WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2022
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fanncy0626 wrote: »I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
But you wouldn't photos of your underage grandchildren on FB, right? Or at least not without the permission of their parents!
Of course I do!! Just like you see pictures on here all the time of our children and our grandchildren!! You say positive comments about them all the time what's up now?? I love seeing my children and grandchildren. And no evil is going to stop me from enjoying my life!! Please don't let it stop you 💞3 -
My grandchildren have their own phones, tablets, tv's, and computers. They are on TikTok and all the other popular sites. I really think there would be a problem if they are sharing their lives and locations on those sites and I just have to hope that they have been taught not to do so. They are being brought up by responsible parents and monitored and they are being taught moral values through their church.
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fanncy0626 wrote: »fanncy0626 wrote: »I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
But you wouldn't photos of your underage grandchildren on FB, right? Or at least not without the permission of their parents!
Of course I do!! Just like you see pictures on here all the time of our children and our grandchildren!! You say positive comments about them all the time what's up now?? I love seeing my children and grandchildren. And no evil is going to stop me from enjoying my life!! Please don't let it stop you 💞
Do I?
Like I said ... research it and make your own decisions.
You're the one who has to be comfortable with your decisions, not me.
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grandmallie wrote: »Tried to talk to Carmine on the 5 minute ride to school..
Told him was glad he got out with his friend and that i loved him and will always be here if he wanted to talk and he just kept saying I'm not listening,i don't care..shut up.. etc... ugh
Allie, Keep up the good work. Teenagers are still a lot like babies. You keep saying I love you to Miles when he screams all day and poops and smells. Teenagers just have different ways of screaming, pooping, and smelling. Just make it your mantra to come from a place of love.
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Did a body pump DVD today. I’m going to work tomorrow so no formal exercise. I just didn’t feel like it today. And since I’d asked for off until Thursday, I really don’t feel guilty. Whenever we’re going to get a delivery, I prep some in anticipation. I bet they didn’t so that would just have meant a lot more work for me and I just didn’t feel like it. I got caught up with the laundry, I really think we need to use the carpet cleaner on the rug that Lexi uses since we seem to have a lot of flies and I’m sure they’re attracted to the rug. I’ll probably also go to WalMart. Needed to make the salmon loaf we’re going to have tonight.
Had a nice trip. I swear, Steve had enough food for an army, literally. We did buy a sheet cake and I brought up some cookies. It was nice to put a face with a name – Steve talks about these people so much. And PJ is getting to be more and more like a little boy, not so much a baby. We took the slide to him and he REALLY enjoyed it. They bought him a bike with training wheels for his birthday, but he is really not ready for it. But he seemed to really enjoy the slide.
We stayed at a hotel and they wouldn’t let him go swimming “because he isn’t a registered guest”. Honestly, I never looked, but is that the rule for most hotels? This hotel was pretty shabby. It didn’t even have a fitness center! So I wound up walking for about 45 minutes. Each day we were at Steve’s I took a walk around his block for usually about an hour.
Honkflap, Karen, MaryQueena and anyone else I may have missed – welcome
Tracey – the “five foot rule” is “if it looks good from 5 feet away – it’s good enough”
Stopped at the ceramics place near Denise (we didn’t tell her we went there) and got 2 of the fish I’d ordered and some brushes. I really like the ones I got before so I got some more. I also ordered this (what they say) is a large pelican. Will probably pick it up Labor Day weekend.
I think Denise was glad to be able to go shopping and get her oil changed without having PJ. I have a feeling she wished we stayed longer. Well, Labor Day weekend.
Allie – I’ve had plantar warts, too. Aren’t they painful?
Annie – I, too, love ready how you are so consistent with your exercise despite everything. Maybe your mom will change her mind about the pill box. Why not get her started using it while you are there? If she’s in the habit, maybe she won’t be so opposed to using it while you’re gone. You deserve time to yourself.
Didn’t eat that good this weekend. Steve had things like fried chicken. But he did have a veggie and fruit platter. He also had assorted cheeses. That’s my ultimate weakness.
Shortly before I go shopping, like the night before, I’ll try to decide what we’ll have (at least the main) for dinner for the next week. Then I look to see what’s on sale.
Lanette – sending love
Gillian – welcome back
Heather – that cake looks scrumptious, and I’m sure it is. What a baker!
Carol – Steve says that his coming to our house is “getting Vince out of jail and being able to go to places like Five Guys and Waffle House”….lol
Gas prices: going to PA we spent over $100 on gas. Don’t even want to think what we spent going from PA to DE to NC
On the cake we got for Steve we had them write “welcome to Steve’s picnic 2022”. So we told him that this implies that he has to have one for 2023. He’s already invited us for June 3 next year!
