200+ Haulin' Off The Weight
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Are we all on TOM right now, or right around there? Our internet vibes must have forced us to all cycle together.0
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Best Friend brought me some mac and cheese today. I'm SO wishing I hadn't eaten it. *burp* Now, I'm popping Tums like candy.0
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It's official. I'm sick. Rhea and Vomit. yay.0
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RainSarah - Yay for new shoes and motivation! Hang in there, we're here for you! I also hear you on wanting the "girls" to shrink... I'm a 16E here, and all you can get in that size are pretty much nanna bras. Nothing nice goes any bigger than a 14D... I long for the day.
Pam - Sounds like an awesome weekend!! Way to go on the burn, and yay for NSVs!!
Sorry to hear everyone's having TOM issues... I don't get a TOM due to being on the Depo-Provera contraceptive injection... pretty awesome.
Thanks for all the compliments on the photos feels good!
Ugh, my final flight last night was delayed... Being just a regional flight it was a tin-can with wings, and all 18 of us on the flight were on the plane and the safety talk had been given and everything... waiting... waiting... nope, can't use that plane. Disembark and try and find another plane we can use.
Arrrrrrrrgh! Just wanted to be home!!
Did get home last night, only ended up being delayed by about an hour, but decided i wasn't going to go to work today... got in too late. Phoned work and explained that my flights had been postponed, and they were really good about it.
By the time i got home though, pizza was it for dinner options... So i'm going to have to officially PASS on weigh-in this week... i'm so pumped with sodium it's not funny!!
But i've just been for a long walk with the Other Half and the pups before he went to work, so it's a good start on the road to recovery. And i'm waiting to hear whether Teags wants to go for a walk this morning also.
It's so nice to be home.
All is good!
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sorry to just drop in... but is this a closed group?
New and clueless (still)...0 -
Exercise Advice requested! I have a WII--no xbox or other game systems left since the kids moved out. I like the EA Cardio workouts and also do Wii yoga. any other programs you know of for the Wii?
Working at giving myself at least two very good days before we take off on Wednesday. My usual way would be to start eating anything I want last Friday and then binge all through the vacation.
My goal for vacation is to be sensible. My goal when I get home is to break the cycle of hitting my low weight on Friday and then be back up on Monday.
I keep saying this: but you guys are awesome.0 -
Lisa - There is nothing closed about this group! Come on in!! Tell us a bit about yourself - Goals, family, whatever... and prepare to be subjected to the innermost details of everyones' lives!!! :P
Now, ladiies. This is completely unrelated to anything on this thread, but it is a time of need, and i really don't have any other friends to turn to...
This is Virginia. She is one of my mum's best friends. they met while doing their Masters' in Adelaide a couple of years ago.
Virginia works for the government in Malawi, and her life is now in danger. There are people in Malawi who feel that she is doing bad things - trying to take over the government or something - and there have been threats (VERY REAL threats) that she may, one day, just... DISAPPEAR.
This is so serious that she has made arrangements for my parents to have her two little boys, Victor and Prayer, if anything should happen to her. This is huge.
Virginia is trying to get a visa to australia with her boys, but it's not that easy. Malawi isn't quite considered dangerous enough for her to have priority for refugee status... And she's not able to get special considerations even though she is personally and politically in a HUGE amount of danger.
Here are some excerpts from her emails to my mum:
"my dear, time is running out, lets launch the process otherwise my age will soon limit my visa application."
"I am ready. the boys thinks I am a liar. They keep asking why aunt Susy is no longer pushing for our trip to Aussie."
"I am considering running away as soon as possible otherwise we are going to join the suffering bandwagon."
Of course, it's going to be a costly process. Virginia is part of our family, and we're doing whatever we can to try and get her over here, and get her and her sons safe.
I actually don't know what i'm asking of you ladies... Ideas... I don't know... I guess i'm putting it out there that if any of you would be able to help in any way - financially... helping raise some funds... - That would be so awesome.
I feel bad asking for money, i know you ladies all have lives of your own, but if you have ANY ideas that could help out with this situation, it would mean so much to me and my family - and it could be the difference between life and death for an amazing woman...
Sorry to be a downer on the morning, but as i say, i don't really have anywhere else to turn for help!0 -
Not a great week for us overall (TOM, darn you!), and many missed weights. what up gals?
