Need to Lose 100 LBS -Robins Thread !

New here....need to lose 11 4lbs

Happy Thursday!! Work out was great last night. Upper core and I'm definitely feeling it, but that's a good thing. Eating yesterday was on target. Crazy schedule today at work with back to back meetings through lunch, which is not good. I'm planning to eat a snack right before and will eat a late lunch. I have to keep my metabolism going. My morning stress already includes Cyrus texting me in bold letters, "I'm not going to football tonight." Oh boy. Once he goes, I know he likes it, but getting him out the door has been the challenge. The potential is there, but he has to have the drive too. I can only encourage.

@GOINSTD12 - Hugs!! I'm glad your work offers the hours bank and employees contribute. I know you've got so much on your plate. Glad you were able to finally get some rest. Your body needs it!!! Praying for your hubby.

@cblue315 - His coach told me the same thing. They almost like kids with no experience because their more teachable. I see the movie The Blind Side every time I see Cyrus (minus the bad home life). Cyrus is definitely my gentle giant. We'll see if he toughens up. LOL!! Sorry about the long week. I can totally relate. We'll just push through this week and home next week balances out again.

@finallygettinghealthy2015 & @andeegirl77 - Welcome!!! This thread is amazing! I've been on here since August 2012. Some of the same people have been on here supporting each other. We've all been through many ups and downs with weight loss, personal life, etc. . . It's a great support system. Even when I've been gone for months I'll come back and they are here for me. Post daily if you can. They will help you!!

@cblue315 just chances. There's no way to know until it comes because I might not be allergic the day before. That's the problem with mast cells.

Happy Friday everyone!! Two days in a row. Can you believe it? Yesterday was a good day eating and exercise. I'm really pleased with the week overall. Of course, I was an emotional wreck last night. Cyrus is really pushing my buttons and the teenager is coming out. He told me last night it would be better if Aunt Sharon was raising him. Lovely. I know it's just a mood and a phase, but still hurts. Luckily, I didn't stress eat. By the time we got home from football at 9:30, I took a shower since I worked out and just read a bit than went straight to bed. Thank goodness today is a new day.

@tlh0407 It's definitely been a challenge this summer with my work/life. School started on Monday for us so it's just getting back into the rhythm of work, school, homework, practices, physical therapy sessions for Cyrus' feet, and of course dating. Greg's son is 15 and actually a big boy too at 6'4". He's a pretty good basketball player and trains year round. I know we'll get a regular schedule going, but it's tough. Of course, we have to add in meal preparation, eating right and exercise too. Greg keeps telling me I'm too stressed and need to find time for me to relax. Easier said than done, but I know he's right. Baby steps for both of us!!!!

@Morgori ... this is an interesting coincidence ... I didn't know it was National Financial Awareness Day until I just now read your post ... and guess what I was up to most of the day today ... alligning my Financial fitness!

Have a great and healthy weekend everyone. I'm looking forward to Check-in Monday.
Follow-through

Happy Sunday to all.

Hi, my name is Lori. Age 55, sw 297, cw 175, gw under 150. MFP member since June of last year, been on this thread since August of last year.

Seeing those numbers is mind boggling for me. 25 ish pounds to goal? How did that happen?
Weight loss is a mind game. Yes, it plays out on your plate and with exercise but so much of it is in your head. I am back to logging my food. Mostly accurate, not quite 100%. I do know when I log I get results. Much less food goes in the mouth when it gets logged. I make better choices overall. Allow myself fewer excuses and fewer "Oh well, tomorrow is another day" type moments.

It has been very hot here (90F), and humid. As my friend Mary says "The corn and I do not get along. When the corn is happy I am not." So I have been biking in the morning and some evenings. Only hit the gym twice this week. But I think I have put more than 75 miles on the bike.

My trainer and I did measurements this week. Since I started working out with him 14 1/2 months ago: Weight - 79 pounds, neck - 3 1/4 inches, arms - 4 inches, chest - 16 1/2 inches, waist - 8 inches, hips - 13 1/2 inches, thighs - 5 1/2 (these are actually on the way back up due to all the biking), calf - 2 1/2 inches. BMI from 45 to 29.
He has been a great motivator. Well worth the money spent.

Today I am taking a day off. I do have a few things I need to get done, nothing urgent. This week will be stressfull at work. I have some deadlines to meet. I will work hard at keeping my zen.

Love to all,
Lori

“The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination.”
– Tommy Lasorda

Hello from Ketchikan, AK. Just a quick stop to say hello & post a few pics,

Monday check-in ... doing that yo-yo thing again. gotta learn to stay away from restaurant meals.

