WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY2022
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Machka-good reminder about the private group-all sorts of topics there. I thought of it when the spirited discussion was going on, but since I am not an organizer of it, didn't know about bringing it up. I also loved the image/reminder of our dial up days!
Katla-hope husband continues improvement and you can move forward on plans to be closer to your children.
Michele NC-what about the mixture for hummingbird feeders? I believe that is pretty much pure sugar.
Lisa-I understand about the heat. I sweat profusely but I am learning to work around some of it. Early morning walks are best for me, but I have found I can go for about half an hour even when very warm. I have not forgotten your request regarding pelvic floor exercises. I am waiting to get a couple more of them in the printed version and learn a bit more so I can speak intelligently.
RvRita-good luck with sinus surgery. I had deviated septum repair and was one of the best things I have done (surgery wise).
Debbie-glad your DH is finally getting some rest. It sounds like you have both handled situation very well.
Busy day with work. Many different items to cover and then had to leave for physical therapy (I am trying to figure out how to discreetly discuss, but strengthening pelvic floor is interesting and I hope helpful).
There appears to be a break in the rain, so I am going to go and get a quick walk in. I did try the pre-order for the MacBook Air and the system jammed up. Will wait until it hits the stores next week. It isn't a necessity but want to order before old one dies.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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I have done (surgery wise).
Debbie-glad your DH is finally getting some rest. It sounds like you have both handled situation very well.
Busy day with work. Many different items to cover and then had to leave for physical therapy (I am trying to figure out how to discreetly discuss, but strengthening pelvic floor is interesting and I hope helpful).
There appears to be a break in the rain, so I am going to go and get a quick walk in. I did try the pre-order for the MacBook Air and the system jammed up. Will wait until it hits the stores next week. It isn't a necessity but want to order before old one dies.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
DH was doing better this morning until she got real pissy with him because he wanted to take a shower before going t o pick up food for her(she had her hot cocoa and didn't want breakfast but wanted lunch right when he was going down to get cleaned up-)
Then when I got there, he got a call from the handyman that is going to come put new/additional railings on both staircases. He knows how she is- he mentioned the last time he was there working on the house she had actually blamed dh for his brother's death, which was a car accident.
Every little thing sets them both off. Like I said before- the place is just toxic for everyone that comes in.The only reason the handyman is coming back to help is because of dh- he said before he would never ever help her again- she was very mean and rude to him when he took dh's side on something she had said- cussed him out and everything.
I am going to check into Meals on Wheels for her- it is crazy to have dh go pick up food at least one or two times every day, she eats a little then leaves the rest. Doesn't like left overs(I have the same issue with dh at our house-hates left over)
This can't go on forever-
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Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- slower pace for kirby- 2hrs 11min 40sec, 107elev, 2.70ap, 90ahr, 159mhr, 6.17mi= 605c
Strava app = 703c
Walk home to gym- 12.20min, .52mi= 55c
Strava app = 60c
Lateral machine- 21min, 10w, 5resist, 112ahr, 132mhr, 2.34mi= 163c
Walk gym to home- 11.56min, .52mi= 52c
Strava app = 59c
Total cal 8841 -
Machka: I appreciate the reminder about internet security.
I do regularly check my FB settings, and update passwords. But I doesn’t hurt to have a reminder from time to time.
And I check on our other page from time to time.
Mostly reading along this week, as I have been busy gardening and working on art/craft.
🥳🎉 Cheers to all those celebrating.
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
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Finally got my blood work done. Only had to fast for 14 hours. Never did get my coffee. Yes, we have coffee at the shop, but it just doesn't taste right to me. DH came with me to go to dr and lab, he is NOT a patient waiter! Then off to Lowes and get his new glasses before heading back to work. It was two LONG hours to add to my anxiety ridden day. Oh, then it was raining again. We need the rain, but didn't help DH and his moods. I swear it is that time of the month for all the men I know.
No patience today....I need to quit letting my SIL get on my last nerve. Why do a job half *kitten*? Task, restocking shelves....only put out half of anything. Task, take old price tags off items...only took off half. It iritates me that it is her business, yet she cares so little.Thanks for letting me vent.