This week's chart (I didn't post your name if you said "pass" or didn't weigh in):
Victoria 194 194 193 (-1.0)
Kendal 212.6 pass 216
Amy 195 191 191 (0)
Sarah 208.6 204.8 204.4 (-0.4)
Kerry 173.9 174.4 169.8 (-4.6)
Hailie 249.8 250.7 248.7 (-2.0)
Karen 220 218 219.5 (+1.5)
gonnadoitjenn 310.4 310.1 306.1 (-4.0)
wigglentwink 195.7 191.2 189.5 (-1.7)
silver02bullet 210.8 208.8 211.4 (+2.6)
Bobbie (k2quiere) 333.6 323.2 321.4 (-1.8)
Kristi (kwick2010) 232.4 ? 233.4
ladyg0915 276 274 276 (+2.0)
Sarah (rainvc) 242 237 236.8 (-0.2)
Katheryne 280.4 ? 282.4
Stacey (sgc2005) 211 pass 207
qofsheba 200 197.5 195 (-2.5)
Technically, this week's winner is Kerry, but I think she won't have any problems me saying her 4.6 loss was basically going back to what she was the week before, due to TOM and such, so in a close second is gonnadoitjenn with a 4.0 weight loss! Nice work lady!0 -
qofsheba...aside from the EA cardio you've been doing. I love Just Dance 2, I also have Just Dance (the original), am ordering the Country Dance, and will get Just Dance 3 when it comes out this fall. I can really work up a sweat with them. Kind of similar to Dance Dance Revolution if you are familiar with that.
Also, UFC Trainer is a good work out. My husband like to say it's a "P90X lite." The only problem I have with it is with the warm up and cool down. I get tired of doing the exact same every day.
And now they have out a Zumba Wii game as well. I haven't tried it yet so I'm not sure how fun/useful it is.
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Woo hoo! I will happily take "second" place as it definitely motivates me when I am in that position. I want to be a first place winner all on my own one week. I'm a competitive person and it drives me.
I can thankfully say that I am not on TOM but rather just finished last week. It was my first cycle in 6 months and I was so happy to see it! Only two more cycles and then we start Clomid.
Today was another busy day at school and I am feeling it when I get home and I am STARVING. I am not counting all the walking I am doing as exercise but hopefully soon I will have my pedometer to help me track things.
Have we decided on the next title for September? We are so close to filling up the second thread full of chatter! Keep up the hard work ladies!0 -
My walk tonight: First I decide to take Vinny and didn't really think about the fact that he may be skittish because he was lost for two weeks and has been home maybe a month? Well he was. Running like a lost dog all over the freaking place, whining for the first mile. Granted its been a long time since i've taken him on a walk so part of his spasticness on the leash is my fault as well. The whole way he is all over the road. A car could be ten feet away and he is wanting to walk out into the middle of the road. We get two thirds of the way home and two enormous dogs walk up to us. People are coming down the road after them, and they are sweet but VInny doesn't like HUGE dogs and is yet again skittish growling, etc. Turns out the people aren't the owners but the dogs came onto their property so they are trying to catch them so they are somewhere safe for the time being. The dogs want to follow me, so I stop until they get leashes. Ten minutes later, a million cars driving up and down the road and Vinny acting like a moron we get to move again. Then all Vinny wants to do is run at mock speed down the road so trying to reign him in is a total cluster f situation. Granted he only weighs 21 lbs so its not like I can't handle him....what normall takes 45ish minutes took over an hour. And my mom also called in that time to tell me she may not be able to come up tomorrow night to watch G for the rest of the week because my dads angiogram he had this mornign is making his heart skip beats so they might have to shock his heart in the morning to get it back into rhythm. So it both makes me worry for my dad and worry that I might have to take Gracie to work with me again this week. She and I can only handle one day of that. Its too much for her at my work being couped up in an office like that all day. And I came back to a dirty kitchen because my husband didnt' clean it up like he said he would..
So while it wasn't compeltely a mess and its done and over, it was a total Ga! hour.
On a positive note - logged all my cals and got my exercise in for the day. Yeay me!:drinker:0 -
Lacey - Doing well! Keep at it and the dog will enjoy walking once again!
Now ladies - I've worked out what i'm going to do about my friend. I'm going to do a 200km walk-a-thon type thing. And i've worked out how you ladies might be able to help...
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/330560-200km-in-september-challenge
A challenge!! Walk/run/ride 200km in September. It would be awesome if you ladies would like to join in, i could use the moral support... it's going to be difficult, but hopefully it will be worth it!!0 -
Check in for Monday: 2239 calories burned/ 1450 calories consumed /789 calorie deficit and my scale is showing a loss after the end of my TOM (thank goodness!).
Hosanna: I don't think walking 200km will be in the cards for me for September (due to the foot surgery recovery) but I think it's a great challenge! I'm kind of confused as to how it will help your friend though...?