Allie – some counseling places will let you pay on a payment plan. I agree that Carmine needs a mentor. Why couldn’t Kyle and Tracey give Carmine his phone during the day and take it at night?
Lanette _ so sorry about your toe
I love seeing pics of everyone else’s grandchildren, especially since I can’t see my own. To see how they grow up! Boy, I remember when Bea was born and other things, Athena is so adorable. Joaquin’s problems and they’re solved. Lots of other things. In one sense, I agree with Mary – we can’t stop living.
Phew! Finally caught up. Sorry for anything I may have missed.
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OMG Rebecca! Athena AND puppies! You made my day. THANK YOU. I needed that bc my yesterday S*CKED and today is not turning out much better. Not sure how the week or summer will go. We shall see.
Went over to my new building yesterday to to "see" my new "space" for next year, if you can call it that. It's a storage closet right now that used to be used as a teacher prep area. There's a countertop-type area that they intended to be my "desk". They had no intention of getting me a DESK to sit at, so my feet could touch the GROUND! But doesn't matter because right now, there are so many boxes and so much STUFF in the room that I wouldn't FIT anyway! Went out to my car and CRIED. Came home and CRIED. And basically haven't stopped crying and now Freddy is actively looking for work so I can retire. And I'm looking around the area for a new job, one that I might be able to do from home.
I went over there with the best of hopes that it would be even just "okay" and they really, really let me down. I get it. I know the principal doesn't even want me in the building in the first place. Let me be clear, doesn't want another "any-body" in the building. When my boss told her to find room for me, she said "where" and my boss basically said, "she's coming to your building, it's the most reasonable spot, find an office". So the principal doesn't give a *kitten* where she puts me. Which, of course, makes me feel REALLY WELCOME and all warm and fuzzy! 😒😔🙄
So, I'm going back to "work" today to finish the job that I love to do for people that I really hate working for right now, who truly don't appreciate anything that I do. What a WONDERFUL life.
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Rebecca--Athena is beautiful and so happy. Thanks for sharing.
Barbara--EPC'd is Emergency protective custody. It's where the police put a patient in 72 hour mental health place for evaluation. At the end of the 72 hours the doctors decide if more inpatient treatment is needed or they help set up outpatient treatment. The state pays after insurance or if there is no insurance. Glad you are feeling better and got whatever was caught out. How scary.
Allie--I agree with others proud of you for standing up for yourself about the bed.
I agree that sharing photos is part of what we do. I hope no one stops. I share when I can figure them out. I refuse to let fear keep me from enjoying life and sharing whats important to me. We each have to do what we are comfortable with. Some of these children we have seen since they were born and feel like each one is family.
Well I got brave and applied for a job at one of the nursing homes here in town. It was for a front desk clerk and helping with activites. I talked with the lady this morning and because of insurance and the cut in pay I will not be taking it. With DH and his health since he got the vaccine I can not change insurance and cobra would not be an opition. But at least I tried.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE7 -
Barbie - I agree with you, in your comment to Allie. Carmine can hear you, and they know you love them. Keep up the good work! Just relax the expectation of a miracle! You are there, that's what counts.
And well done about the bed.
Had my hair trimmed in preparation for the cruise. We were both wearing masks, mine medical quality. And I ordered my BP meds early. I had to state why, but it's been approved. DH has booked a barber's appointment for Friday.
We have had to get the gutter man back, because there is a leak at the very front edge. He's coming on Tuesday when DH is at cricket. It's very high up, but he doesn't mind scrambling up a ladder. Most firms won't. He did a lot of work last year, but this is right at the front corner.
I'm having a tea/dinner with my friend G tomorrow. She's in Brighton for an evening conference, so we are meeting at tea time. I hope the weather holds off so we can sit outside. If not, it won't be crowded that early and we can go to an airy place.
Don't want to jinx it now!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
For those of you who wish to continue posting photos of your kids and grandkids and their vacations and activities, I for one will enjoy seeing them. I feel like most of them have been part of my extended family for years.
These past few years of isolation and lockdowns have prevented many of us from visiting families so photos on Facebook were the main means of staying connected.
I think an experienced identity thief has much better ways of causing harm than by looking at photos of our growing grandchildren and their activities here on MFP.
There have been mighty forces at work - media? whatever - who have been successful at keeping some of us bent under the yoke of fear. No wonder mental health is declining.
