...it's working blood sugars are lowering and I have energy.
Good Stuff: I've been tracking my foods faithfully and drinking plenty of water.
Bad stuff: Been too sore (recent knee surgery) to work out the way I want to.
Goal for today: Get some cardio and strength in that is more then going through the motions. I already logged it so now I have to do it lol!
Mary from South Central PA
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Michelle - I had to laugh when you posted that Vince got a letter from Melania Trump. There were times throughout our marriage that I wished my DH would get a rich girlfriend that would have plenty of money to keep up with his expensive tastes, lol. I was the saver, he was the spender. How long have you been doing the ceramics, by the way? Great job and you have a nifty collection!
Janetr - wow, tremendous Monday Fitbit stats! My Fitbit would catch on fire if I logged that many steps in one day, lol.
Allie - did you have any time to work on that big application this past weekend? If not, here's an idea - break it down into chunks. Start on a resume. Inventory your skills gained in your jobs - customer service, attention to detail, filing, computers, whatever. Other "skills" such as working with the elderly, animals, etc. For references - I bet the dentist before Pandy would be a great reference, so get his contact info and perhaps even give him a call and he could help you. The nursing home where DFIL stays would give you a reference I'm sure, contact them too and make sure you have the right phone numbers and the right person. Just start in that direction in baby steps if you haven't already.
Another idea - when you get resume created, why not post it here and let the fabulous writers on this board proofread and tweak it
Whether you have to apply for a job on your own, or have employment security help you, you'll need to have all of this information handy.
Mary's story about her husband leaving his job closely resembles what happened to me when I left the 911 Manager job many years ago. State L&I said I didn't have a case even tho stress was huge. Labor attorney said my boss was an *kitten* but doing nothing illegal. If you have 3 to 6 months worth of income stashed away, that will lessen the pressure and help with the stress no matter what happens.
I am heading into town this morning to drop off the thrift store and visiting nurses items. It's a start. I "helped" DH get rid of a few things too. Shhssshhh... don't tell him,
Make it a great day, ladies!
Lanette
SW WA State5 -
Allie I second the other comments. As hard as it is keep looking for something else while you have your job. Having a job can make it easier to find another. If you are working 20 hours it gives you time to find something else. If he fires you then you can more than likely file for unemployment. If you quit you more than likely you cannot. I would be careful about threatening law suits too. Again that might make it harder to find something else.2
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last 3 days, no gym workout, just riding to sumner instead.2
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Lisa - You described perfectly what I am going through using a DOS program at work! You just said it in a much more colourful way than I would have. Thanks for the laugh!
Sharon - Thank you, they are quite happy, they have been together for 10 years and this day was a long time coming.
Karen in VA - I can't believe the issues you have had with that fridge! LG is not an inexpensive product but it sounds cheap from the troubles you have had. I hope that they come good for it for you. Lilliana Belle what a pretty name.
Evelyn - My hubby gets under my feet when I clean too, but I don't think a cat would be much better LOL Maybe we need to build a women's only retirement community. Rosalie is such a pretty name too. A lot of the older names are coming back into style now. I like that much more than some of the made up names over the last few years.
Terri - It sure feels different learning a whole new industry after all of the wedding planning. I am feeling quite lost at home as I don't have any projects on the go and feel rather lazy about it. I may give it another few days and then start thinking about some Christmas projects as it will be here before I know it.
Kate in UK - I have been struggling controlling my eating as well, I'm not sure why and hope that since the company has gone and things have calmed down I can get back on track.
Allie - I wish you great success today talking to the doctor.
Was up early and thought I had time to get caught up before going to work, but guess not. I will check in again this evening. On page 52.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Allie, I'm sure that there are a lot of spiritual principles you've learned from Joyce that will help you approach your current job with an attitude of gratitude and a feeling of usefulness. Also reread everything that the others have said about approaching your boss.
Barbie
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margaretturk wrote: »Allie I second the other comments. As hard as it is keep looking for something else while you have your job. Having a job can make it easier to find another. If you are working 20 hours it gives you time to find something else. If he fires you then you can more than likely file for unemployment. If you quit you more than likely you cannot. I would be careful about threatening law suits too. Again that might make it harder to find something else.
Here's another thing to check. Are part time employees eligible for unemployment? I tried to research it, but the articles only talked about working part time while receiving benefits and moving from full time to part time and being eligible for partial benefits.