Lacey: Your walk with Vinny sounds like an effin' nightmare!! I'm glad you survived (I'm glad Vinny survived too). I hope your dad is ok. The Hubbs' dad has had problems with erratic heartbeats over the past year and it freaks us all out. He is doing much better now as he is on medication that controls that.
Jenn: I'm glad there's someone out in the world who is happy to see her period. I'd be happier to never see it again.
Katheryne & Sheba: I have EA Active and the Wii Fit for the Wii and I like them both a lot. I have UFC Personal Trainer and Zumba for the XBox and they are pretty awesome too. I don't know how Zumba works for the Wii with the controllers but it is a great cardio workout and I love the music.
Kristina: It kind of seems like we are all TOM or PMS-y around the same time, which is totally weird! Now that my TOM is over, my scale is heading back down and I'm crossing my fingers that I break into the 180's this week.
Lisa: Welcome!! We LOVE new people. Jump on into the conversation and tell us about yourself. We weigh-in and post it to this thread anytime between Friday and Monday and then Kristina posts the chart Monday night.
Sarah(wNt): I am so sorry you are sick!! Running from both ends TOTALLY sucks. Feel better and try and stay hydrated.
Nava: It's been hard for me to teach The Hubbs not to bring me "treats" I can eat when he's thinking about me (he used to have a tendency to show up with ice cream, chocolate or candy on a whim), now he shows up with a Diet Pepsi. Luckily, my best friend lives a zillion miles away or I'd have to deal with her bringing me wine and cheese whenever the mood struck her (and I LOVE wine and cheese).
It's Tuesday and I'm kind of torn about what to do for a workout. My quad is still bugging me and I guess I could rest it but that means having to stick to the under 1500 calories for the day thing and I HATE that. I did that yesterday and I wanted to gnaw my arm off come dinner time (as it was I was popping teriyaki tofu like they were Skittles as me & The Hubbs were putting together our salads). Maybe I can go for a leisurely stroll or something to burn a few calories so I can EAT today.0 -
Haha Amy - I'll be finding people to sponsor me to do it Hopefully we can get some cash together and get her over here safe and sound!!0
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Amy: be careful. Well done for listening to your body yesterday - LISTEN TO IT TODAY!!!!!!!!!!! 1500 cals today with healing will be better than 1500 cals for a long, long time because you really, really hurt youself. Lecture over!!! Thanks for the persevernance and the will power. You are right, I CAN do this - so why don't I just get on with it??
Sarah: hope you feeling better soon - yukky and energy sapping. Prayers are with you.
Rain: yah for new trainers and fitting into a previously ill fitting bra. On weeks you feel down, try looking at the big picture - you have lost 18lbs - that is something to be very pleased with.
Pam: thanks for expanding on 'metal show' - was wondering why peeps would go look at iron, steel, copper (I can be sooooo dense sometimes!) Oh, I am going to start shred on Thursday - how are you doing with it? Oh, and stretch stretch, stretch those legs.....
Kerry: grotty day - you need to close those eyes and relive the high of 7.2 miles - the day will then fly by and you can relax in bath later!!
Karen: do you realise you have lost 46lbs since march? You are a star.
Hallie: how is college going?
Lacey: your walk sounds mad. Hope Vinney settles soon.
As for me - house clean and tidy enough - supposed to take The Dog back to vets tomorrow but thinking I may go today instead - wish he would get better - feeling very sad for him now as although he perks up at times, it doesn't seem to last very long and he can't seem to get comfortable. With the amount of money we are shelling out I would expect them to have come up with something better by now.0 -
Needed to add - do not begrudge spending money - I just wish they would make him better. On a more positive note - dropped off his samples and picked up some special dog food and he has eaten - hurrah0
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Annette: what are they saying is wrong with your dog? I'm so sorry you're going through all that. That sucks and it is expensive to pay for medical treatment for pets.0
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I just need to mark where I was when I realized that you all had turned like 3 pages...I get one full night's rest, and I have to spend an hour or so catching up...sheesh
BBL with a proper post0 -
good morning, ladies! just wanted to say hi and happy tuesday. Ready for the long weekend!!! and it's the first Razorback game on Saturday....woo pig sooie!0
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Pam: I used to love hiking, but I haven't been in ages. I have developed a fear of heights in my adulthood that I never had as a child, so I try to stay away from anywhere I may have to look down past my feet. I would so like to do it again though. Maybe when I feel like I can better control my body in case of an...um...slip-up :blushing:
Nava: A pass every once in a while is not a bad thing, so long as you don't do it every week. Sometimes we have to be honest with ourselves before we slip too far in the wrong direction. At least you haven't disappeared on us, as many are wont to do :happy: :flowerforyou: PS: I had mac & Cheese with dinner last night at Panera...soooooo good. Can't do that too often.