Hi guys!

Sorry I was MIA over the weekend.

@tracy- That cake looks delicious, and I agree that owls can be creep, but the girls' paintings are very cute.

@robin-- that's very exciting about the job, and I totally understand about not asking about the March trip yet. There's plenty of time to make that call when we get closer to Spring.

@kelley-- gorgeous pictures!! Like tracy, I'm jealous of the ice. we are melting here in chicago (thought not as hot as bismarck).

@lori-- yes, the heat has made anything outdoors quite uncomfortable lately, but you still managed to put on quite a few miles, so that's good. Your inches lost are just incredible!! So proud of you!!

@laurie-- glad your mom is agreeing to the initial 4 hours of home health care. It's exciting that you may be looking for your own place again. Did you start school today? Or is it next Monday? We start this Wednesday, but the kids' first day isn't until next Monday.

@susan-- sorry the snotty teen side of Cyrus is emerging lately. Of course it hurts, but you know he doesn't mean it. Also, I think if kids don't say things like that once in a while, it's a sign that the parents aren't really "parenting" but are just trying to be BFFs with their kids. Kind of like if my students don't call me names behind my back every now and then, I'm probably not being a rigorous enough teacher.

@tom-- I love that Left Handers Day And Middle Child Day are back to back since I am both. I should have had cake to celebrate. LOL

Welcome to all of the newlings who have popped in lately. Come back often so we can get to know you.

Monday Check-in:
Well the house cleaning and updating has pretty much come to an end. There are still a couple of closets that need to be cleared, but it's mostly my husband's tools and such. Until we get a piece of storage furniture for the spare room, we will just let those be.

As I mentioned to laurie, I start back to school on Wednesday. Although I'm never truly ready, like tracy, I will appreciate getting back to a regular schedule with less eating out and going for drinks which always kills my calorie allowance.

This weekend was busy with my chicago neighborhood festival on friday night. Saturday we spent most of the day getting things ready for the bbq we hosted on Sunday. Lots of fun having some HS friends along with a couple of friends from work. It was too hot to be out in the yard for the first couple of hours of the bbq, but once the sun started to go down, it was pretty comfortable. Today is clean up-need to finish dishes, put away chairs, etc.

Tuesday Goals:
1. Buy new light switch DONE AND INSTALLED /outlet covers DONE AND INSTALLED, and vent register DONE AND INSTALLED
2. Buy window treatment for spare room DONE AND INSTALLED, kitchen, and dining room
3. Buy molding for doorway between living room/kitchen DONE AND INSTALLED
4. Clean/set up large desk DONE
5. Clean out china cabinet DONE
6. Clean out buffet STARTED

August Goals:

Run another 8k (Thanksgiving 2014 8k = 56:49, NYE 2014 8k = 57:47, 1/25 = 55:41; 2/28=55:15, 3/29 = 59:15; 5/9 = 59:16; 6/22 = 59:10)

Exercise Goals:
Sun--paint spare room DONE
Mon--walk gunner DONE
Tues--walk gunner DONE
Wed--walk gunner DONE + gym or run outside NOT DONE
Thurs--walk gunner DONE
Fri--walk gunner DONE + gym or run outside NOT DONE
Sat--walk gunner NOT DONE

2015 Mantra = Just 15 minutes

Monday Check-In: Happy Monday Everyone!!! I hope everyone had a good weekend. Mine was good just busy all weekend it seems. After work Friday, I cleaned like a mad woman. I hate cleaning, but hate tying up my Saturday/Sunday so try to keep it up during the week days. Over the weekend, eating was good for the most part minus a chocolate dip cone. Bad Susan!!! LOL!!! I feel good. No Diet Coke since last Sunday – miracle!!! Drinking around 120-140 oz of water each day and peeing ALL day. Overall, I’m feeling pretty good.

Saturday was a supermarket shop with my nutritionist/life coach. I knew a lot of things, but it was interesting to listen. Of course, all she supports is organic, no chemicals, etc. . . I totally support that as well. Unfortunately, my budget will not support that. I will still focus on the outside of the grocery store with produce, meats, etc. . . and stay away from as much processed foods as possible, but that’s the best I can do and it will be fine. Izzy went to the groomer (thank goodness). Poor thing was looking a bit shaggy. Cyrus had physical therapy than we grabbed some lunch at First Watch. I had a yummy protein pesto bowl (quinoa, chicken, pesto, spinach, etc. . .) It was really good. In the evening, I met a dear friend for dinner at a place called Bantam & Biddy. I had the rotisserie chicken that their known for and made decent selections on my sides. A bit of a splurge, but still an overall good day with my food choices.

