The Sober Squad- Alcohol Free Living
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Thank you for the article, Ruby. I do believe at some point, people will come to think about alcohol the way they now think about tobacco products. Unfortunately, it is going to take a very long time.2
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Yesterday I almost got hit by a car at Wal-Mart. It had been stopped at a stop sign outside the store. I left my car, passed one lane and passed in front of her about 3/4 of the way when she stepped on the gas a bit quickly. I jumped out of the way and I must have looked exasperated. It appeared her daughter was in the car. The woman did not roll the window down on the passenger side where the, maybe 13 year old, kid was sitting,and was almost yelling and had a bad attitude while she was saying that she didn't see me. I asked her how she could not see me??I had to motion for her to calm down after this scenario was repeated a couple of times. I then had to walk away. There was such a lack of apology. All the while I was wondering if she had been drinking.5
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salleewins wrote: »Yesterday I almost got hit by a car at Wal-Mart. It had been stopped at a stop sign outside the store. I left my car, passed one lane and passed in front of her about 3/4 of the way when she stepped on the gas a bit quickly. I jumped out of the way and I must have looked exasperated. It appeared her daughter was in the car. The woman did not roll the window down on the passenger side where the, maybe 13 year old, kid was sitting,and was almost yelling and had a bad attitude while she was saying that she didn't see me. I asked her how she could not see me??I had to motion for her to calm down after this scenario was repeated a couple of times. I then had to walk away. There was such a lack of apology. All the while I was wondering if she had been drinking.
Oh my ! That is such an ordeal you went through. Yes, she could have been on something because the anger and blaming others was so obvious. She didnt take responsibility for her actions. Who wouldnt say to you, “Oh my God, im so sorry, I didnt see you. I apologize. Are you ok?” ?
She Totally lacked in empathy and blamed the victim! I’m happy you are safe. Xo5 -
Last night, the girls at scrapbooking made Rum Chata and Stoli caramel martinis. THey looked sooooo good. But the “new and improved” Julie just kept scrapbooking. Went to bed and had the best sleep in months. Over 8 hours and very peaceful dreams. If I had drank last night, I would have been tossing and turning, had racing heartbeat all night, and woke up puffy and tired. I’m so happy with the choice I made.
Wishing all of you a productive Saturday or peaceful Saturday night for you Aussie friends!9 -
@salleewins EEEEK!! Very scary! What a poor example for that child!! Really glad you are ok!
@RubyRed427 Thank you for that article. Another sad reminder of what we are all realizing, thank goodness!
@JenT304 You are SO positive, but I'm not so much...it would be great if that happened...at the same time, it's interesting to me how many people still smoke and begin to smoke in spite of the reams of evidence of it's obviously harmful side effects. Like the alcohol article pointed out, lots of money is being made at the expense of others' health. I'm a skeptic that things will change LOL!!
BUT, all of us are changing2 -
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The bit about drinking killing people really resonates with me. I turn 60 next month and will have been alcohol free 18 months. Older problem drinkers are very high risk. A lot of "functional alcoholics" become non functional in retirement.9
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I am glad for you Ruby!!
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We are all dying but You Don't Have To Speed Up The Process
Hello Friend
Bacon
Ham
The Sun
Chimney Sweeping
Arsenic
Smoking
Salted Fish
Alcohol
These are all things that are linked to cancer. Along with many, many chemicals, jobs, etc. We know that technically we’re all going to die, but do we really need to speed the process up?
It has been found that drinking alcohol increases the risk of developing the following types of cancers:
Head and neck Cancers - especially cancers of the mouth (oral cavity) throat (pharynx) voice box (larynx)
Liver Cancer
Esophageal Cancer
Breast Cancer
Bowel Cancer
How does this happen?
First, ethanol, the main component of alcohol, is a known carcinogen, and alcoholic beverages can contain at least fifteen other carcinogenic compounds including formaldehyde, arsenic and lead.
Second, when your body metabolizes and digests alcohol, it produces a toxic chemical called acetaldehyde. Acetaldehyde damages your cells, rendering them incapable of repair and making them more vulnerable to cancer.