Kerry: Your runs absolutely amaze me. I will become a runner one of these years just to feel what you describe On another note...ice cream is ALWAYS good; 47 diet cokes, on the other hand, not so good, especially for the teeth.
Amy: I both love and hate rest days, if that makes sense. My body loves them, which is why I'm taking one today...I'm so sore. My mind says, stop being a wuss. The mind will get over it, just as the body will enjoy it. Also, I hat the idea of tofu...does that make sense. A meat substitute that is not meat is like substituting ice milk for ice cream...that was a bad idea from the start. I will say, however, your description of marinating and broiling did make that salad sound very good! For today, just take it slow; a nice walk will give you some extra calories without over stressing those muscles.
Kristi: Steroids SUCK on many different levels. You can definitely lose it, and I hope you're feeling much better :flowerforyou:
Karen: It's always amazing how some people, even parents, feel like they're either helping or doing you a favor by giving "advice". Sometimes it's just good NOT to say anything. Like you wouldn't be doing whatever it takes to make your baby better without their two cents. I am glad that finally something is working. :flowerforyou:
Sarah: Sodium is my downfall every time. I am way down from where I started, but I'm still over far too often. Imagine my surprise when I first started keeping track and I was over by almost 18,000 that week. Now I'm down to being over ONLY almost 4000 for the week. I'm so sorry that you are sick; that really stinks! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
Hosanna: Glad that you made it home safely, if a little late. I'm very sorry to hear about your family's friend. If I hear of anything or come up with any ideas, I will surely pass them along. Unfortunately, I'm not familiar with any of the immigration/emigration laws for either of those countries...truth be told, I have a hard enough time keeping up with the bs laws they have in effect here in the US. I pray everything works out.
Jenn: Congrats on your...um...second WINNING place finish this week!! We have lost almost the same amount of weight in total :happy:
Lacey: I'm so glad that you were able to see the positive in that situation. The two dogs we have, that belong to my children, are not walked nearly enough because we aren't home. It's like every weekend is leash training all over again. I have to wrap the leashes around my hand twice to keep them at about 3-4 feet from me or else they are all over the place, and since there are two of them and one of me...well, it makes me crazy. Funny thing is that the smaller of the two is the hardest to control. She literally chokes herself the whole time until she's wheezing as she's flattened out on the ground trying to pull me faster. Stupid dog :noway: I also hope your dad is ok :flowerforyou:
Annette: I know how much we all want the vets to just fix it, the same way we want the docs to just fix it. I then sit back and think how hard it was for my docs to figure out what was wrong with me when I could explain ALL my symptoms, many of which couldn't be seen. I can hardly imagine trying to diagnose problems with a baby or an animal that can't explain anything. My daughter wants to be a zoologist working with large mammals. I don't even want to begin to think what that will be like trying to diagnose an animal that could literally bite off your head just because something hurts. I do hope your doggie gets better.
Ok, an hour later, and I'm finally caught up...unless you all went on a typing spree while I was reading and responding. So, I was absolutely exhausted yesterday from lack of sleep on Sunday night, but I forced myself to go to the gym. I only did half of my normal workout, but it was enough to make me feel better about taking a rest day today and possibly tomorrow. On a positive note, an entire weekend of eating like crap did little to affect the downward movement of the scale, as I am down another 5 pounds as of this morning :drinker: . My weight always goes back up by Friday, so I know my weigh-in then will not look this good, but it feels so good right now :happy:0 -
Well, that was, like, no fun at all. I think i am finally through it. Thank goodness. The worst part was being that sick with four kids in the house and none of them self-sufficient in any way. Wiggle can work the tv and Twinkle can express her needs pretty clearly, so it wasn't too bad.
IT'S MY LAST DAY WITH THE MONSTERS!!! Can I get an "Amen?!" I don't think I have ever been so glad to see the end of a month. Ever. School starts tomorrow. Wiggle goes to preschool 4 days a week from 9 a.m. to noon, so it will just be Twinkle and I in the mornings. I am looking forward to my time with her, and we are going to put some miles on that jogging stroller, fo sho!! YAY!!
Pam: I can READ your excitement over your NSVs this weekend. How exciting is that!? You are so awesome.
Hosanna: I am so glad you are home safely. Good luck with your fund raiser. I think you are awesome for trying to help your friend.
