Enlighten us about the creeps and their MO
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KickassAmazon76 wrote: »
smh... times have changed... way back in the day it was TMI Tuesday and Thong Thursday (and boobie Friday).
I just cannot keep up!
Yup.
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monkeefan1974 wrote: »
I think a lot of the problem is that people are quick to judge a book by it’s cover. I’ve posted bikini pics and been accused of trying to promote an IG account or just garner attention from guys when the reality is I’m not even on IG, am in a happy and fulfilling relationship already and just want to show on this fitness site the results of my hard work and determination. I had to overcome being obese and other health issues and I’m proud of my body now and hope to inspire others and show them what is possible. I understand that it’s human nature to immediately judge someone off a pic, but we also have the capacity to think beyond that and give people the respect they deserve. But then again, some people might actually be seeking creepy attention and complain about it anyway, everyone has their own reasons for doing things.
Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get3 -
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I like where this thread is going....
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jcstevens86 wrote: »
Look i get that i really do ....no different in that than me with my shirt off in a pic from the beach...all i was sayin is if you post a pic of you im just a thong on a social site expect the worst cause it will happen....its a free world for snyone to do as they please just dont complain whem the end result gets you what you knew u would get
If “it’s a free world for anyone to do as they please” then that includes being free to complain about it as well. Just sayin
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cherchezlafemme13 wrote: »
Oh like you’ve never heard me
Why do you think I’m mad about it1 -
TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
It is a free world but receiving unsolicited dirty messages isn't always what someone wants.
Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be3 -
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jcstevens86 wrote: »
Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be
*shrugs* people are weird. I’ve read that the only reason we do anything is because our brain perceives some kind of “reward” at the end. I couldn’t even begin to guess what some people’s “reward” would be.
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I think women are exaggerating.
Now what do we consider a creepy message? Someone PM-ing out of the blue to say " wow, great shape, looking good blah blah" to me is not creepy. I just assume they are complimenting me on my fitness achievements ( for real! ) I don't think someone wants to get in my pants until they have said they wanna get in my pants. Sometimes women read too much into *kitten*.
So my answer is no, I have not received many creepy messages.
Add: and also, I have never received more than one PM from someone I didn't respond to. Receiving an email is not such a big deal some people make it to be. You don't like it, delete it.3 -
jcstevens86 wrote: »
Your right but why put yourself in a situation where you know thats what the outcome will be
You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.10 -
monkeefan1974 wrote: »
*shrugs* people are weird. I’ve read that the only reason we do anything is because our brain perceives some kind of “reward” at the end. I couldn’t even begin to guess what some people’s “reward” would be.
A bucket full of dead spiders would be nice.
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_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »
You're beginning to sound like one of those "if she didn't want to be sexually assaulted, she shouldn't have dressed provocatively" types.... stop while you're ahead. People do what people do. Don't like it? Delete them. It's not complicated.
Your beginning to sound like the illiterate person who cant read between the lines3 -
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jcstevens86 wrote: »
Your beginning to sound like the illiterate person who cant read between the lines
Real quick, google the word "illiterate". It's ok, I'll wait.3 -
cherchezlafemme13 wrote: »I think the point we are missing here is that people send out creepy messages because they work. Maybe not 100% of the time, but they work. It’s a game of numbers. You cast your net as far out as possible in hopes of catching as many as possible but even catching just one is success.
Agree. And the few guys that send creepy messages they send the same copy and paste one to 100 women. One will bite1 -
If I wouldn't get in trouble I'd post a screen shot of an epic message I got this past week.0
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cherchezlafemme13 wrote: »I think the point we are missing here is that people send out creepy messages because they work. Maybe not 100% of the time, but they work. It’s a game of numbers. You cast your net as far out as possible in hopes of catching as many as possible but even catching just one is success.
Spam return rate.
Marketing return rate.
etc...0
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