WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2022
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Thank you ladies for your inspiration. Here's to a great June.
Pam in Michigan.2 -
Morning, y'all,
Dental appointment this morning to install the permanent crown. Hopefully quick and painless, just pull the temporary, add super glue and stick on the permanent. But, I need to talk to them about the insurance payment. Delta finally ponied up about a third of what the dentist charged, but according to my online claim dashboard, the payment was sent to the dentist, instead of me.
I had to pay the entire cost before I left the office two weeks ago, and was very clear when I submitted the form that I had already paid and any reimbursement should come to me. I despise dealing with bureaucracies, but I'll go see if I can find my big girl panties and put them on before I call them. Staying on hold isn't my favorite thing, either.
Which reminds me, Kim, that was a really good description of the trainwreck that is health insurance in our country. That's not politics, it's just reality.
Allie - I really do know how scary it is for you and your family when Carmine seemingly doesn't want help or anything else. I don't have any advice except to just be there if Carmine chooses to talk. Proud of you for bowing up to the folks who were supposed to deliver your bed.
My alarm just went off to give me time to get in the shower, get dressed, and head for the dentist by 8:30 am. Gotta go!
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa2 -
Tried to talk to Carmine on the 5 minute ride to school..
Told him was glad he got out with his friend and that i loved him and will always be here if he wanted to talk and he just kept saying im not listening,i dont care..shut up.. etc... ugh4 -
I am sorry that some of you think we should not be sharing photos of our families in this chat. For many of us, our grandchildren and families are our lives. I will refrain from doing so in the future as I certainly do not want to put any of my loved ones in danger.
Carol in GA7 -
I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota10 -
Athena is a charmer. Seems like she may be taking after her grandmother. ❤️ ⭐️ 😇
I hope I can get her to sing! I recall my paternal grandmother teaching me to sing, "Tiny Bubbles ...in the Wine". Not exactly a kids song, but she loved Don Ho, so she'd have me stand on the Woolworths luncheon counter and I would would sing.😋😁
Rebecca
Whidbey
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fanncy0626 wrote: »I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
But you wouldn't photos of your underage grandchildren on FB, right? Or at least not without the permission of their parents!
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Machka ~ All the photos on my Facebook page are of my grandchildren and the family. I will continue to do so and know that they are enjoyed by all the people I am friends with. I am sorry that you feel so strongly about this. You certainly share many photos of yourself and hubby.
Carol in GA4 -
MaryQueena wrote: »Hello all, I am new to this thread, and newly returned to mfp... over 50 years, at least 50 to lose... starting over as a newly 'on my own' woman.. Surprise! Not sure about much these days, grateful for my kids (adults all), my friends and my work.
Side note: (and perhaps this will seem presumptuous of me to bring up..sorry) I work with young children and it is our practice not to share their photos on platforms open to the general world, as they are not old enough to give consent, have no control over how their image may be used, and have little to no capacity to even understand 'consent'. Athena is a lovely little person, but maybe I shouldn't know that..as a complete stranger...?
All these ladies know my Athena, and have seen her grow up, no worries.
Many of us are grandparents, not seeing our grandkids on a daily basis. When we get photos, we share them with our friends. I have never once felt weird in sharing them. Not until now. Thanks!🙃
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa7 -
Machka ~ All the photos on my Facebook page are of my grandchildren and the family. I will continue to do so and know that they are enjoyed by all the people I am friends with. I am sorry that you feel so strongly about this. You certainly share many photos of yourself and hubby.
Carol in GA
We're adults, not children.
Not sure why your sorry that I've expressed my opinion ?? ... as with everything here you can take it or leave it.
I encourage you all to do some research on posting photos and especially photos of children ... and then make up your own minds.
How to Safely Share Photos of Your Child on Social Media
https://www.verywellfamily.com/how-to-safely-share-photos-of-your-kids-on-social-media-51910301 -
fanncy0626 wrote: »I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
But you wouldn't photos of your underage grandchildren on FB, right? Or at least not without the permission of their parents!
Of course I do!! Just like you see pictures on here all the time of our children and our grandchildren!! You say positive comments about them all the time what's up now?? I love seeing my children and grandchildren. And no evil is going to stop me from enjoying my life!! Please don't let it stop you 💞3 -
My grandchildren have their own phones, tablets, tv's, and computers. They are on TikTok and all the other popular sites. I really think there would be a problem if they are sharing their lives and locations on those sites and I just have to hope that they have been taught not to do so. They are being brought up by responsible parents and monitored and they are being taught moral values through their church.