Lacey: You are doing a great job of seeing the positive in each situation this week. I know you are making it a priority to not dwell on the yuck, and I think you're doing a great job. I am praying for your mom and dad, and for you. If I were closer, I would help you with Grace.
Annette: I am so sorry for your pup. Do they know what is causing this? We had a (stupid) dog for a long time that ate rocks. That got very expensive very fast.
Nava: We had Smokey Macaroni and Cheese here the night before last and it was divine. My kids gobble it up like it's gold...but what they don't know is that I have hidden a ton of veggies in it. HA! I win.
Bobbie: I fee the exact same way about meat substitutes. Exactly.
Well, I have to get to gettin' on with my day. I have a meeting with a gal to teach her to budget, coupon, and generally learn how to stop spending money as if it came out of the kitchen faucet. She will be here in 45 minutes and my house looks like I was sick yesterday.
I'll check in with you girls later!!0 -
Hello all! I'm a bit behind/off on the conversations going down in the thread. No surprise when you're gone a few days, and you're all such super posters, it's hard to keep up with.
It's a slower week at work, so I actually have some time to post. the boss was originally going to be out of the country this week, but instead flew back to MI (thank you, Irene), but is working from home for the week, which hopefully will result in less work for me. I've had several crazy weeks, so I can use the reprieve. As I mentioned before, I have a wedding this weekend that I'm attending. I'm no where near where I wanted to be weight wise, as it's been a long time since I've seen a lot of the people at the wedding. I'm still down a lot of weight since most have seen me, but I'm not pleased. I'll be getting together with a lot of them again probably around Thanksgiving time, so that's another goal for myself. Another, is trying to get my act together and get as small as possible by Dec 2-- the big 3-0 birthday for me. Huge milestone. Farther down the line, about a year from now my brother is getting married, and there's going to be pictures galore, and I'm not down with being the fat single sister in all the pictures, so there's definite motivation on that front.
This week, I'm trying to just keep myself in line before I fly out Friday afternoon for PA for the wedding. I really struggle to get back into a routine when I travel, so I'm not going full force into something this week, only to get frustrated when I fall off this weekend and struggle to get back on. Trying to log everything this week, and get some exercise in other than doggie walks. After this weekend, it should be a while until I have any travel coming up, so should give me several weeks to get myself back into a routine, which is totally needed for me. I need a good 3-4 weeks of it to have it stick for a while.
Anyways, enough venting from me. I just wanted to let you all know where I currently stand with things.0 -
Well, I feel like I have failed...yet again. Why does food have such a rediculous hold on me? People say you have to want it, well I'm sure I've never met an over weight, obese person that enjoyed being overweight or obese. We all "want" to be healthier, happier, and "normal." So what is it? What is that "AH HA," that just makes everything go "smooth" for some and not for others?
Again I know that everyone is different, and we will all lose at different paces, but I just read a womans story that lost 106lbs in 9 months. Now, that is some real determination right? How did this happen. All people say is "eat less, move more." Well....DUH!
I just can't seem to get it. I can't seem to stay on track for more than a week. I mean, I'll see results on the scale and feel great, but then there is an event, a party, a weekend away, and it's like a free for all. I should be able to go to a gathering and just eat like I usually do, but no. For some reason I feel like I will never again have the opportunity to eat "grandma's brownies" or whatever the case may be. I know all well and good that they will be at the next gathering or event, and idk.....there is another meal yet to come. So why is my brain so confused?
Reasons why I want to lose 125 lbs.
1. I want to be HOT
2. I want to go shopping in normal stores
3. I want my husband to be able to pick me up
4. I want feel comfortable in the "boom boom" room.
5. I want my children to have a great role model.
6. I don't want to be the "fat mom" on the side lines.
7. I want to be able to keep up with my kids and their activities.
8. I want to feel like I belong in my skin, with confidence (real confidence) and not the facade that choose to show people.
You would think all of these reasons would fill my head when I look at cake and candies and salty feasts, yet only sometimes they do. Other times, the worry, anxiety, nervousness, and such take over and I can't resist. I shouldn't say I "can't." I should say I give in. So, what do all of you do to keep going? When people say, "nothing tastes as good as thin feels," I want to punch them inthe face. I have never been "thin" so I have no idea what it feels like, but I sure do know that those cookies over there tase spectacular....0 -
Got myself up today, did my hair and put on some makeup, cute skinny jeans, wedges and a cute tshirt with earrings. I feel better but still woke up pissy with my husband about last night. This kind of irritation and being pissy for this long over stupid stuff like not cleaning the kitchen? ugh. LOL.