I like what Mary and many of you have said: "No evil is going to keep me from enjoying my life."
Make it a great day!
Lanette ,
Sunny SW WA State
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Carla sorry to hear about your work situation! Possibly you can talk to the union rep and see if you can work from home. At the very least you need to talk about how you are being treated. When we were over crowded at our school I had to work in our back storage room during prep much like your situation. You need to have the principal clean out the storage area and give you a desk! It wasn't ideal for me but better than going to the media center that was full of students and noisy! 💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/ Minnesota5 -
DH & I opted for cottage and blueberries this morning. I was delighted. I grew the blueberries on my own bushes. They’ve been in the freezer since last summer.
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Regarding online images of the people we love: I think that our society has swung from one polar opposite to another and that the reality is somewhere in the middle. I say this with much love for all sides of the question here that my decision has been to stop worrying about it.
If my daughter has seen fit to post my grandkid's image on Facebook, I consider that tacit permission to post it here. My grandchildren are, in my experience, the most photographed children of all time. Without any exaggeration, I would bet the number of images of them on the internet is in the tens of thousands.
Seriously, I had to scold her yesterday for sending me 15 pictures of people I will never meet (the people she was camping with this weekend). Not because she's exposing them to danger, but because she's annoying the quack out of me with 15 notifications of arriving texts on my phone.
I think we all need to just take a breath and ratchet down the fear a little bit. None of us are posting naked pictures of ourselves or the people we love, we're sharing images that are precious to everyone here, ones that help us celebrate this shared experience reinforcing lifestyle changes that have benefited all of us. As someone else said, we've been able to be part of these babies' lives, many of them from their first few hours.
My two cents, and worth what you paid for it. The only reason I'm not posting a picture of Levi is that he's at the other grandparents and his allergies to the three dogs' hair and the grandparents' cigarette smoke are overwhelming him. He's rubbed his eyes so much that they're swollen and red. I just about burst into tears when I saw the picture of him.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa7 -
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I am sorry that some of you think we should not be sharing photos of our families in this chat. For many of us, our grandchildren and families are our lives. I will refrain from doing so in the future as I certainly do not want to put any of my loved ones in danger.
Carol in GA
I for one love all the family pictures. This is a type of freedom of speech. Those who wish to post pictures do so. If you do not want to, then don’t. My grands are on Facebook by their parents so I have no issues posting them here ( when it works!). But I do respect other’s wishes. My middle daughter does not want me posting her pictures so I don’t. It is an individual decision.
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LisaInArkansas wrote: »Regarding online images of the people we love: I think that our society has swung from one polar opposite to another and that the reality is somewhere in the middle. I say this with much love for all sides of the question here that my decision has been to stop worrying about it.
If my daughter has seen fit to post my grandkid's image on Facebook, I consider that tacit permission to post it here. My grandchildren are, in my experience, the most photographed children of all time. Without any exaggeration, I would bet the number of images of them on the internet is in the tens of thousands.
Seriously, I had to scold her yesterday for sending me 15 pictures of people I will never meet (the people she was camping with this weekend). Not because she's exposing them to danger, but because she's annoying the quack out of me with 15 notifications of arriving texts on my phone.
I think we all need to just take a breath and ratchet down the fear a little bit. None of us are posting naked pictures of ourselves or the people we love, we're sharing images that are precious to everyone here, ones that help us celebrate this shared experience reinforcing lifestyle changes that have benefited all of us. As someone else said, we've been able to be part of these babies' lives, many of them from their first few hours.
My two cents, and worth what you paid for it. The only reason I'm not posting a picture of Levi is that he's at the other grandparents and his allergies to the three dogs' hair and the grandparents' cigarette smoke are overwhelming him. He's rubbed his eyes so much that they're swollen and red. I just about burst into tears when I saw the picture of him.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa
Um I have naked pics you can see if ya wanna!!! *snorts* Sorry I just couldn't resist... It was the nudist in me!!!
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Cute pics Rita!
I walked 2 miles at the gym this morning. Jogged a bit as well. At one point sweat was dripping! So I know I am exercising this old heart of mine!
Having leftover soup today. Its sausage, onion, mushroom, wild rice, zucchini in a nice broth with a couple of spinach/ricotta ravioli. Heaven!
Husband is having leftovers all day today!
Pizza and tomato soup, or his bean soup.