Sunday was church, lunch out with Cyrus than a small grocery run for Cyrus stuff. We got home and played a few boards games like Sorry and Big Pay Day, which he kicked my butt!! Sunday evening I spent the evening with my guy friend Greg. I’m really enjoying getting to know him and hopefully we’ll just keep building what we have so far. It’s heading in the right direction.

Work today has been good. A few meetings, but that’s about it. Tonight Cyrus has football and we’ve got a parents meeting on safety. Oh boy. I think we’ve already had one boy get a concussion so I think this is the “extra” liability meeting.

@Morgori – I think I need to make EVERY DAY a financial awareness day. Definitely something I’m trying to tackle on top of my clean eating. So important.

@lauriek – Thanks for the MS advice. As a teacher, I know you’ve seen it for years and different scenarios from different kids. He’s getting his footing. I just have to be careful not to overwhelm him because that’s when the anxiety kicks in due to his ADD. So far a decent start to 8th grade. Regarding you dad, my mom is actually working part-time for a home health agency. She does exactly that. She will sit with an elderly person just for company or to give the family a break. She’ll help get their meals, ready for bed, etc. . . I worked for the AARP years ago and learned in the year 2020 we’ll have more elderly than any other age group due to the baby boomers. Many of us will be going through exactly what you’re dealing with now. I know being a caregiver can be very draining and you need to find that balance for sure. Good luck on the house hunting again! I know it can be a very exciting, but also a draining experience. Keep us posted!!

@cblue315 – Thank you for your Sunday Share. I’m so glad you joined us on this thread because you’ve brought so much encouragement. Even with your life ups and downs (which will always be there) you’ve pushed through and stayed focus on your healthy lifestyle. You’re such an inspiration to me and your one sentence definitely resonates with me “Weight loss is a mind game.” This is so true for me and to quit making excuses!!! I’m so proud of you and 25ish pounds to goal – YOU ROCK!!!!!!

@kah68 – You know I’m enjoying your journey through FB, but loved, loved, loved seeing the pictures again. Simply breathe taking. Vacation well deserved!!!

@RobinsEgg – Woo Hoo!!! Congrats on the pending job. I know you’ve been wanting to find something to help out and this sounds like a nice fit. As I mentioned to Laurie above, my mom works for a home health agency and really enjoys the people she has been working with. Unfortunately, many of hers are quite a bit older. I think they have all passed away so she gets a new person quite every 6 months or so. She really enjoys spending time with them. I know you’ll keep us posted, but praying everything comes through smoothly with the state.

@tlh0407 – Thanks for the support! I’m trying to give Cyrus a “little” leeway, but I don’t know how much he’s trying to take advantage too. It’s such a slippery slope you have to be so careful. I’m really thankful because overall he really is a good kid. I just need to keep him on the right track. I can feel your pain. I did something to my neck about a week ago and could barely turn my head. It’s so darn sensitive. Hope you get feeling better. Also, awesome cake for Emma and sweet pictures of the girlies!! I remember when you started posting your first creations. You’ve really done so well and I’m very impressed!!

@skinnyjeanzbound – It’s funny you mentioned trying to be a BFF. My friend Greg told me the exact same thing. He said I need to make sure Cyrus knows I’m Mom and NOT his friend. I’ve mentioned that to him numerous times this weekend. We had a really good heart to heart on Saturday night and I told him the way he’s speaking to me at times is disrespectful and it will stop. So far so good. Good luck on Wednesday!! I know the beginning is always tough getting everyone back into the swing of things, but it will definitely be good to be back in a routine. I’m sorry if I missed it, but has your hubby found work yet? It looks like you guys had a fun weekend, which is so important to laugh.

@kah68 - Those pictures are amazing. Thanks so much for sharing. (going to bed to cry now)
@tlh0407 - Once again amazing cake and amazing picture of the girls.
@skinnyjeanzbound - You did have a productive summer. Back to reality now. I wish you an amazing year. How is hubby's work situation?
@Morgori - That vacation quote is a keeper.
@Susan2396 - My first career was as a diet technician, I used to do "Super Market Tours". I loved that. But that was back in the days when we told everyone eggs were bad and margarine was good. Nutrition is so very important. Good for you on making your own decisions.
@Bigaug - Woot on the 95 pounds!

