Am I the only Virgin here?

I'm not a virgin, but I don't judge people for choosing who they give their virgnity to, or whatever they choose. I have only had sex with one person in my life, and that's my husband. That's how I wanted it. I had opprotunities before him, but it was also important to me that I waited until I found the person I knew i would marry. (The original plan was to wait until marriage but when you life together first, that because pretty much impossible lol)

It's your life, enjoy it how you see fit.

P.S. my best friend is a virgin at 25, so you're definately not alone.

I was a virgin before I got married, at 26. On purpose. It's a decision I made as a teen and stuck to it. It's definitely not the norm, and it's a difficult thing to do, but it was completely worth it. :-)

If you're happy with your status, then don't allow other people's biased opinions ruin your happiness. It takes a confident and secure person to enjoy being and staying single. And if you're asexual, you'll have a singularly uncomplicated life ahead of you. Just make sure you have a couple of good, true friends that you can talk to and share your life with so you don't isolate yourself, and set some lofty goals for yourself to achieve without the distraction of dating getting in your way.

I am just curious, cause the way a few people are talking on another thread, no names, it makes it seem being a virgin or single and wishing to stay that way is a disease.... or something.

No I am not gay...

and no I don't have any drive to change my single status.

If a person is a virgin, they should be proud. If a person is single they should be proud. No one can speak for you, but you, so let everyone elses' word fall to the ground. You don't have to live their life. You only have one life to live and that's yours.

Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.

That's what you think...

Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.

That's what you think...

Well, he tells me he is and I have no reason to believe he's lying because he certainly doesn't have to.

I am and will be until the day I'm married!

I am. 44 and holding.

Holding what is the question =P

Well, I lost my virginity at the age of 12. However, I dont think its a disease, if anything losing your virginity at a very young age can deprive you of some experiences since sex tends to ruin some innocent experiences.

I'm a virgin! And that will change when I'm ready; but for now, I'm too insecure with my body to show it to anyone in that way. I'm not rushing it, though.

...nvm I'll leave this alone

I'm a virgin......in my butt.

I was a virgin until only a few years ago (only been with one guy as well), so I understand the kind of stigma that comes with "virgin territory" (ha ha) after a certain age.
I definitely don't judge those who have been with many partners, even if it's a choice I didn't/wouldn't make. I also never judge "older" virgins, as I am a person who made that choice. (I also know people who want to remain virgins till marriage, which is an amazing, incredibly difficult life decision. I respect it fully)

I'm a virgin......in my butt.

Heh.

There's nothing wrong with being single and nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you are happy with your life choices/circunpmstances, you shouldn't let anyone get you down about it.

That being said, *technically* you could possibly have a low testosterone level or something which would lower your sex drive. Having imbalanced hormones can cause other issues as well. If you were a friend of mine in real life, I would probably tell you to stick with whatever choices make you happy but perhaps also get your hormone levels checked *just in case* they might be off, b/c if one thing is out of balance in your body it can affect other things. So I would politely recommend a thorough checkup just to make sure there is nothing that you need to be concerned about. But aside from that, plenty of people are happy being single and not procreating. Your life choices should be whatever you want, not what your family thinks you need.

Haven't been for 10 years now. Man that was a long time ago. I have two kids.