Carol in GA4 -
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fanncy0626 wrote: »fanncy0626 wrote: »I disagree with not sharing photos of family and loved ones. Then everybody should be off of Facebook right!! Evil happens everywhere. We cannot stop living our lives and enjoying other people's lives because of people that are demented. Hopefully there is still more good in the world. 💞🙏💞
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
But you wouldn't photos of your underage grandchildren on FB, right? Or at least not without the permission of their parents!
Of course I do!! Just like you see pictures on here all the time of our children and our grandchildren!! You say positive comments about them all the time what's up now?? I love seeing my children and grandchildren. And no evil is going to stop me from enjoying my life!! Please don't let it stop you 💞
Do I?
Like I said ... research it and make your own decisions.
You're the one who has to be comfortable with your decisions, not me.
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grandmallie wrote: »Tried to talk to Carmine on the 5 minute ride to school..
Told him was glad he got out with his friend and that i loved him and will always be here if he wanted to talk and he just kept saying I'm not listening,i don't care..shut up.. etc... ugh
Allie, Keep up the good work. Teenagers are still a lot like babies. You keep saying I love you to Miles when he screams all day and poops and smells. Teenagers just have different ways of screaming, pooping, and smelling. Just make it your mantra to come from a place of love.
Barbie9 -
Did a body pump DVD today. I’m going to work tomorrow so no formal exercise. I just didn’t feel like it today. And since I’d asked for off until Thursday, I really don’t feel guilty. Whenever we’re going to get a delivery, I prep some in anticipation. I bet they didn’t so that would just have meant a lot more work for me and I just didn’t feel like it. I got caught up with the laundry, I really think we need to use the carpet cleaner on the rug that Lexi uses since we seem to have a lot of flies and I’m sure they’re attracted to the rug. I’ll probably also go to WalMart. Needed to make the salmon loaf we’re going to have tonight.
Had a nice trip. I swear, Steve had enough food for an army, literally. We did buy a sheet cake and I brought up some cookies. It was nice to put a face with a name – Steve talks about these people so much. And PJ is getting to be more and more like a little boy, not so much a baby. We took the slide to him and he REALLY enjoyed it. They bought him a bike with training wheels for his birthday, but he is really not ready for it. But he seemed to really enjoy the slide.
We stayed at a hotel and they wouldn’t let him go swimming “because he isn’t a registered guest”. Honestly, I never looked, but is that the rule for most hotels? This hotel was pretty shabby. It didn’t even have a fitness center! So I wound up walking for about 45 minutes. Each day we were at Steve’s I took a walk around his block for usually about an hour.
Honkflap, Karen, MaryQueena and anyone else I may have missed – welcome
Tracey – the “five foot rule” is “if it looks good from 5 feet away – it’s good enough”
Stopped at the ceramics place near Denise (we didn’t tell her we went there) and got 2 of the fish I’d ordered and some brushes. I really like the ones I got before so I got some more. I also ordered this (what they say) is a large pelican. Will probably pick it up Labor Day weekend.
I think Denise was glad to be able to go shopping and get her oil changed without having PJ. I have a feeling she wished we stayed longer. Well, Labor Day weekend.
Allie – I’ve had plantar warts, too. Aren’t they painful?
Annie – I, too, love ready how you are so consistent with your exercise despite everything. Maybe your mom will change her mind about the pill box. Why not get her started using it while you are there? If she’s in the habit, maybe she won’t be so opposed to using it while you’re gone. You deserve time to yourself.
Didn’t eat that good this weekend. Steve had things like fried chicken. But he did have a veggie and fruit platter. He also had assorted cheeses. That’s my ultimate weakness.
Shortly before I go shopping, like the night before, I’ll try to decide what we’ll have (at least the main) for dinner for the next week. Then I look to see what’s on sale.
Lanette – sending love
Gillian – welcome back
Heather – that cake looks scrumptious, and I’m sure it is. What a baker!
Carol – Steve says that his coming to our house is “getting Vince out of jail and being able to go to places like Five Guys and Waffle House”….lol
Gas prices: going to PA we spent over $100 on gas. Don’t even want to think what we spent going from PA to DE to NC
On the cake we got for Steve we had them write “welcome to Steve’s picnic 2022”. So we told him that this implies that he has to have one for 2023. He’s already invited us for June 3 next year!
