WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY2022

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  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,614 Member
    edited July 2022
    Debbie ((hugs))
    Bonnie in WY, con very grats on meeting your exercise goals this week. Take your measurements, sometimes when the scale is stubborn, the tape measure can be encouraging.
    Machka :love: the “dreams” meme. Could you start interviewing potential counselors? Talking it out really can help relieve some of the pain, even if talking doesn’t change the reality. Thing is, it takes usually takes time to find one you are comfortable with and can trust. Never know til you try. I lucked out once and got some big help from a chance, one time meetup.
    Lisa Yul Brynner, ah, yes!
    Leslie thankful Pumpkin returned safe and sound! Silversmithing? How creative!
    Carla great zoo pic!
    Rita so thankful the surgery went well. Whoshing (thank you Rori) healing and swift, painless recovery.
    Lanette is there a way to stop the dollar tree alarm once it starts sounding? Reminds me of a long story about Joe sleeping through the alarm I accidentally triggered trying to get into our house late one night when I’d forgotten my key. Policeman finally had to put a brick through the door glass (while standing behind me), which finally woke Joe up. He was grumpy I was ecstatic, I’d thought he’d been murdered in the house.
    Rebecca your chief did great keeping that flower alive!
    Flea sounds like a good $35/month investment for your mom.
    Welcome back @17761776 Gayle in Minn Mn! Like Ginny said, you can bookmark this thread to find it again under “My Bookmarks” : Machka’s directions are more thorough, but hope this little snippet helps:
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    Kay thanks for the info that fitbit syncs with mfp, not sure I’d want that. Do you have the option to turn that feature off?
    Michele what you said to Machka about the “talk it out” option.



    Done:
    7/8: Move: 1 set pt, dogs to powerline, steps: 5993
    Fuel: protein=60g sugar=95g fiber=16g sodium=1469mg fruit=1 vegs=2
    Live: Joe, readings, BP, emailed hymns, play with plants
    Wt: 140!!!


    Lighter, lovelies!

    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD

    2022: Be still and listen.
    July: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
    Nice afternoon bicycle ride. :)

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    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
    auntiebk wrote: »
    Machka :love: the “dreams” meme. Could you start interviewing potential counselors? Talking it out really can help relieve some of the pain, even if talking doesn’t change the reality. Thing is, it takes usually takes time to find one you are comfortable with and can trust. Never know til you try. I lucked out once and got some big help from a chance, one time meetup.


    Welcome back @17761776 Gayle in Minn Mn! Like Ginny said, you can bookmark this thread to find it again under “My Bookmarks” : Machka’s directions are more thorough, but hope this little snippet helps:
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    Lighter, lovelies!

    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
    2022: Be still and listen.
    July: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.

    I found a really good neuropsychologist a few months after my husband's accident. She was wonderful! Expensive, but wonderful. But 2 or 3 years ago, she moved into a different line of work (still neuropsychology, but not with clients). I haven't seen anyone since.


    And thanks Barbara. :)


    M in Oz

  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,711 Member
    Machka - My heart goes out to you. You have lost your best friend. We all need a person in our lives with whom we can share our intimate thoughts. Our forbidden thoughts. Our angry, grief-filled thoughts. Our hopes. Our nightmares.
    A fortunate few have someone in our life who can do this for us. Many do not.
    In the late 90s I went to a grief counsellor. She was wonderful. Your grief and all the feelings you are dealing with and heroically keeping under are requiring enormous amounts of energy from you. Someone who can listen and hold that grief with you would be of enormous value.
    As Barbara said, you might not find the right person straight away.
    I send you all good wishes.

    Heather UK xxxxxx
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
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  • KJLaMore
    KJLaMore Posts: 2,847 Member
    Kay - Your scale sounds nice! What I need is a scale that will get up off the floor and slap the fork out of my hand.
    Heather- I hope your visit with your brother and his wife goes well. They seem to be understanding people (from what you have told us about them), so, remember to listen to your body and if you need more recovery time, to let them know. Your words to Machka were right on target and very well said. Hugs for you both. The Hollyhocks are lovely!
    Lisa- Oh, how my mother LOVED Yul Brynner! We used to tease her and call him Yul Gibbons (the Grape Nuts spokesperson). lol

    Well, it is a lovely Sunday morning and the triathalon is going on. The turnaround point for the "sprint" distance for the bike portion is about two houses north of mine. There is a man with a megaphone. Need I say more? lol I really don't mind, but I am sure it is no fun for those who live right at the turnaround point. It is fun to see the cyclists who are doing the "olympic" distance go whizzing by. They ride south for another 10k, then turn around to complete their 40k ride; dismount and begin their run segment. The temps this morning are actually quite perfect for this event. A lovely, cool, 65*F. The lake temp is in the 60s (actually pretty normal for July), and it is flat as glass, so it was probably a nice swim portion.
    Oh well, I better get moving. I have some things that I need to get done today to get ready for our second field trip, this week. It is going to be a bit more intense, as I will have 11 kids with me and we are going to be visiting the farmer's market and buying some produce. We also need to fit in the splash pad, trolley ride, ice cream, and lunch before we head back home for naps.
    Hugs to all who need them! ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,529 Member
    Well, I went downstairs to exercise and evidently Jess and Colby slept down there. Not sure if they were watching a movie and fell asleep or if they slept down there because it was cooler. So since I just exercise in a sports bra and underwear (no one sees me but maybe Vince), I didn’t think it good if they got up and saw me so I just walked around the block twice. Even tho it was misting out, I was not about to miss out on an opportunity to exercise. No plans for tomorrow, just work

    Vince came home early with Lexi, I guess he was just waiting about 4 hours, they said it would be a 10 hour wait. I didn’t think she was THAT bad. But whatever…..