Rikki - Your question about what it is that some people "get" or don't get in regards to weight loss...you've got me. Here a year and maintained my weight just dandy. I can't seem to get it either. I am thinking of even doing maintenance weight for a few months in an attempt to "reset" my metabolism and see if that helps. Who the hell knows. You have to remember that weight loss is about one meal at a time. If you decide to have a brownie, thats okay, two or four or six brownies is another story. And even if you do have too many, you have to learn that you are worth enough to get back on track the next meal and not let it slide into the next day or week or month. Little steps lead to permanent changes I think. Changing mindsets a little a time. You can do this. You can!
Kristina - travel screws me up too. I let it get to me and my weight loss plans for weeks or a month ahead of time sometimes. I think you have some good goals to look forward to, and its nice that they are spaced out like that so you obnly have a portion of time to think about.
Sarah wnt - if you were closer I'd have you show me how to not spend so much money and to use coupons. Maybe when I get back from my trip or something I will head up your way. YEAY for one last day of monsters.
Bobbie- yeay for the loss and good job working out even if your brain was telling you that you don't want to. We should really stop listening to our brains and more to our bodies. Maybe I need to make a little placard for my desk that says that. It woild be a good message to glance at and subliminally take in during the day.
Megan - I hate football. LOL. well I don't hate it, but living in a college town (Uni of Oregon) and Oregon going to the final game last year, well people have been counting down for months now for the first game this Saturday. I dread it. Glad you like it though, makes it easier to listen to all the time when you understand wtf they are talking about.
Annette - I think vets have the pets interest at heart but sometimes its like either poking needles in a haystack or they want to go too far with their treatment. I had one vet tell us one of our dogs had cancer one time...turns out it was freaking hernia that healed itself. Could have spent thousands. Well I certainly hope your poor dog feels better soon, that is scarey.
Amy - if you are that hungry you need to eat girl! Hope you found the happy medium
As for me today...I have a meeting at G's school to see how the montesorri kindergarten program is going to work this year. She did montessori last year for prek but I had assumed she'd go into more traditional settings this year. She flourished so its not a big deal, but they have a Q&A tonight so I am going to go and see what the deal is. So I will be working late until I go to th meeting and probably no working out for me. My thighs are a tad sore..I was running every other tenth of a mile last night until I finally gave up on that with the whole debacle. And I want to see if I can do that again tomorrow..after the first 13-15 minutes. I find my feet are okay if I let them warm up that long before trying to run. Also massaging them with thi sminty body butter after I get out of the shower is helping too.0 -
So, I have a nasty scab over part of my surgery incision but every day it gets looser and looser and I am looking forward to when it falls off and I have my foot looking less like a slasher movie prop and more like a foot. Well, this evening The Hubbs was examining my scab and he asked me what color my stitches were. I told him they were blue and why did he ask. He said, "uh, I think there's one still in there..." Yup, there was. I had to remove my own freaking stitch today. Awesome.
Lacey: I am a real believer in getting dressed up nice every day because it makes you feel better about yourself. I could wander around most days in PJ's with dirty hair and no one would notice or care, but I feel better about me when I wear cute clothes, do my hair and put makeup on, even if I never leave the house.
Rikki: I think that saying about nothing tasting as good as thin feels is lame-tarded. I've been thin for most of my life and I can tell you that food is a big part of who a person is. Food is a happy thing. People use food to celebrate, to instil traditions, to enjoy their cultures and to comfort. I think the biggest mistake some dieters make is to vow to never have another....brownie/ pie/ cake/ enchilada/drink of alcohol/or whatever your favorite food might be. Food is very closely linked to emotions and there isn't really any way to unlink that. What you have to learn to do is to NOT deprive yourself of the foods you love, but rather to just eat a reasonable amount. This is a NEW revelation for me. I used to be "good" for a week or so and then allow myself a "cheat day" where I would break down and eat everything I had been denying myself while being "good". My weight wouldn't really go down and I would feel like crap about myself for not having "proper control". It wasn't working for me so I have changed my attitude toward treats. I allow myself treats whenever they fit into my calories for the day. I made those blackberry cinnamon rolls on Sunday and ate ONE. The leftovers sat in the fridge and The Hubbs and The Kid eventually ate them all up but they didn't "call" to me like they would have if I didn't allow myself to eat any. I knew I could eat one any time I wanted but I was cool with the one I had on Sunday and didn't feel compelled to eat any more. For me, the deprivation makes me insane when I get around special foods and I can't stop eating them. So I combat that by not depriving myself. I eat healthy every day but I also have a treat of some sort on most days (if sweets aren't your thing, you could switch out a treat for a glass of wine or some full fat cheese or whatever thing you've not been allowing yourself to eat) and I am a MUCH happier person these days AND the weight is slowly coming off.
