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  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,401 Member
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  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    Speaking of reasons..

    The other day I went to the grocery store to pick up a few things, I didnt have many bags, unlike my last trip where it took me 7 trips back and forth to get everything inside...

    So I'm waiting for my cab, he shows up, and immediately walks right over to my cart right behind me pretty much shoulder to shoulder to grab some of my bags.

    I said "it's okay, I got them" but he took them anyway.

    So I get in the car and I see no disinfecting wipes or sanitizer, no masks no gloves.. nothing.

    We get to my place and after I pay him, I get out and go around to get the bags and again he gets out and comes right up beside me and grabs some bags

    Again I said "it's okay I can take them" and he said no no, I will carry them to your place, and I said no, it's fine, i can handle them.

    I basically had to pry my bags from his hands.

    I honestly wouldnt think.. at this point that i would have to be blunt and state the obvious about social distancing... as it's been everywhere you go for weeks. So it surprised me that twice he gave no thought to himself or me..

    In trying to be a gentleman he removed my ability twice to maintain my own 6 feet of space.

    I dont know if he just didnt get it? Or if he just didnt care. But it's people like that, that would make it hard to reopen parts of the city or county without them just coming into that space.

    I was pretty mad.. last thing I need is to catch this just before I return to work because someone else just didnt care or doesnt take it seriously enough.

    All i could think was... what if he had done this for all his passengers? Then by being that close to me, shared it with me cause he picked it up from someone else.... what if I was unlucky enough to bring something home from the store and by him grabbing my bags, hes got it and now sharing it with new passengers.

    I actually wrote a tiny rant about it on my main profile as a vent, and someone that is no longer a friend cause they deleted themselves, condescendingly told me that they Hope I find happiness in my life so I dont blame others.

    So besides the cab driver, here is another person who seems to think violation of space and potential infection from someone else should be invited with love and acceptance.

    I dont blame those who ended up with it, it spread so quickly, and it's been hard to control, but I will get mad at those who dont do their own part to work together to protect those who haven't yet. Its gonna spread enough as it is, just trying to maintain some essential services to live and work, why make it harder?

    Keep your distance. Wash your hands. And those red arrows on the floor at the grocery store indicating which direction the flow of the aisle is.. follow it, dont just barge down the wrong way because you're only getting 1 thing and you dont wanna walk down another aisle just to go in the right direction. It's not hard..

    Lol... so frustrating when I see things like this

    Perhaps a call to the cab company as a gentle reminder, since this has happened more than once.

    Oh, well no, only the once, lol you read my rant the other day I'm sure, that's who I'm talking about lol

    I even looked at the date before responding, because it seemed familiar.
  • Unicorn_Bacon
    Unicorn_Bacon Posts: 491 Member
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    Speaking of reasons..

    The other day I went to the grocery store to pick up a few things, I didnt have many bags, unlike my last trip where it took me 7 trips back and forth to get everything inside...

    So I'm waiting for my cab, he shows up, and immediately walks right over to my cart right behind me pretty much shoulder to shoulder to grab some of my bags.

    I said "it's okay, I got them" but he took them anyway.

    So I get in the car and I see no disinfecting wipes or sanitizer, no masks no gloves.. nothing.

    We get to my place and after I pay him, I get out and go around to get the bags and again he gets out and comes right up beside me and grabs some bags

    Again I said "it's okay I can take them" and he said no no, I will carry them to your place, and I said no, it's fine, i can handle them.

    I basically had to pry my bags from his hands.

    I honestly wouldnt think.. at this point that i would have to be blunt and state the obvious about social distancing... as it's been everywhere you go for weeks. So it surprised me that twice he gave no thought to himself or me..

    In trying to be a gentleman he removed my ability twice to maintain my own 6 feet of space.

    I dont know if he just didnt get it? Or if he just didnt care. But it's people like that, that would make it hard to reopen parts of the city or county without them just coming into that space.

    I was pretty mad.. last thing I need is to catch this just before I return to work because someone else just didnt care or doesnt take it seriously enough.

    All i could think was... what if he had done this for all his passengers? Then by being that close to me, shared it with me cause he picked it up from someone else.... what if I was unlucky enough to bring something home from the store and by him grabbing my bags, hes got it and now sharing it with new passengers.

    I actually wrote a tiny rant about it on my main profile as a vent, and someone that is no longer a friend cause they deleted themselves, condescendingly told me that they Hope I find happiness in my life so I dont blame others.