Find a job before quitting a job is important,I think.
Good luck, Allie.
Felicia
Willamette Valley, Oregon4 -
Her class in Toddler relationships while abroad came in handy last night.They had a conversation tailored to him.Sounded like he was talking about the Aquaman movie as her job lol 😂.
JR - Where you goes?
D-I'm in a Special Magical Place
JR-Why?? Why? Why's you no there?
D - I go here to fight the bad guys to keep everyone safe including you
JR- Supershero?
Me-Yes she a superhero 🦸♀️
D-(caught off guard) guess I'm a superhero then
JR -What's you Powers?
D -Brains
Me- she's super smart like some superheroes she has the circles coming from her head when she thinks.
JR- Ooooh KOOL!
Does she have shoes 👞?
D-Yes I wear shoes
JR -What shoes? Water shoes?
D- No land shoes
Me-Black shiny shoes their for boats
JR-Do you get a Wet Suit???
D-No I'm on boats not in the water
JR -Do you get swimming shoes?
D y me-No just shiny shoes
JR- Wet suit you wear wet suit?
D-No wet suit
JR- oh okay you pow pow bads guys get wet suit.
D- okay I'll ask for a wet suit
JR-Yes Yes So you can fight bad guys in the waters.
Me-Think he's thinking of the aquaman movie you watched with him before you left.
JR-Green wet suit you get. Then he said night night started rubbing his eyes y crying to go to bed.
So his sister is Aqua-man superhero now lol
Amber Tx
Hurt my back lifting JR again heard the breast bone to back pop .Not the 1st or last time just got to watch,rest,y Tylenol it for awhile.My Cousin hurt her back too but lifting the dog it got hyper while picking it up wrenched her back.Lol we joked JR/her dog are one in the same.JR y her dog squeal at each other while we’re on the phone then they do the same things lol. Think they got a collaboration going on.3 -
Another idea - when you get resume created, why not post it here and let the fabulous writers on this board proofread and tweak it
Lanette
SW WA State
In a private message or maybe our group ... not here in this thread.
Way too much personal information in a CV for it to be broadcast to the general public. Remember, everything here is searchable and accessible by anyone.
Machka in Oz1 -
OregonMother wrote: »margaretturk wrote: »Allie I second the other comments. As hard as it is keep looking for something else while you have your job. Having a job can make it easier to find another. If you are working 20 hours it gives you time to find something else. If he fires you then you can more than likely file for unemployment. If you quit you more than likely you cannot. I would be careful about threatening law suits too. Again that might make it harder to find something else.
Here's another thing to check. Are part time employees eligible for unemployment? I tried to research it, but the articles only talked about working part time while receiving benefits and moving from full time to part time and being eligible for partial benefits.
Find a job before quitting a job is important,I think.
Good luck, Allie.
Felicia
Willamette Valley, Oregon
Good point on part time and Unemployment Felicia! I didn’t remember she was officially part time.
Okie0 -
I am just relaxed waiting for lunchtime. Good luck to those looking for better jobs. The work market has gotten so harsh. Sad that bosses can't play nice.
I am trying to eat under my 1200 so the average comes out at 1200 after my weekend splurge. This upcoming weekend is my brother's funeral. That is bound to involve lots of food again. Always a challenge. Maybe it is petty of me to be counting calories the weekend of a funeral, but I guess I have my priorities.3 -
OregonMother wrote: »margaretturk wrote: »Allie I second the other comments. As hard as it is keep looking for something else while you have your job. Having a job can make it easier to find another. If you are working 20 hours it gives you time to find something else. If he fires you then you can more than likely file for unemployment. If you quit you more than likely you cannot. I would be careful about threatening law suits too. Again that might make it harder to find something else.
Here's another thing to check. Are part time employees eligible for unemployment? I tried to research it, but the articles only talked about working part time while receiving benefits and moving from full time to part time and being eligible for partial benefits.
Find a job before quitting a job is important,I think.
Good luck, Allie.
Felicia
Willamette Valley, Oregon
Felicia - your post spiked my curiosity, so I checked WA State unemployment benefit rules. They have a nifty calculator. Benefits here are based on a formula taking into account the past year or so's quarterly earnings, full time or part time makes no difference. Looks like in most cases, the weekly benefit will be around half what the regular income was, unless you were a high earner (then it's considerably less!), and it's subject to FIT of course.
