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What nobody tells you about losing weight

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  • Posts: 4,159 Member
    How good it feels (and frustrating at the same time) when someone tells me that I don't need to lose any more weight!

    I was told that twice when I was still morbidly obese :neutral: I hear it now a lot and I'm a lot closer to goal, but I still have a belly that is noticeable, so I'm never sure how to take it.
  • Posts: 67 Member

    This! Heard it only 2 days ago!

    My family told me this repeatedly when I was visiting for Christmas! However, my BMI still has me in the "overweight" range.
  • Posts: 93 Member

    I don't throw away clothes, I always donate them, it makes me feel good to know someone else can always use what I can't anymore.
  • Posts: 843 Member
    My underarmor thermal underwear no longer cut into my ankles after wearing them most of the day. They fit better than when I bought years ago.
  • Posts: 64 Member
    -Being able to cross my one leg over the other while sitting
    -being able to sit "Indian" style in a chair
    -having people not believe me when I say I used to be almost 200 pounds, and then seeing their shocked reactions when I show them a before and after picture
    -looking at my legs and still "seeing" a size 16 leg, but knowing I am a size 4. (This is a big one, not knowing how much the psychological stuff affects you even after losing all the weight)
    -being a little over bearing on my family for drinking soda/eating sweets non-stop
  • Posts: 231 Member
    Things I'm loving:
    - Being my lowest adult weight. Ever.
    - My teeny tiny waist
    - The extra energy I have now
    - Treating my body with the due care and respect it's always deserved

    Things I wasn't prepared for:
    - Family/friends saying they want to also lose weight and then in the same breath start making excuses for why they can't.
    - How long it would take for my brain to catch up with my body. I've lost 2 st and 2 dress sizes in the last year and even though I know that I'm so much smaller and I can see the huge difference, even now when someone compliments me, calls me pretty, or straight-up hits on me, a part of me doesn't believe they could be genuine. It's like I keep forgetting I'm not overweight anymore.
  • Posts: 765 Member
    edited January 2016

    My friend cut squares of all her event shirts and made a quilt of them... if you are the crafty type or know someone who is...

    Edit: Never mind. Originally posted the same comment, then saw someone beat me to it. Should've kept reading. XD
  • I love this thread!

    Actually looking forward to working out which I never used to when I was bigger...including going jogging in the street.

    Wearing sleeveless tops and vests without worrying about how my arms look.... And also finding shaving my pits really hard work now they are so concave ha ha!

    Waking up every day and having some muscle group somewhere feeling sore, just to remind you of your previous day's workout.

    Like others on here have said about the wide range of comments (or none at all!) from family and friends/colleagues.

    There's just a few! I could easily go on x
  • Posts: 936 Member
    nuffer wrote: »
    I now have a drawer of ridiculously large t-shirts from events I've done in the past. I don't want to get rid of them because I had fun at those, but when I put them on, I look like a hobo that robbed a thrift store and ended up with a night shirt.

    (this message is not making fun of hobos, or thrift stores, both of which I favor)

    I use my over-large t-shirts as nightshirts, as it happens. :)

  • Posts: 89 Member
    How, when you're over 6ft, it takes more than a few pounds for anyone to notice. I lost 13st a few years back, and it wasn't until over 4st lost that anyone (even my then significant other) noticed. There's a lot more surface area for fat to drop from!

    On the plus side, when the scales tip up again after a bad week...nobody notices an extra pound or two :)

    It does make me envy short people though - 15lbs on a tiny person is a big difference, 15lbs on me is barely one dress size! (After 13st, I had gone from a 32 to a 20, so only 7 sizes!)

    How it affects the other parts of your life when you realise you can reach ambitions. You get more organised and start believing in yourself more. That's a lovely feeling :)

    (Disclaimer: still have about 5st to go...but I stick to the above as my experiences so far!)
  • Posts: 47 Member
    - how vain you will become! I can't walk past a mirror without checking how I look nowadays!

    I have not lost a lot, but my face is different... I am overdosing on selfies...
    and today a colleague told me, when I am going to throw away all the clothes that don't fit me anymore...

  • Posts: 47 Member
    this thread is old, but I discovered it at the right time, I needed it.... Thanks a million
  • Posts: 89 Member
    When you have a full-time job, in theory it should be easy if you plan ahead and get into pack-ups at lunch and diarising workouts but...