    So besides the cab driver, here is another person who seems to think violation of space and potential infection from someone else should be invited with love and acceptance.

    I dont blame those who ended up with it, it spread so quickly, and it's been hard to control, but I will get mad at those who dont do their own part to work together to protect those who haven't yet. Its gonna spread enough as it is, just trying to maintain some essential services to live and work, why make it harder?

    Keep your distance. Wash your hands. And those red arrows on the floor at the grocery store indicating which direction the flow of the aisle is.. follow it, dont just barge down the wrong way because you're only getting 1 thing and you dont wanna walk down another aisle just to go in the right direction. It's not hard..

    Lol... so frustrating when I see things like this

    Perhaps a call to the cab company as a gentle reminder, since this has happened more than once.

    Oh, well no, only the once, lol you read my rant the other day I'm sure, that's who I'm talking about lol

    I even looked at the date before responding, because it seemed familiar.

    Yeah as it's been a few days it's slightly less angry hahaha
  • whoami67
    whoami67 Posts: 297 Member
    I appreciate those who were trying to discuss politics without being political, but some of the posts in response weren't seeming to follow that guideline.
  • lynn_glenmont
    lynn_glenmont Posts: 10,089 Member
    JustSomeEm wrote: »
    Just got back from Walmart. Got there right as it was opening and managed to snag some TP! Woot! There wasn't much on the shelf, so I'm sure it is already gone by now. They also had Easter candy at half off... I brought way nore home than I should have. I probably should have eaten before I headed out htis morning. During all this 'stay at home' stuff, I've been trying to create sourdough starter, which is taking a LOT of flour. Part of the process is feeding the starter twice a day for a short time to get it going, so I needed to pick up some flour too. There wasn't very much of it, and I felt a bit wasteful buying it to feed to a starter that I'm having trouble getting to do much. I'm strongly considering stopping this little experiment until things are more normal, which makes me a little sad, since I have so much extra time now and likely won't later. :( What are y'all doing to pass the time? I have work for 8 hours each day, exercise, cooking and I'm working on a Masters Degree, so homework. But other ideas are always welcome.

    You could bake something with the part of the starter you remove before feeding it; that way you wouldn't be wasting anything. Obviously not something calling for sourdough starter before you've really got it going properly, but you could use the discard for flour and water in another recipe that uses yeast, if you have yeast, or other leavening agent that you have, or for a recipe that doesn't require leavening ... my brain is tired and all I'm thinking of is pie crust, which doesn't call for a whole lot of water, so there might be more water in the starter discard than there would be in a whole crust recipe. ... You could try freezing it and saving it for thickening gravy. or maybe a roux, although a little would go a long way for those purposes.
  • lynn_glenmont
    lynn_glenmont Posts: 10,089 Member
    "well at least they passed fast and didnt suffer, how long before the room is empty? We need to have it cleaned for the next resident to live in it"

    ...and yet, people can be so cruel.

    I've had the misfortune to lose all my family members, one by one.

    The things people say just defy explanation.


    If you don't know what to say, say nothing.



    ...and yeah, this virus is Nature's way. Doesn't mean it isn't horribly painful.

    I'm so sorry, that's awful.. =/
    I agree, if grief and condolences are not something you excel at, the best thing you can do is not say anything.

    You know... sometimes I've had situations come up where I literally have no idea how to react with words, which really sucks if I'm alone, but if I cant think of what to say, I usually shoot for what the next most appropriate thing would be, in the case of loss, I would ask if i could give them a hug.

    If I'm with others, i will allow someone else to say something and use that as a learning experience, because while i work in a place where loss of family is reality, I have honestly never lost anyone before. I had to learn my empathy of how it feels, and while i am sincere, I cant imagine I'm even close to how it truly feels. I know the sadness I feel thinking about what my life would be like once I lose everyone I'm close to but I cant compare it to the reality, but I do try my best to use what I feel and learn based on only outside experience to be there for people when they're struggling.

    My mother was a registered nurse and worked the night shift for many years. Sometimes she'd arrive home in the morning and say that someone had died. I was a kid and looked at her horrified, and asked if she was afraid to be alone in a room when someone died. I'll never forget her response "No, I consider it a privilege to be there at that time and comfort the family as best I can".