Kristina: travel throws off my routine too. I haven't yet come up with a plan for the Paris/Bruges trip to "stay on track", I guess I'll see how it goes.
Sarah (WnT): I'm glad you are feeling better! Congrats on the the last day with the monsters.
Bobbie: WTG, being down another 5 pounds! That's awesome!!
Megan: Yay for long weekends!0 -
Amy - My only goal for this trip to Europe is to not eat so much food that I am uncomfortably full and miserable. To taste what I want but not eat the bakery. I think all the walking will negate the food. And I will try to eat healthy..but who knows when I will get to go back, so if I see a crusty croissant, I'm having it.0
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Well, I made homemade soup from scratch last night with lots of spinach and swiss chard from our CSA...super nutritious and really yummy, but HOLY COW was it ever labor intensive to make. It took me 2 1/2 hours! Whew. I had intended to make enough to freeze, but I had a bit of a blender accident with part of the batch (as in, part of the lid was blended in with the soup), so I only got like 5 servings out of it. Boo.
Also, why is it when I eat the most healthy food that my stomach seems to go the most nuts, and yet I could eat some processed crap and be fine? I've been shunning processed/not healthy/non-organic foods for the last year (as much as possible) so you would think that my stomach might've realized what's good for it by now. Sheesh.
Rikki, I have to constantly keep my goals at the forefront of my mind to make it work. In my mind I have literally turned off the option to "cheat," making everything a do a conscious decision. If I really want to eat something but I don't have the calories left for it, I either don't eat it, or I eat it knowing that I'll have to work out more to make up for it, or I eat it knowing full well that I'll be over my calories for the day, possibly stall progress, and wind up feeling guilty. Whatever option I choose, I make myself fully aware of the consequences before I do it. Also, like Amy, I don't have any food that is considered "cheating" or "not allowed." If I want ice cream I will have ice cream, and I mean the real, full fat, homemade or Haagen Dazs Five ice cream that is super smooth and delicious, not that low fat stuff with all kinds of chemicals and preservatives. However, I'm not eating the whole pint -- I measure out my 1/2 cup, record it on MFP, and move on, satisfied. Speaking of MFP, it has been such a HUGE help to me as far as staying focused on the goal. Not only because of all of the wonderful people on this board, but because I'm on it all the time recording my food, thinking about my food, thinking about my exercise, seeing the progress others have made, etc. It seems like the more time I spend on MFP, the more focused I am on my goal and the more accountable I am to myself.
That having been said, we all have some kind of problem with food or we wouldn't be on here! my problem with food has never been emotional (I'm not a snacker, I don't eat when I'm bored, stressed, whatever), but I know that for many people it is and that makes things even harder. One of my good friends is an emotional eater, and she told me that she's started asking asking herself "why do I want to eat this?" before any snacks. If the answer is "I'm bored" or "I'm stressed" or anything other than "My stomach is growling and I need food" then she remembers her goal and walks away.
One thing is for sure -- you're on the right track being here! These ladies are truly inspiring!
Bobbie, I've noticed that I've gotten a little more afraid of heights as I've gotten older too. I really like hiking in the mountains though; so pretty! Not all of the hikes I do are high up though...there's a fairly flat trail by a lake not too far from my house that I love. I just love being outside! Unless it's sweltering hot, then I'm not hiking anywhere. :laugh:
Annette, I made it to level 3 of Shred and now have started back at level 1 to run through it one more time. It's not easy, but it sure does make you feel accomplished! I'm sorry about your dog. :frown:
Amy, I followed your lead and took a rest day yesterday. My calf muscles are still yelling at me, but they're a little better. I needed that. Removing your own stitch? Ouch!
Hosanna, what a great idea! I hope you're able to raise a lot of money. I know you're up for the challenge!
Lacey, that's sounds like one crazy dog walking session! I hope things are going okay with your dad...
Sarah(WnT), I'm glad you're feeling better. Being sick with four kids around has got to be ROUGH. Yay for school starting!
Kristina, it is always so hard for me to stay on target when I travel. It always messes me up for a couple of days after I get back too. I feel your pain, but it seems like you're getting off on the right foot with logging and exercise!
Okay, that was WAY longer than I imagined it would be. Back to work!0 -
Rikki-I have to 2nd what Pam & Amy said. It's not about ALL or NOTHING. It's about having what you want, when you want it, but making sure it's just some.