Time to get some rest.
Hugs!
Prayers!
High fives!
Kylia in Ohio6 -
I am really frustrated with how my weight fluctuates. I lost 20 lbs and now have just stayed there!
I'm retired and my husband works out of town 4 days a week.
I never realized how difficult it is to meet new people at my age!
Logging every bite of food and I think that helps keep the calories in check.
I've met my goal of exercising 3 times a week this week. Hope to keep it up.
Wish I could comment to each of you as there is a lot of wisdom in this group.6 -
bmorisette1002 wrote: »I am really frustrated with how my weight fluctuates. I lost 20 lbs and now have just stayed there!
I'm retired and my husband works out of town 4 days a week.
I never realized how difficult it is to meet new people at my age!
Logging every bite of food and I think that helps keep the calories in check.
I've met my goal of exercising 3 times a week this week. Hope to keep it up.
Wish I could comment to each of you as there is a lot of wisdom in this group.
Welcome. One of the most frustrating parts of healthy living is the weight plateaus. I am retired and have gradually added more and more exercise to my life. I rarely sit for more than a short time. I have an exercise bike in my living room so I can be active even when watching TV. I meet friends for walks rather than a seated visit. My husband is always home so I have a tough time finding time to be alone except when I'm walking. I hope you will keep coming back.
Barbie in NW WA6 -
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Worked then the soup kitchen. Came home and went in the pool while Vince power washed. I tell you, the pool isn’t even refreshing. Work tomorrow and Jess and Colby should be here. I did get a walk around the block in, tho. My timer for by the pool (the new one) doesn’t work, it doesn’t ring. So after work tomorrow I’ll probably stop at WalMart and exchange it.
Rori – have you ever looked into having Mars be a therapy cat? Sounds like that’s something he’s made for
Made sourdough waffles for Vince and maybe Colby. I know Jess won’t eat them.
I had my wallet stolen right before we moved to NC. I had a hold put on my credit. So when we went to buy the house, they needed to see my SS card. The realtor said that’s never happened. It’s because I had the hold put on my credit.
Believe it or not, grape juice (at least the ones I see here) has MORE sugar in it than apple juice, but the apple juice SMELLS sweeter. I’m thinking if I can’t find Hawaiian Punch concentrate, I’ll try some apple juice concentrate
Lisa – yea you can get back to exercise!
Kylia – talking about the electricity for some reason reminded me that I needed to install an update on my phone. Thanks. Whenever I have fasting blood work done, I usually take something to eat with me in the car...lol
katla – hug and hug
Rita – best of luck with the surgery
Allie – your picture of Rhody put a smile on my face
Barbara – wine irresistable to wasps? You’re too much. Personally, I would rather have the wine!!!!
Boy, it’s really raining out now. To look on the positive – the rain will wash all the “crud” off my ceramics from Vince power washing
Off to sleep with Shadow
Michele NC3 -
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@fanncy0626 ...fanncy0626 wrote: »You also post where you conduct bike rides. Are you not afraid that people will follow you to your bike rides and get information on you?? Also, it's a little condescending of you to suggest that people do not have computer backgrounds. It feels as though you are being very judgmental. We know all about your husband his accidents and where he worked. We know where you live. We also know where you have lived in the past. Everybody here has lived a very long life and has been around long enough to take care of themselves. As well as other people in their lives. This is supposed to be a place to come for support not condemnation. Let's share the love instead of criticism.
💞 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
I did have to laugh at this ...
You also post where you conduct bike rides. Are you not afraid that people will follow you to your bike rides and get information on you??
Given that we don't usually decide where we're going to ride until very shortly before we go ... it would be rather problematic for people to follow us. I could just imagine someone standing by the side of some random road waiting for us to come along!!
Please, let us know where we're riding this weekend!
We know all about your husband his accidents and where he worked.
Accidents? Plural? I don't know all about his accidents!!
And no, believe me you don't know all. I've hardly told you anything.
Where did he work?
As for where I have lived and currently live ... I really don't think you do.
