Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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Girls:
A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package
But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:
Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver
And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo
Next move?
^ already got me running the other direction 🤷🏼♀️5 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »Girls:
A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package
But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:
Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver
And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo
Next move?
^ already got me running the other direction 🤷🏼♀️
We've never met but I feel like I know you2 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Girls,
How would you handle jealousy in a friendship with a girl?
I’ve been the jealous ‘friend’. It was impossible for me to be an actual friend to her though. Nope, it was a steady diet of pettiness and resentment and oh my god, the schadenfreude
Sad thing is, she really saw me as a good friend. She didn’t know that her confessions of failure and self-doubt were things I craved rather than had empathy for. I hate that I was ever that person even as I understand why I was that person.
So.. I don’t think it’s really possible to call it a friendship at all if there’s jealousy, honestly5 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all
Who are these people telling you it’s a turn-off, my god talk about kicking someone when they’re down. “I have flaws that I worry are a turn-off” “ew don‘t talk about them that’s a turn-off”
seriously wth6 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
I have a lot of "flaws" but figured out at a young age its probably better to not draw people's attention to them, like don't say "I hate my *kitten*", then other people may look at your *kitten* any think " she's right, her *kitten* sucks". Dosen't mean I'm confident tho.
Learned this from hearing my friends critiquing themselves, like I never payed attention to Kelly's big thighs or Angie's nose especially, until they pointed it out.
I was ridiculously self-conscious as a teen. I had horrible horrible acne. Like small kids asked why my face looked like pizza and *kitten* like that
Honestly I was probably no more self-conscious than anyone else though really.
Anyway, one of my favorite comments came from my best friend’s mom one night. She was very no-nonsense and pragmatic. When she overheard us feeling embarrassed about how we looked or something, she just said “pshh, nobody’s looking at you anyway”. We looked at her in complete shock and she laughed at how bad it had come out. We still laugh about it every time we’re together, but what she meant was that EVERYONE is self-conscious, therefore no one is fixating on you like you are. I found it to be SO SO reassuring. It literally became a mantra of sorts whenever I was feeling super self-conscious.5 -
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Ladies...
A guy who pushes you to do more and improve, or a guy who accepts you just as you are and can careless about pushing you?
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What I'm saying is... Never ever give up on yourself...
If he is meant to be around, he'll learn to accept you for the way you are 💕[/quote]
The guy who pushes me to do more is a person I would very soon get annoyed with. The guy who accepts me as I am is the one. Bonus points if, like Whatsisface, he occasionally acknowledges my hard work and dedication where he sees it.1 -
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sweet_ermengarde wrote: »guys/girls
whats the best thing anyone ever given u as a gift
A set of ceramic mixing bowls. They're pretty in a neutral way, but functional. Like me.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I can have that preference, he can do as he pleases.
Whatsisface doesn't care what he looks like, so sometimes I express a preference, and he either does or doesn't do it. Over quarantine, he gets very shaggy, gets tired of it, then buzzes his hair and shaves.0 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
I've got the answer! They do it because they're looking at bewbs. Or the peach. You know.1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Who would you rather be?
Bond or Sherlock Holmes...
Who would you rather date?
Bond or Sherlock Holmes... 😬
Be Sherlock Holmes, date Bond. Mostly because Sherlock doesn't seem like he ever has the time for me, otherwise Sherlock because brainy is sexy.0 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies and Gents...
If she gives you the old "I don't get jealous" routine...
There's a high probability that this is a trap wrapped in a dare.... Ain't it? 😬
Please click below for the list of Disclaimers and Disclosures...This ain't about any of you guys "😂"
People: "I don't get jealous."
Narrator Voice: "90% chance they are jealous RIGHT NOW"1 -
Guys/girls: what do you feel when someone of the opposite sex treats you like a buddy? Like he/she calls you “bro” or “dude” or something similar. Is it endearing or offputting? What does it make you feel?
Guys/girls: what are you communicating to a member of the opposite sex when you treat them like a buddy? Like you call them “bro” or “dude” or something similar. What does it mean?
Depends. If there's a romantic history already, it's fun. Whatsisface and I do it.
Me: *something outrageous*
Whatsisface: Bro
Me: BRO
Whatsisface: BrO
When I do it to people I do not have a romantic history with, I am either pissed at them or annoyed with them.
Them: *something frat boy stupid*
Me: "Chill bro"
Them: *something politically stupid*
Me: "That is not how this works my dude"1 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »guys/girls
describe a guy/girl u think is physically perfect
pics okay but beware mods 👀
Physically: strong forearms, wide shoulders, tall, lanky. Geeky.
That said, I do not only go for this type.0 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
I'm torn. I'd want to shave his head, but also eh. I'd just watch a lot of The Rock and express my preferences.1 -
Girls:
A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package
But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:
Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver
And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo
Next move?
BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE0 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Girls,
How would you handle jealousy in a friendship with a girl?
Not a friend. Meme person only.0 -
Guys: she drives a mini van but definitely hot
Or
This one drives a (insert sports car) but is more mature in her looks
OR a combo...mini van with a nice mature attractivnesa
***asking for a friend😬1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys: she drives a mini van but definitely hot
Or
This one drives a (insert sports car) but is more mature in her looks
OR a combo...mini van with a nice mature attractivnesa
***asking for a friend😬
Which ones better in bed?3 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys: she drives a mini van but definitely hot
Or
This one drives a (insert sports car) but is more mature in her looks
OR a combo...mini van with a nice mature attractivnesa
***asking for a friend😬
I feel like this is akin to the hot/crazy chick matrix.0
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