A trick I read that's helped me a little (sometimes doesn't) is to get out a serving of what I want. Look at it, think about it. How will it taste? How does it smell? How will it feel in my mouth? Then take a bite...don't swallow...chew, or savor for a moment. Then swallow. Then put down the food/fork/spoon, etc. How was it? Did it taste as good as you thought it would? Did it feel like you thought it would in your mouth? Repeat this for EVERY bite. Surprisingly, sometimes, after 2-3 bites, your craving is gone.
It's not fool-proof. And the fact I only get out a serving & put the rest away is all that has saved me from binging sometimes. Note I said sometimes. There's times I have to force myself to get up & even just do some housecleaning or play with my kids, just to burn the extra calories for whatever I know I snacked on. And for the past 2 months...I've been stuck. Yes, I made AWESOME progress before, & I'm proud of me, but I'm stuck now & frustrated. I want it to be easy like it was before. I'm a bit like you. I've never been the skinny girl. I was always the "fat" (but pretty) friend (cause face it, you're gorgeous!!). Every little bit helps. Every meal, every snack, until it's habit...which it's still not a habit for me. So I'll keep going if you do! K? *hugs*
Lacey-hope the dog walking gets easier soon! And that something works out with taking G to work! Cooped up kids are ticking time bombs of fun! )
Amy-yay for stitches! NOT! Don't over work yourself & if you're THAT hungry, eat something! I'm sure you're hydrated enough for it to not be that. And your body is doing a lot of healing. Not sure that it burns calories per se, but I'm sure it needs a bit of extra food or something to rebuild what it's fixing up!
Pam-my body does the same thing! I think it's flushing all the crap out of us with the healthy junk. B/C if I stick to healthy for a few days...I'm OK. It's after a bit of crap, then back to healthy, that I have the issues. At least it was just the lid of the blender & not something that caused injury! Ouch!
Sarah-WnT-glad you're feeling better!! Maybe w/no monsters you can get some emotional rest too!!
Annette-hope the dog is better soon!!
Bobbie-yay for loss!
Kerry-yay for loss too, even if post-TOM! Hope I can get my scale to do that next week! LOL!
Kristina-even the girls at work are all lined up with me for TOM! It's getting kinda creepy! Makes me feel sorry for the men around here! LOL!
Welcome to the one new person...I don't remember your name, I just know you were on the other page, so jump right on in with the rest of us!
And, I think that's it. If I missed you, I'm sorry!
We're supposedly going to get some paperwork on the house today. That's what the realtor said. Not holding my breath here, but I really would like to be able to paint or something this weekend. BUT, I do have Saturday planned out for packing up at least. ) Mellie's got a sitter lined up, a ride for Aaron to go to ball practice, & Casey will be put to work! He just doesn't know it yet. He'll figure it out when Grannie shows up. My mom is a work horse...but in a good way. She's nice about it, but won't let me slack off either. I'm odd. I'm lazy when it comes to motivating myself to do stuff, but if someone is there to help me, I can NOT watch them work. I HAVE to help! Even if I end up doing most of the work.
On a good note...I RAN last night! Back to it. I backed up a couple of work-outs, figuring I wouldn't be at the same place I was with 2 weeks "off." I wasn't even at that point. I was DYING by the time I finished. BUT, I finished. I ran all of the runs. Some of them were VERY slow jogs, but I did it. And it worked out some of the leg soreness from kickball, so bonus for me!
And I was able to change Melodie this morning with no major physical fight! She cried, and stiffened up, but I could do it w/out half sitting on her or having Doug hold her! So it's an improvement! And Doug says she's been easier for him today too. Yay! There's hope!
OK, I've got half an hour of work left then off to parent night at the school to meet the teachers! Yay! TTYL!0 -
34.25 minutes left of this. Not that I'm counting...0
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Hey everyone!
I'm totally pooped. I've had a shocker at work today... i'm so glad i walked to and from, otherwise i wouldn't have got any exercise in at all!! well, apart from the obscene amount of running around i do at work every freakin' day.
AND to make EVERYTHING worse, i requested next friday-sunday off at work so that i could go to adelaide with my man for the Royal Show - a carnival.
Oh, i GOT friday-sunday off... BUT i have been rostered for ONE night shift... Thursday night. So i don't finish until 0700 Friday morning.
Well, THAT ain't happening, because the show is Friday.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!
Stupid work.
Sorry ladies, that's all i've got for now. Hope you're all having a better day than me!0
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