Third, alcohol can increase the levels of certain hormones, including estrogen. As messengers in our body, hormones are responsible for giving our cells instructions, such as when to divide. Having high levels of estrogen is linked with breast cancer, which is one of the most common types of cancers. Interestingly, 4% of all breast cancer in the UK has been linked to alcohol consumption.
Fourth, alcohol has other devastating effects on the body - such as weakening its ability to process and absorb nutrients, liver damage, weight gain, and overall body fatigue. All of these lessen our body’s vitality, in turn lessening its ability to fight off illness and cancer.
Many people think that if they drink moderately, they are not at risk. But studies have shown that even light drinking is linked to cancer. This association can not be denied… if you drink, no matter how much, you are increasing your risk for developing cancer.
The good news is that as soon as you cut back or quit, you are decreasing that risk.
The other thing I have noticed is that once you cut back on alcohol or quit, you have a tendency to be more mindful and health conscious in general. In my experience, realizing what was in alcohol and how I had been poisoning myself all that time really forced me to be more aware of everything I was eating and drinking.
I just told a friend the other day that I never realized my 40’s would be made up of so much kale and kombucha. I thought I’d be more exotic than that.
To your health,
xxAnnie7 -
The above was in my inbox this morning as I subscribe to Annie Grace emails. Sobering food for thought. (pun intended).
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There are no guarantees of course. It's all about trying to lower the odds of an early death. There is lots of anecdata about chain smoking obese drunks living independently 90+ years but those just stick out in peoples' minds because they are rare. The benefits of alcohol get a lot of press because they are popular stories. Not long ago a huge study did receive some press and while it did confirm the results of light drinking being associated with a slightly lower risk than never drinking, it turns out that light means 3 drinks a week or less. Anything beyond that raises the risk pretty quickly. If you are participating in this thread, it's a pretty safe bet that limiting yourself to 3 drinks or less a week is very unlikely.
https://www.cnn.com/2018/06/19/health/cancer-risk-alcohol-mortality-study/index.html
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Quote from an article about who funds many alcohol related studies:
Rigorous as this research may seem, though, there are experts who are worried about the alcohol industry's role in it. The New York Times notes that two-thirds of the study's funding thus far has come from money given to a foundation set up for the NIH by five of the largest alcohol companies in the world, including Heineken and Anheuser-Busch InBev; companies that have a vested interest in promoting the idea that alcohol is healthy. Some of the researchers involved also have previous financial ties to the industry.4 -
I agree with all of your posts above about the dangers or alcohol to the body and I assume the mind. Also, @CarvedTones you made me laugh when you said “if you are participating in this thread...” limiting yourself is highly unlikely. So true in my case!
P.s. An aside, I remember reading and seeing the heart healthy seal of approval from the American Heart Association on a box of Lucky Charms cereal. I imagine there are a lot of behind the scenes funding going on from major companies.3 -
RubyRed427 wrote: »I agree with all of your posts above about the dangers or alcohol to the body and I assume the mind. Also, @CarvedTones you made me laugh when you said “if you are participating in this thread...” limiting yourself is highly unlikely. So true in my case!
P.s. An aside, I remember reading and seeing the heart healthy seal of approval from the American Heart Association on a box of Lucky Charms cereal. I imagine there are a lot of behind the scenes funding going on from major companies.4 -
HAPPY sober beginning to our week!!
5 more sleeps till I'm back in my own digs!! I'm looking forward to having my normal routine back & am REALLY missing my canine companion. I'll be taking him for a bit of a walk this aft & having a cuddle, but I DO NOT look forward to leaving cause every time I show up he gets SO excited and I know that he's thinking I'm coming to take him back home. Interestingly, my daughter says he's been howling in the middle of the night. He is a Lhasa & I have never heard him howl...so I googled it and apparently one of the reasons dogs will howl is to beckon their owners back home....AWWW!! He's howling for me! I won't do this again though. I had already committed so had to follow through...plus I think lap dogs are my thing...no more big monstrous dogs for me...She is a cutie & very lovable with humans, just not other dogs...7 -
lorrainequiche59 wrote: »HAPPY sober beginning to our week!!