    I have unfortunately missed deaths of residents who I grew close to. I remember one person I used to visit quite frequently when I would work and I'd stay and chat with her for a while, i remember as time went on, she became less and less interested in coming out for meals, I brought her in some home made turkey soup, and she told me that she was just so tired of living and that she was ready to go, that was truly one of those moments where I didnt know what to say because here is a person whose life has meaning and value and who I enjoyed visiting and getting to know, who has friends and family who would miss her... but also, who was i to dismiss how she felt and not also be fully present for her desires, despite what it truly was?

    I wanted to tell her she was just being silly and that shes going to be here for a long time. But while that sentiment would show her I cared for her, it also would of made her feel lonely in her own feelings inside.

    I put my hand in her hand and I said to her "well.. I want you to know that I have loved every minute we have spent getting to know each other and getting to serve you meals, and I will continue to do that no matter how much time that is"

    She smiled and said thank you and said it was a pleasure to have someone like me. She passed away not soon after on my weekend off.

    I walked out of that room tho, unsure if what I said was the right thing to say. It was an experience to learn from.

    That made me cry, but in a good way.

    I can't imagine anything you could have said that would have been better than that.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    edited April 2020
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    Speaking of reasons..

    The other day I went to the grocery store to pick up a few things, I didnt have many bags, unlike my last trip where it took me 7 trips back and forth to get everything inside...

    So I'm waiting for my cab, he shows up, and immediately walks right over to my cart right behind me pretty much shoulder to shoulder to grab some of my bags.

    I said "it's okay, I got them" but he took them anyway.

    So I get in the car and I see no disinfecting wipes or sanitizer, no masks no gloves.. nothing.

    We get to my place and after I pay him, I get out and go around to get the bags and again he gets out and comes right up beside me and grabs some bags

    Again I said "it's okay I can take them" and he said no no, I will carry them to your place, and I said no, it's fine, i can handle them.

    I basically had to pry my bags from his hands.

    I honestly wouldnt think.. at this point that i would have to be blunt and state the obvious about social distancing... as it's been everywhere you go for weeks. So it surprised me that twice he gave no thought to himself or me..

    In trying to be a gentleman he removed my ability twice to maintain my own 6 feet of space.

    I dont know if he just didnt get it? Or if he just didnt care. But it's people like that, that would make it hard to reopen parts of the city or county without them just coming into that space.

    I was pretty mad.. last thing I need is to catch this just before I return to work because someone else just didnt care or doesnt take it seriously enough.

    All i could think was... what if he had done this for all his passengers? Then by being that close to me, shared it with me cause he picked it up from someone else.... what if I was unlucky enough to bring something home from the store and by him grabbing my bags, hes got it and now sharing it with new passengers.

    I actually wrote a tiny rant about it on my main profile as a vent, and someone that is no longer a friend cause they deleted themselves, condescendingly told me that they Hope I find happiness in my life so I dont blame others.

    So besides the cab driver, here is another person who seems to think violation of space and potential infection from someone else should be invited with love and acceptance.

    I dont blame those who ended up with it, it spread so quickly, and it's been hard to control, but I will get mad at those who dont do their own part to work together to protect those who haven't yet. Its gonna spread enough as it is, just trying to maintain some essential services to live and work, why make it harder?

    Keep your distance. Wash your hands. And those red arrows on the floor at the grocery store indicating which direction the flow of the aisle is.. follow it, dont just barge down the wrong way because you're only getting 1 thing and you dont wanna walk down another aisle just to go in the right direction. It's not hard..

    Lol... so frustrating when I see things like this

    Perhaps a call to the cab company as a gentle reminder, since this has happened more than once.

    Oh, well no, only the once, lol you read my rant the other day I'm sure, that's who I'm talking about lol

    Did you have a mask on? To me, unless someone has been living under a rock for the last 3 months, it should've been obvious anyways but especially if you were wearing a mask. :/ Was he an older guy? I have found(and I hate to generalize here but....) a lot of the older men I've seen, have poo-poo-ed this whole thing. Macho maybe? Or just extra gentlemanly and impossible to change his ways?
    Either way, it's kind of unsettling. :( I had seen an uptake of wearing masks lately, which was making me feel much safer. But yesterday when I went to the grocery store, only about 1/4 of the shoppers were wearing one and even less of the workers. And not as much social distancing as I've been noticing either. :( Are people getting sick of it or becoming desensitized? :(
    My elderly neighbor keeps stopping over to visit. :/ He's 87 yo and I've spoken to him about staying home but he stayed away for 2 weeks and felt that was enough. :( And he sees that I'm not coughing, etc., so figures all is well. He feels this is all a ridiculous farce anyways. :( I'm afraid there are still way too many who aren't taking this seriously.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    I'm really curious about some important points to all this:

    How do they determine when 'peak' has hit, when it'll get better, etc.? I see so many places where the media says we're at peak and I am really curious how on earth they can know that? Especially since they're not even sure that people cannot contract this more than once. :/

    How do we reopen the economy without recreating all the disastrous sickness, contagion, from spreading further and how will the health field/workers deal with that. It seems almost impossible for everybody to keep up now and if/when they open for business again, won't it simply become a nation of critical hot spots once again?

    Discuss please? Thank you.
  • Unicorn_Bacon
    Unicorn_Bacon Posts: 491 Member
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    Speaking of reasons..

    The other day I went to the grocery store to pick up a few things, I didnt have many bags, unlike my last trip where it took me 7 trips back and forth to get everything inside...

    So I'm waiting for my cab, he shows up, and immediately walks right over to my cart right behind me pretty much shoulder to shoulder to grab some of my bags.

    I said "it's okay, I got them" but he took them anyway.

    So I get in the car and I see no disinfecting wipes or sanitizer, no masks no gloves.. nothing.

    We get to my place and after I pay him, I get out and go around to get the bags and again he gets out and comes right up beside me and grabs some bags

    Again I said "it's okay I can take them" and he said no no, I will carry them to your place, and I said no, it's fine, i can handle them.

    I basically had to pry my bags from his hands.

    I honestly wouldnt think.. at this point that i would have to be blunt and state the obvious about social distancing... as it's been everywhere you go for weeks. So it surprised me that twice he gave no thought to himself or me..

    In trying to be a gentleman he removed my ability twice to maintain my own 6 feet of space.

    I dont know if he just didnt get it? Or if he just didnt care. But it's people like that, that would make it hard to reopen parts of the city or county without them just coming into that space.

    I was pretty mad.. last thing I need is to catch this just before I return to work because someone else just didnt care or doesnt take it seriously enough.

    All i could think was... what if he had done this for all his passengers? Then by being that close to me, shared it with me cause he picked it up from someone else.... what if I was unlucky enough to bring something home from the store and by him grabbing my bags, hes got it and now sharing it with new passengers.

    I actually wrote a tiny rant about it on my main profile as a vent, and someone that is no longer a friend cause they deleted themselves, condescendingly told me that they Hope I find happiness in my life so I dont blame others.

    So besides the cab driver, here is another person who seems to think violation of space and potential infection from someone else should be invited with love and acceptance.

    I dont blame those who ended up with it, it spread so quickly, and it's been hard to control, but I will get mad at those who dont do their own part to work together to protect those who haven't yet. Its gonna spread enough as it is, just trying to maintain some essential services to live and work, why make it harder?

    Keep your distance. Wash your hands. And those red arrows on the floor at the grocery store indicating which direction the flow of the aisle is.. follow it, dont just barge down the wrong way because you're only getting 1 thing and you dont wanna walk down another aisle just to go in the right direction. It's not hard..

    Lol... so frustrating when I see things like this

    Perhaps a call to the cab company as a gentle reminder, since this has happened more than once.

    Oh, well no, only the once, lol you read my rant the other day I'm sure, that's who I'm talking about lol

    Did you have a mask on? To me, unless someone has been living under a rock for the last 3 months, it should've been obvious anyways but especially if you were wearing a mask. :/ Was he an older guy? I have found(and I hate to generalize here but....) a lot of the older men I've seen, have poo-poo-ed this whole thing. Macho maybe? Or just extra gentlemanly and impossible to change his ways?
    Either way, it's kind of unsettling. :( I had seen an uptake of wearing masks lately, which was making me feel much safer. But yesterday when I went to the grocery store, only about 1/4 of the shoppers were wearing one and even less of the workers. And not as much social distancing as I've been noticing either. :( Are people getting sick of it or becoming desensitized? :(
    My elderly neighbor keeps stopping over to visit. :/ He's 87 yo and I've spoken to him about staying home but he stayed away for 2 weeks and felt that was enough. :( And he sees that I'm not coughing, etc., so figures all is well. He feels this is all a ridiculous farce anyways. :( I'm afraid there are still way too many who aren't taking this seriously.