AFM - The largest work deadline was moved from this Saturday to next Saturday. So a big sigh of relief there. Work is still a bit stressful. Things are still a bit strained with sister. Hopefully she will open up soon.
Hubby is working some overtime. Things are still strained there.
Oldest son is losing his ride home from work at 2AM. So we will have to figure out something. As of now he has no chance of getting his license back for at least 6 months.
Put some great miles on the bike this weekend. Enjoyed every minute. There is one more race I can do this season, at the end of October. A Duathlon, 2 mile run, 20 mile bike, 2 mile run.
I have a counseling session on Friday and am a bit aprehensive. Getting through tough stuff these days. I will be better for doing the work.

Thanks for listening.
Love to all,
Lori

“You can motivate by fear, and you can motivate by reward. But both those methods are only temporary. The only lasting thing is self motivation.” ~ Homer Rice

Good morning everyone.

Happy Serendipity Day!

August 18: Serendipity Day
Serendipity is the term for a “happy accident” or a “pleasant surprise.” Thus, Serendipity Day encourages people to look for and notice those unexpected good things that are always out there, if we have the eyes to see them. In fact, the creators of this holiday believe that serendipity is no accident at all, but an attitude or a lifestyle in which you are always reaching for those unexpected things and expecting happy surprises to occur.

“When Peter saw this, he said to them: ‘Fellow Israelites, why does this surprise you? Why do you stare at us as if by our own power or godliness we had made this man walk?'” Acts 3:12

I know I got excited by etymologies just a few days ago (see Chauvin Day), but bear with me again. I learned something new and I found it fascinating!

The word serendipity was coined in the mid 1700s by a man named Horace Walpole. In a letter to a friend, he explained how he had created the term from a Persian fairy tale known in English as The Three Princes of Serendip. The story tells of three princes who were banished from the kingdom of Serendip (another term for Sri Lanka) in order to prove their worth. As they wander the world, “serendipitous” moments occur to them time after time, in a rather unbelievable amount, much like some children’s stories, where they just happen to run across the perfect place or the clue to solve the mystery, or old, corny superhero movies, where they just happen to have the antidote lying around.

In other words, it seems like Walpole first created the word serendipity as some mild ridicule of these “happy accidents” and now the term is a favorite inspirational line everywhere: “seek serendipity!”

I love how language changes.

Can anything be so elegant as to have few wants, and to serve them one’s self? ~Ralph Waldo Emerson



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@morgori and @bigaug Welcome back. You've been missed.
@Robin It's always good when you pop in.
@Susan Welcome back to you, too. I love your reports and your willingness to just dust yourself and off and keep going.
@Karen School has started for the teachers here. The kids don't start until Monday. I'll be glad when that happens. Having both of the kids is a challenge. Anya is not longer just the cute baby sister. She is a little girl with opinions of her own, and that doesn't always sit well with big brother.
@Kelley loved the pictures of Alaska. I've never really wanted to visit there, but it is certainly breathtakingly beautiful.
@Lori Congratulations on your success thus far. Thanks for the share on Sunday. I needed that reminder. This really is a mind game.
@tlh Love the cake and those cute little girls who got to eat it.

AFM As I mentioned to Karen, school has started for the teachers and I am getting back into babysitting mode. Fortunately, I have a wonderful neighbor who has very sweetly agreed to be my backup for medical appointments. The medical drama continues. We saw the dr. today for the results of the MRI. There are significant changes in DH's brain. In the middle of the brain where all of the 'wiring' comes together, there are many little spots that indicate small strokes, probably caused from tiny blood clots being generated by the afib. They are not a smoking gun for the fall. The dr said that it may or may not have accelerated the problem. I think that it did, because he became so much worse so suddenly, but that will all have to play out. We will see a neurologist soon, and he is going to have physical therapy. I kind of feel like I have been kicked in the stomach today, because whether or not the fall aggravated the situation, it is an on-going problem that will only get worse.
I am surely relating to Laurie and GOIN with their health concerns for their loved ones. I just don't know what will happen next or how long we have together.
I have been doing well with the daily exercise goal, although because of the dr. appointment this morning and the heat and heavy smoke in the air this evening, I wasn't able to get a walk today. I still struggle with the water. I have 20# to lose to reach my 100# goal. I am going to give this some all out effort until I get them off! For starters, I am not making any more cookies. I'm going to find some that I can buy that I'm not crazy about for the kids and just not bake them. I can't leave them alone!
We are enjoying a wonderful crop of sweet cucumbers this year and tomatoes are coming on so there is plenty of good stuff to eat.
Even though I don't report often, I do read everyday, at least once a day.
Onward and downward. Kaye

Good morning everyone.

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