But hey, let me know, you might surprise me!The way that you pointed out to people on here and specific people would make them very, very uncomfortable. You didn't like it at all when I did it in response to you and I didn't even mention your name. This is the second time that this has happened and last time a person's name was also mentioned and I could tell her feelings were hurt. You are not the only person that knows how to use a computer and I don't think anyone here needs a mother. Please be careful how you treat others. Next time just don't make it so obvious.
💞 Mary from Arizona/ Minnesota4 -
grandmallie wrote: »Machka- there is another privste forum?
I just had a thought and was chuckling to myself.. i can see you and your husband cycling with Rhody in a backpack...with his head sticking out with kitty goggles on a little scarf blowing in the breeze..
What a hoot..
That is funny!!
Thing is ... every now and then I ask Rhody if he'd like to come for a ride with us ... something like that!
M in Oz1 -
Whidislander wrote: »
I wish!Machka you are rolling over and going back to sleep!
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
July: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
I did! I slept 12 hours!!
First weeks, with all the changes, meeting new people, learning new stuff etc., always take it out of me.
M in Oz2 -
grandmallie wrote: »Machka- there is another privste forum?
I just had a thought and was chuckling to myself.. i can see you and your husband cycling with Rhody in a backpack...with his head sticking out with kitty goggles on a little scarf blowing in the breeze..
What a hoot..
There's a Group.
So if you're here ... look to the right where it says My Groups. Click on My Groups. You'll be taken to a page with your groups.
For me, the page looks like this, but if you haven't joined any groups, it will likely be empty. In the search box (upper right, where it says "Search Groups" type: Women Ages 50+
You'll find our group!
Or you can use the link: https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/123702-women-ages-50
The group is private so it is possible I, or a few others, might have to let you in. But give it a go, and see what happens. I just checked and you are a member, so you should be able to go right in.
Our Lisa set it up a couple years ago.
Machka in Oz
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Good workout this afternoon ...
Longish run-walk ...
Rowing. And then I did some weightlifting.
Machka in Oz
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My most recent colouring creation ...
Machka in Oz6 -
Machka- Nice coloring....I found it.. thank you..
My bestie is up from North Carolina so a bunch of us are getting together tonight which will be fun..
But I have to go up a flight of stairs and thats not great.ahhh well what can ya do.2 -
My most recent colouring creation ...Machka in Oz
Love that Machka. Especially the shading on the leaves. I'm not sure why I can't bring myself to pick up a grown-up coloring book, but I think it has something to do with my inability to stay within the black lines.
It does remind me that I actually did want to create SOMEthing while Corey's away. To my knowledge, I don't have to be anywhere until I go to the airport to pick him up next week, so can't use scheduled calls or labs to give me an excuse. I have stretched canvas in a number of sizes to paint, and lots of paint, etc. I have all I need for four different projects, and haven't started any of them. I've been deadline driven all my working life, especially when I edited newspapers for a living. I think I'm missing it. At the same time, I'm balking at self-imposed deadlines, and I love the fact that I don't have to do anything if I don't want to.
Is a puzzlement:
https://youtu.be/9u5iHzag120
Good lord, Yul Brynner was beautiful.
Weird Saturday in progress at my house this morning--The monkey mind has taken over, and I'm just reeling from one thought process to the next...
Later,
Love y'all,
Lisa
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"The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials."--Lin Yutang
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Quick goooooood morning!
I skimmed and will catch up soon. Pumpkin, my outdoor cat, finally returned this morning! Makes my heart happy! My dog Ginger pouts when her porch buddy isn’t around.
I’m taking a silversmithing course. Day 1 was yesterday. We made earrings and today / tomorrow we’re making a ring!
The house we’re remodeling for my middle kiddo is almost ready! They’ll be about 50 minutes away after they move. Being closer to a bigger town will be nice for them. It’s been so lovely having them to see daily. I’m going to miss having her close.
Katla Big hugs and praying for your DH’s healing.