Lanette
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Annie- Don’t worry about it a lot of us do to gastric bypass, surgeries,health issues,y needing to get down for better health have to count calories or watch what we grab no matter the event. Can even do what a friend of mine did he carried a Tupperware in his bag (manpurse) to put on a plate at events when he sat down.He had gastric even tho family members didn’t understand he had to measure so worked for him. I grab a protein reasonable portion a lot of veggies to fruit.Skip breads to desserts y drinks. Stick with water. Can add it up after or under the table then skip something on your plate if need be.
Amber Tx1 -
Annie- Don’t worry about it a lot of us do to gastric bypass, surgeries,health issues,y needing to get down for better health have to count calories or watch what we grab no matter the event. Can even do what a friend of mine did he carried a Tupperware in his bag (manpurse) to put on a plate at events when he sat down.He had gastric even tho family members didn’t understand he had to measure so worked for him. I grab a protein reasonable portion a lot of veggies to fruit.Skip breads to desserts y drinks. Stick with water. Can add it up after or under the table then skip something on your plate if need be.
Amber Tx1 -
Heather: I know that during the full moon phase I always drop into a funk. Gently and intentionally forgive yourself, do something that feels right.
I would love to have more time alone! DH has been stable the past few days and I attribute it to his getting to bed at decent hour. I give him 4 oz of tart cherry juice around 10 PM, which may be helping. Still too soon to tell. He used to be meticulous, so much so that my nickname for him was POF (Picky Ol' Fart). Dementia has affected his sense of order. He thinks he's putting things away, but I have to follow him around to make sure he's not putting forks in the bathroom, dishsoap in the refrigerator, or my favorite pan in the food pantry. I constantly pick up items he has cast off in the walk in closet we share. I redid his underwear and sock drawers so are fewer items, and are all visible when you open the drawer (Kondo method). Still lots of papers and books to purge, but I would need him to be out of the house for a couple of hours, and I don't see that happening anytime soon.
Mr. Mars, the Leash Loving Cat is crooning at me to take him out. Sorry, I'll have to come back to finish this later.
Rori
Colorado Foothills
Slave to a Little Lion Boy
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Lanette wrote "Janetr - wow, tremendous Monday Fitbit stats! My Fitbit would catch on fire if I logged that many steps in one day, lol."
Thanks, 3 miles came from my treadmill workout. My daughter say as I'm addicted. Before having my knees replaced I pretty much gave it up, since knee surgery I started slowly and worked up speed and length of time walking. For my 5'2" frame, 3 miles in 45 minutes is a hustle. I love it.
Janetr OKC3 -
Janet ~ Do your knees not bother you when you walk that far and when you do the kettle squats?
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Hi, I'm Jennie and I'm 58. I'm really struggling with a lot of issues -- weight, health, family, finances -- and sometimes it seems too hard to do, but what choice do I have?
I have been very successful at losing weight in the past. VERY. Also, I am very successful at gaining it back. VERY.I have attempted many times in the last couple of years, only to fall flat on my face. This time, as in other successful times, something feels.....different. I don't know. I feel hesitant to "put myself out there" on MyFitnessPal message boards. I know my chances of being successful are greatly increased by finding like-minded people and building a support network for myself. BUT I barely have time to write this and then I feel badly if I don't ready every single other post and respond and, well, it gets exhausting. Sometimes I wish you could read a post and respond in your head and that message would be sent. Someday when we all have microchips in our heads. LOL I dunno, it makes me feel like I'm an attention-seeker without giving back. It's hard for me to connect.
I am a dog lover and have 2 westies and one very small but sassy long-haired chihuahua that I rescued from a street corner a month ago. I called the shelter every day until they finally just asked, "So....do you want this dog, because the person that turns them in to animal control gets first dibs after they determine that the owner can't be found." I'm getting a little flack about a third dog, but whatever. Some days I feel like it's the only family I have to come home to. (Said the crazy dog lady with 15 dogs. *sigh*)
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1948Peachy wrote: »Janet ~ Do your knees not bother you when you walk that far and when you do the kettle squats?
Yes, Carol, they do hurt, sometimes worse than others. At least not excruciating pain like they did before replacement. I have to say I've never been completely pain free since the replacements which has been pretty disappointing. I do use knee braces when on the treadmill, which helps. I had to start out very slowly and for a very short time, its taken several years to get here. Right knee was January 2015, left, September of 2015.
Janetr OKC2
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