    That your workplace can seem to encourage fitness but only on their terms. We have company FitBits with challenges - not helpful when you're a swimmer - and a subsidised gym without a pool despite the nearby leisure centre with a pool being cheaper and better - again not helpful when you're a swimmer! They also have free fruit to hand, but then have loads of bread options too. Those are picky things though - it's more the way they try to drive a healthy attitude but cause a fuss when you say you can't make a morning meeting (2 hours before work is supposed to start) because you have a gym appointment (or that you want to leave on time for the same). Makes it hard to keep your own commitments when you have a full-time job!
  • Posts: 1,256 Member
    VeryKatie wrote: »

    Weight on your license is not standard in Canada. It's a provincial decision. Manitoba doesn't do it.

    Had someone at the DMV ask if I was sick (I think he thought he had cancer or something) because of the drop from the previous license compared to the updated one. OH here. :p
  • Posts: 50 Member
    I've only lost 1stone 7lb but...
    •how your appetite changes drastically
    •how good healthy foods can taste
    •that sweets are ok as long as they are in moderation
    •that you look forward to continuing on your meal plan once you start to see tiny results
  • Posts: 451 Member
    That your hubby can start feeling a bit threatened by your changes.. (You are Looking good... Always working out... Becoming an aerobics instructor, etc) and while still being overall supportive of you, he may still make a few comments that sounds as if he feels threatened by your changes!! NOT that you've given him any reason to be because you love him and your life with all of your heart and would never jeopardize it...you talk it over with him though and reassure him of your continued commitment and love. Lol
  • Posts: 1,172 Member
    ekahnicole wrote: »
    you end up looking forward to having a really good poop.

    Yes! lol
  • Posts: 7 Member
    I am surprised I eat more food while losing weight than I did while gaining. Its all about the choices.

    That's the realest! I'm cold all the time now!!
    Things I'm loving:
    - Being my lowest adult weight. Ever.
    - My teeny tiny waist
    - The extra energy I have now
    - Treating my body with the due care and respect it's always deserved

    Things I wasn't prepared for:
    - Family/friends saying they want to also lose weight and then in the same breath start making excuses for why they can't.
    - How long it would take for my brain to catch up with my body. I've lost 2 st and 2 dress sizes in the last year and even though I know that I'm so much smaller and I can see the huge difference, even now when someone compliments me, calls me pretty, or straight-up hits on me, a part of me doesn't believe they could be genuine. It's like I keep forgetting I'm not overweight anymore.

    I wonder if my brain will ever catch up with my body...Not seeing what people are saying.
  • Posts: 4,159 Member
    sadie1164 wrote: »

    I wonder if my brain will ever catch up with my body...Not seeing what people are saying.

    I didn't see it either, until I printed out two face pictures, one two months before I started this, and one at the fifty pound loss mark, then laid them side by side. Only then was I able to see it.
  • Posts: 231 Member
    kar328 wrote: »

    I didn't see it either, until I printed out two face pictures, one two months before I started this, and one at the fifty pound loss mark, then laid them side by side. Only then was I able to see it.

    When I started my weight loss journey last year I neglected to take some 'before' photos to allow that direct comparison. Now I am fairly happy with my general size and weight so have changed to maintenance and recomposition so I have made sure to take new 'before' photos as any further changes will be much smaller.
  • Posts: 1 Member
    cblue315 wrote: »
    How uncomfortable my bed really is. After loosing 100 pounds I had to buy a new mattress. I no longer had the padding around my hips.

    Both me & the husband have been using this app since April. Between us we have lost 5 stone & it's staying off. We both found it helpful to get a memory foam topper for the bed to enable us to be more comfortable now the fat cushioning has gone. :D
  • Posts: 7 Member
    kar328 wrote: »

    I didn't see it either, until I printed out two face pictures, one two months before I started this, and one at the fifty pound loss mark, then laid them side by side. Only then was I able to see it.

    I have before and now pictures and still doesn't seem real..
  • Posts: 6,990 Member
    nuffer wrote: »
    I now have a drawer of ridiculously large t-shirts from events I've done in the past. I don't want to get rid of them because I had fun at those, but when I put them on, I look like a hobo that robbed a thrift store and ended up with a night shirt.

    (this message is not making fun of hobos, or thrift stores, both of which I favor)

    I've seen people make quilts and stuff out of cool T shirts they can't wear anymore.

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