Leslie from the Ozark’s
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For the most part, over the past 4+ years, I've tried to focus on the 3rd choice: "choose one problem to solve" ... and solve it. And the 6th choice: "keep busy".fanncy0626 wrote: »We know all about your husband his accident ...
Many times I have wished I could talk to someone ALL about my husband's accident. I've told people little snippets here and there. Quick summaries. On FB, I've posted applicable memes now and then. But I've never sat down with someone and poured my heart out. I've never told anyone all about my husband's accident.
The 4th choice above is: "talk it out - speak to someone you trust about how you are feeling". I have not been able to do that over the past 4+ years and I'm not sure I ever will. By this point, I'm not sure how beneficial it would be. I don't know that it would change anything or help anything.
Meanwhile, today, I have more or less focused on the 1st choice ... things I am grateful for and things in my control. I've slept - for which I am very grateful. I'm comfortably watching the Tour de France - which I enjoy. And I've tidied half the house and have gotten a few things done - things in my control.
Machka in Oz
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Rainy Day in Georgia!6
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LisaInArkansas wrote: »My most recent colouring creation ...Machka in Oz
Love that Machka. Especially the shading on the leaves. I'm not sure why I can't bring myself to pick up a grown-up coloring book, but I think it has something to do with my inability to stay within the black lines.
Later,
Love y'all,
Lisagrandmallie wrote: »Machka- Nice coloring....I found it.. thank you..
Thanks!
I don't entirely stay within the lines either. For one thing, I use pens and sometimes they bleed out of the lines. Other times, I just get carried away.
Then I try to rectify the situation which is all right sometimes, but other times it's like trying to trim the leg of a chair to ensure the chair doesn't rock ... and you end up with a chair with no legs.
I'm working on a mother and baby elephant, all in shades of grey. But I'm tempted to add another colour in there.
It's something I work on for a few minutes now and then throughout my evenings. Helps relax my brain a little.
M in Oz
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My brother rang this morning. He hadn't got my message about covid, and I hadn't got his about coming to visit. He is hoping to come over for one or two nights with his wife this week. I said, I thought I could only manage one night.
DH is at cricket all week. I actually was looking forward to having the house to myself. I can’t do Monday or Tuesday anyway. I love my brother and his wife very much and we get on very well, but I'm still low in energy. Luckily, my cleaner is coming tomorrow! Also they are very easy going and have zero housekeeping standards!. It's just a matter of making up a couple of single beds.
I actually think it will be fine, but I'm not signing up for two nights. Food will be eating out, or delivery. DH doesn't get back until 7.30 on cricket days, so he will have to scavenge.
Surprisingly, DH has decided to go to his old friend's funeral Monday week!!! It's in North London and he hates the tube. Nevertheless, he is going to make the effort. It might still be a heatwave, but it might have broken by then.
I did a tiny bit of gymming this morning for the first time since we've been back and popped out to buy a newspaper. Nothing else, apart from food prep.
I'm very near to finishing unpacking my suitcase. It's on the ground floor, in DH'S study, and I'm bringing up a bit at a time. Nearly done. I may eat a Mars bar ice-cream for my snack. One of my guilty pleasures.
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Our ONE day actually off yesterday and we went to the Akron Zoo. Had a GREAT time. Hunter was totally enthralled with EVERYTHING. He loves animals. Ran the entire time and still had energy. Dinner at Longhorn Steakhouse was a highlight as we don't have those in MN and we haven't been to one since Anne was stationed on the East Coast.
Anne's at practice this morning and we're doing the D2-3 game tonight, then OUR BIG GAME tomorrow!!!
Carla, temp in OH
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Lisa if you want a deadline, we can give it to you! 🤣🤣😘
Surgery went better than I thought. They did take the bone spur out. Not much pain- I’m surprised and thankful!
I was more stressed about the psychiatrist appointment than the surgery but glad all is done. My psych asked me if I had support people/group- I couldn’t think of anything. But I now have my brains back and have everyone on here and a couple other friends not physically close but a phone call away. I am so thankful for all. I’m more blessed then I thought. I need to start a grateful journal.
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Rita glad your surgery went well!
Annie in Delaware1
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