I suppose this topic of posting grandkids is very individualistic. I suppose like most media, if you don't wish to see it, you can scroll on by. I won't take offense. I will be offended though if you text negatively about it. This is a group of support, light and love, and of things, activities that make us happy. Hugs ladies!💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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Stat for the day-
Walk w/family- 1hr 53min 9sec, 97elev, 92ahr, 107mhr, 3.18ap, 6.02mi= 560c
Strava app = 686c2 -
Regarding family photos — DH & I are delighted when our adult kids share photos of their homes and our grandchildren. Facetime is a good place touch bases with family & friends. 😊2
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MaryQueena ... first of all WELCOME! And congratulations for being the first one to "stir the pot" this month! Please believe me, this happens frequently. We are a diverse group of women with very strong opinions! The only subjects off-limit are politics and religion (although you will see me and a few others commenting that we are praying for specific situations ... we just don't tell you to do the same). I hope you'll keep posting whenever the mood strikes you!
I understand the concern of posting children's photos, but I confess that I absolutely love seeing your families. I've been on this recurring thread for many, many years and you all have become like family to me. My husband knows some of you as well because I mention your names often.
Today was not a good day for me ... my food choices were exceedingly poor and emotionally I'm pretty frazzled. I need to rein it all in here sometime soon as the scale is reflecting my behavior.
Beth near Buffalo
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Afternoon ladies
Productive afternoon..
My daughter and son in law dont want pictures of the kids on Facebook so I dont post them.. i do post in messenger to a certain few..
Went for my physical.. and im obese well i know that.. but ,gee i really enjoy my dr she is a hoot.. will have bloodwork done but she is doing that in combo with my nephrologist ..
And no sooner did i get home then radiology called to set up the mammogram.. had the receptionist over there laughing because i told her they like mine because they are large and squishy and easy to move around lol..
Called the furniture place ,and again I was nice but firm..asked why they were able to set up a delivery when product wasnt ready? And i had already taken the bed apart. And I have health issues .so i will be getting the delivery the 18th rather than 11th so another week out. Instead of the 21st or the 28th
Then a young lady on Facebook who moves to Portland does cleaning and organizing she came and gave me a price on cleaning out and organizing for me. She also does Reiki.. so she is going to be a big help..once she gets things organized she is going to come in and clean once a month for me..6 -
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I received word from a dear friend whose husband has passed away. He was a fine man with a good family. My friend’s adult children are grieving along with their mom, and are surrounding her. My heart goes out to the whole family.8
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I am sorry that some of you think we should not be sharing photos of our families in this chat. For many of us, our grandchildren and families are our lives. I will refrain from doing so in the future as I certainly do not want to put any of my loved ones in danger.
Carol in GA
I for one love all the family pictures. This is a type of freedom of speech. Those who wish to post pictures do so. If you do not want to, then don’t. My grands are on Facebook by their parents so I have no issues posting them here ( when it works!). But I do respect other’s wishes. My middle daughter does not want me posting her pictures so I don’t. It is an individual decision.
RvRita
Absolutely.
Do your research.
Talk to your family about how they feel having their photos easily accessible on the internet. Respect their wishes.
Perhaps take some of the precautions mentioned in the article I posted.
And with that awareness, do what makes you feel comfortable.
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Meanwhile I am just the messenger here.
Some of you are acting as if I told you your pictures were too ugly to be posted!!!
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My brother's latest:
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A few pictures from my walk with my zumba buddies- our teacher was out of town so we met at the wetlands- I have never been there, the other two go often.
Sorry, the pictures aren't great- I tried to zoom in too much of the swan family(we saw three families, one in each of the "ponds/lakes" there.
I can't wait to go again. We might go Friday. I told dh when I got home that I really want him to go with me one time. The areas we went were all flat land so he shouldn't have a problem with it-
The snake was just chilling in the middle of the road. We almost stepped on it. Busy chatting and looked down at the last second. He did not want to get off the road- think he liked the warmth. My friend did not want to be near it.
Went to the little park with my daycare girl after school- none of the other kids showed up so we just played- I walked around it while she played or she walked with me.
She has lunch there that I pack for her. I eat when we get home. I hadn't eaten anything (that was almost 2PM) and dh had brought home burger from Jack in the Box- I ate the whole thing and it was a big one- I usually get the Jr, not the Jumbo. Well, there goes about half my calories for the day. Ate it and just left me feeling more hungry, wanting to eat more- more hungry than before I ate. I was pretty good- yes, I did eat a couple onion rings but that was it. Got up and started doing stuff to get me busy and keep my mind of of snacking.
Debbie
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Karen - lovely painting by your brother...
Im tucked in and tired didnt get good sleep last night.2
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