    I ordered a mask but it hasn't arrived yet.

    While he was an older male, I had two previous cab drivers other days who also were and apologized to me for being unable to help.. so who knows about this guy. Lol

    But your neighbor sounds like my mom, who I've spoken about before, saying shes not scared of me so why does she need to distance herself away from me, couldn't understand how social distancing could apply to your family. My grandmother even said to her "you need to social distance get that through your head" and she looked at her and said "well we hug".. and my grandmother said "well we shouldnt be"

    And even after that conversation she wouldnt distance from me, which is why I've not gone back to see them since.
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,118 Member
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    whoami67 wrote: »
    I appreciate those who were trying to discuss politics without being political, but some of the posts in response weren't seeming to follow that guideline.

    Well, politicians are making it political, and it’s a no win situation. What should take precedence, economics or lives? They are intertwined. No winners, but, losers either way. I happen to trust medical experts on this one. Lives are more important. The economy can be built back up. Err on the side of caution.

    Here on the MFP forums, the terms of service we agreed to when we signed up say that political discussions are not acceptable.

    People may hold any view they prefer. Here, on a diet/health/fitness site, we're expected to keep discussion politically neutral and nonpolemical. There are plenty of other social media sites where politics/polemics are expected and allowed, if people want that.

    I don’t see this as political or attacking. Sorry if you see it that way. It was purely meant as a way of uniting people.

    I didn't see your post as political or attacking at all, or intend mine as arguing with yours.

    In a sub-thread about "getting political", I just thought it was a reasonable thing to restate why we keep it nonpolitical.here.

    No criticism of you intended: Just intending to be continuing the conversation.

    :flowerforyou:
  • missysippy930
    missysippy930 Posts: 2,577 Member
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    whoami67 wrote: »
    I appreciate those who were trying to discuss politics without being political, but some of the posts in response weren't seeming to follow that guideline.

    Well, politicians are making it political, and it’s a no win situation. What should take precedence, economics or lives? They are intertwined. No winners, but, losers either way. I happen to trust medical experts on this one. Lives are more important. The economy can be built back up. Err on the side of caution.

    Here on the MFP forums, the terms of service we agreed to when we signed up say that political discussions are not acceptable.

    People may hold any view they prefer. Here, on a diet/health/fitness site, we're expected to keep discussion politically neutral and nonpolemical. There are plenty of other social media sites where politics/polemics are expected and allowed, if people want that.

    I don’t see this as political or attacking. Sorry if you see it that way. It was purely meant as a way of uniting people.

    I didn't see your post as political or attacking at all, or intend mine as arguing with yours.

    In a sub-thread about "getting political", I just thought it was a reasonable thing to restate why we keep it nonpolitical.here.

    No criticism of you intended: Just intending to be continuing the conversation.

    :flowerforyou:

    Thank you for explaining. My dd actually informed me of the event, knowing how much I like Carole King.
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  • lemurcat2
    lemurcat2 Posts: 7,885 Member
    edited April 2020
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    I'm really curious about some important points to all this:

    How do they determine when 'peak' has hit, when it'll get better, etc.? I see so many places where the media says we're at peak and I am really curious how on earth they can know that? Especially since they're not even sure that people cannot contract this more than once. :/

    How do we reopen the economy without recreating all the disastrous sickness, contagion, from spreading further and how will the health field/workers deal with that. It seems almost impossible for everybody to keep up now and if/when they open for business again, won't it simply become a nation of critical hot spots once again?

    Discuss please? Thank you.

    When cases start going down consistently and it's not due to changes in testing that make testing lower, I suppose. But I agree that not knowing how much immunity is conveyed by having it presents a problem. I also agree that how to reopen is a tough question. That's what they are all trying to figure out now.

    Ideally we will be able to test to see who had it (if there is immunity), will continue some kinds of social distancing and likely not jump right into big group events, and the like. Also hopefully we will find some treatment that actually works sooner, rather than later.
  • Unicorn_Bacon
    Unicorn_Bacon Posts: 491 Member
    I was reading an article today that they expect peak here will be late april, early may, but that restriction likely wont be considered being lifted til june, and they base that statistic on cases here, and how patterns are in other canadian provinces.

    I'm skeptical tho.. lol..