5 more sleeps till I'm back in my own digs!! I'm looking forward to having my normal routine back & am REALLY missing my canine companion. I'll be taking him for a bit of a walk this aft & having a cuddle, but I DO NOT look forward to leaving cause every time I show up he gets SO excited and I know that he's thinking I'm coming to take him back home. Interestingly, my daughter says he's been howling in the middle of the night. He is a Lhasa & I have never heard him howl...so I googled it and apparently one of the reasons dogs will howl is to beckon their owners back home....AWWW!! He's howling for me! I won't do this again though. I had already committed so had to follow through...plus I think lap dogs are my thing...no more big monstrous dogs for me...She is a cutie & very lovable with humans, just not other dogs...
This reminds me of one time I was drinking and over at my daughter's house all night and my poor dog was howling,,he never howls either! He did it again in the morning and I told him to quiet down! I honestly think our animals can sense drinking is bad for us,I've seen him look at the can,at me,then back at the can accusatory like haha,happy AF week all3 -
Techno-tard strikes again...this is Kona, but we're not quite right!! Story of my life LOL! Do any tech-saavy people know how to turn the pic right-side up?? I just kinda figured how to post a pic, but obviously it needs some tweaking!! BTW, I did this by myself with no help from my tech-saavy daughter, can you tell???4
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lorrainequiche59 wrote: »HAPPY sober beginning to our week!!
5 more sleeps till I'm back in my own digs!! I'm looking forward to having my normal routine back & am REALLY missing my canine companion. I'll be taking him for a bit of a walk this aft & having a cuddle, but I DO NOT look forward to leaving cause every time I show up he gets SO excited and I know that he's thinking I'm coming to take him back home. Interestingly, my daughter says he's been howling in the middle of the night. He is a Lhasa & I have never heard him howl...so I googled it and apparently one of the reasons dogs will howl is to beckon their owners back home....AWWW!! He's howling for me! I won't do this again though. I had already committed so had to follow through...plus I think lap dogs are my thing...no more big monstrous dogs for me...She is a cutie & very lovable with humans, just not other dogs...
This reminds me of one time I was drinking and over at my daughter's house all night and my poor dog was howling,,he never howls either! He did it again in the morning and I told him to quiet down! I honestly think our animals can sense drinking is bad for us,I've seen him look at the can,at me,then back at the can accusatory like haha,happy AF week all
I can relate. I was way short on patience, especially with drinking, with the cat and he seemed to cry a lot--like all the time almost and it seemed at the time for nothing. I really was thinking of myself and ignoring him. My son's cat-- and he probably was wondering how my son went to heaven and left him with me.7 -
Bought some non-alcoholic Sangria yesterday along with a lot of dark chocolate. I don't seem to overdose on that type of chocolate much. So it is good. I am happy that this holiday season that I belong to Planet Fitness. I am excited that there is snow covering the rest of the leaves, because they were burning me out. I can't seem to lose much weight raking. I don't know why. I think there is too much raking and not enough recovery time and it is hard to drink the water needed to hydrate. So frustrating every year. Next year I want to be maintaining for leaf season. No shoveling for now and that takes way less time than raking anyways. I guess I will be raking in the spring. I will shoot for maintaining by then. With the snow though, the holiday season seems really here. I have loved this time of year best, but the loss of my Dave has hit me hard again and the d--- liquor store has been yelling louder and louder with my tears. This will be my first holiday season without my enemy alcohol and I am excited to take it on and win. I can't tax myself at all though and have to be extra kind to myself. I want to be successful.8
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@lorrainequiche59 You are adorable and so is Kona I'm with you on the little dog thing. We had to put our Rainie (yorkie/shih-tzu) down on January 2nd and I miss her terribly. I have no idea how to help with your pic, but it looks cool sideways ;-)
Speaking of tech issues, has anybody had problems with MFP the last couple days? I am having loading issues, message issues, comment issues....you name it....it's mfPeeving me off.
@salleewins I'm thinking of you as these holidays roll in. Do be kind to yourself, it is unimaginable what you have gone through. ((hugs)) I don't eat a lot of sweets but I am in love with the Ghirardelli Intense Dark Sea Salt Soiree. Like you, I won't overdose on that kind of treat.
Happy Monday, peeps. Kinda dragging over here the last few days, but I'm hanging in there.4
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