Allie – some counseling places will let you pay on a payment plan. I agree that Carmine needs a mentor. Why couldn’t Kyle and Tracey give Carmine his phone during the day and take it at night?
Lanette _ so sorry about your toe
I love seeing pics of everyone else’s grandchildren, especially since I can’t see my own. To see how they grow up! Boy, I remember when Bea was born and other things, Athena is so adorable. Joaquin’s problems and they’re solved. Lots of other things. In one sense, I agree with Mary – we can’t stop living.
Phew! Finally caught up. Sorry for anything I may have missed.
Michele NC4 -
OMG Rebecca! Athena AND puppies! You made my day. THANK YOU. I needed that bc my yesterday S*CKED and today is not turning out much better. Not sure how the week or summer will go. We shall see.
Went over to my new building yesterday to to "see" my new "space" for next year, if you can call it that. It's a storage closet right now that used to be used as a teacher prep area. There's a countertop-type area that they intended to be my "desk". They had no intention of getting me a DESK to sit at, so my feet could touch the GROUND! But doesn't matter because right now, there are so many boxes and so much STUFF in the room that I wouldn't FIT anyway! Went out to my car and CRIED. Came home and CRIED. And basically haven't stopped crying and now Freddy is actively looking for work so I can retire. And I'm looking around the area for a new job, one that I might be able to do from home.
I went over there with the best of hopes that it would be even just "okay" and they really, really let me down. I get it. I know the principal doesn't even want me in the building in the first place. Let me be clear, doesn't want another "any-body" in the building. When my boss told her to find room for me, she said "where" and my boss basically said, "she's coming to your building, it's the most reasonable spot, find an office". So the principal doesn't give a *kitten* where she puts me. Which, of course, makes me feel REALLY WELCOME and all warm and fuzzy! 😒😔🙄
So, I'm going back to "work" today to finish the job that I love to do for people that I really hate working for right now, who truly don't appreciate anything that I do. What a WONDERFUL life.
Carla OUT!11 -
Rebecca--Athena is beautiful and so happy. Thanks for sharing.
Barbara--EPC'd is Emergency protective custody. It's where the police put a patient in 72 hour mental health place for evaluation. At the end of the 72 hours the doctors decide if more inpatient treatment is needed or they help set up outpatient treatment. The state pays after insurance or if there is no insurance. Glad you are feeling better and got whatever was caught out. How scary.
Allie--I agree with others proud of you for standing up for yourself about the bed.
I agree that sharing photos is part of what we do. I hope no one stops. I share when I can figure them out. I refuse to let fear keep me from enjoying life and sharing whats important to me. We each have to do what we are comfortable with. Some of these children we have seen since they were born and feel like each one is family.
Well I got brave and applied for a job at one of the nursing homes here in town. It was for a front desk clerk and helping with activites. I talked with the lady this morning and because of insurance and the cut in pay I will not be taking it. With DH and his health since he got the vaccine I can not change insurance and cobra would not be an opition. But at least I tried.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE7 -
Barbie - I agree with you, in your comment to Allie. Carmine can hear you, and they know you love them. Keep up the good work! Just relax the expectation of a miracle! You are there, that's what counts.
And well done about the bed.
Had my hair trimmed in preparation for the cruise. We were both wearing masks, mine medical quality. And I ordered my BP meds early. I had to state why, but it's been approved. DH has booked a barber's appointment for Friday.
We have had to get the gutter man back, because there is a leak at the very front edge. He's coming on Tuesday when DH is at cricket. It's very high up, but he doesn't mind scrambling up a ladder. Most firms won't. He did a lot of work last year, but this is right at the front corner.
I'm having a tea/dinner with my friend G tomorrow. She's in Brighton for an evening conference, so we are meeting at tea time. I hope the weather holds off so we can sit outside. If not, it won't be crowded that early and we can go to an airy place.
Don't want to jinx it now!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
For those of you who wish to continue posting photos of your kids and grandkids and their vacations and activities, I for one will enjoy seeing them. I feel like most of them have been part of my extended family for years.
These past few years of isolation and lockdowns have prevented many of us from visiting families so photos on Facebook were the main means of staying connected.
I think an experienced identity thief has much better ways of causing harm than by looking at photos of our growing grandchildren and their activities here on MFP.
There have been mighty forces at work - media? whatever - who have been successful at keeping some of us bent under the yoke of fear. No wonder mental health is declining.
I like what Mary and many of you have said: "No evil is going to keep me from enjoying my life."
Make it a great day!
Lanette ,
Sunny SW WA State
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