    M – you say you don’t have anyone to talk to. “Talk to us”. We exercise so we have big shoulders...lol

    katie – you don’t have to worry about me looking up information about you. To be honest, I don’t have the time (or the inclination)

    Well, Jess and Colby just left to go to NC State. There is some sort of welcome picnic. I’ll make the taco spaghetti casserole. Depending on when they get home, they can have it for dinner or leftovers. I’m going to try this recipe I have for a hot dog casserole tomorrow.

    I will probably go to Aldi in a few. This is the time to go shopping.

    Katla – your husband is where he needs to be right now. I’m sure they’re taking excellent care of him. Any idea how much longer he’ll be there?

    Leslie – Pumpkin is so adorable. Actually, all your pets are.

    Bonnie – welcome

    Well, off to Aldi.

    Michele NC
  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 645 Member
    Hey Gayle and Bonnie!!! I'm Carla and I live in Lakeville, when I'm not in Ohio at a Women's Pro football game with our daughter!!! GO VIXEN!!! 2pm today on ESPN2!!! (EDT)

    Went to the D2-3 game last night. Found out where to park, where to sit, in the shaded area, gonna be glorious. SO EXCITED!!! Coach Ryan got his award last night for being Coach of the Year!!! We made a "little noise". I think they knew we were there.

    Carla, temp in OH
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
    exermom wrote: »
    Well, I went downstairs to exercise and evidently Jess and Colby slept down there. Not sure if they were watching a movie and fell asleep or if they slept down there because it was cooler. So since I just exercise in a sports bra and underwear (no one sees me but maybe Vince), I didn’t think it good if they got up and saw me so I just walked around the block twice. Even tho it was misting out, I was not about to miss out on an opportunity to exercise. No plans for tomorrow, just work

    Vince came home early with Lexi, I guess he was just waiting about 4 hours, they said it would be a 10 hour wait. I didn’t think she was THAT bad. But whatever…..

    M – you say you don’t have anyone to talk to. “Talk to us”. We exercise so we have big shoulders...lol

    katie – you don’t have to worry about me looking up information about you. To be honest, I don’t have the time (or the inclination)

    Well, Jess and Colby just left to go to NC State. There is some sort of welcome picnic. I’ll make the taco spaghetti casserole. Depending on when they get home, they can have it for dinner or leftovers. I’m going to try this recipe I have for a hot dog casserole tomorrow.

    I will probably go to Aldi in a few. This is the time to go shopping.

    Katla – your husband is where he needs to be right now. I’m sure they’re taking excellent care of him. Any idea how much longer he’ll be there?

    Leslie – Pumpkin is so adorable. Actually, all your pets are.

    Bonnie – welcome

    Well, off to Aldi.

    Michele NC

    It is tempting sometimes ... but it is much too public here for me to go into any level of detail. However the article I posted (a few posts up) generally describes one element of my life.

    M in Oz
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,605 Member
    edited July 2022
    Leslie and Heather ~ Love the photos of the pets and of the children at the fiesta. :)

    Heather ~ Glad the two grandpas got along! :) Every time I see your photos of the beach, I wonder about all the pebbles. Can't imagine that when all I've ever seen was white sand.

    Michele ~ I know you must be happy to have Jess close by again. Sorry about Lexie!

    Kelly ~ I hope your DH will be able to go with you to manage 11 children. That sounds like a big job for the day.

    Carol in GA

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,605 Member
    Kirby ~ Happy Birthday to You!
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    :)
  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,614 Member
    Just popping in to wish Kylia’s followup tomorrow is clear, good and painless.
    Heather what Leslie said to you and you to Machka, and what Edie said about having two GrandDads. That Johnny, he is a gem.
    Machka those birds have an intimidating look. Rhody is one smart cat.
    Welcome @donbonsully Bonnie in MN! You joined by posting. Bookmark this discussion by clicking the empty ribbon and you can find it again under your “My Bookmarks”. 7khfygveafr2.jpg

    KJ :laugh: “…need is a scale that will …slap the fork out of my hand…” I need one that will poke that fork into my butt and get me up out of the chair when watching TV. :devil:
    Michele that would have been quite a wakeup surprise for Jess and Colby :naughty:
    Pip the very happiest of birthdays to Kirby. He’s one lucky guy!


    Done:
    7/9: Move: 1 set pt, dog group, 74 mins play with plants steps: 7570
    Fuel: protein=g sugar=g fiber=g sodium=mg fruit=1 vegs=3
    Live: Joe, readings, BP, off season clothes swap, 100 mins paperwork including DMV, RMDs,
    Wt: 141.8 NoNoNO!latenightsnacking! Not even to up protein!!!
    Lighter, lovelies!

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,815 Member
    Happy Birthday Kirby! Thanks for keeping our PIP smiling and happy!👍😁🎂💖
  • bmorisette1002
    bmorisette1002 Posts: 7 Member
    Would someone please sponsor me to join this group?
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,319 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
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    Many times I have wished I could talk to someone ALL about my husband's accident. I've told people little snippets here and there. Quick summaries. On FB, I've posted applicable memes now and then. But I've never sat down with someone and poured my heart out. I've never told anyone all about my husband's accident.

    The 4th choice above is: "talk it out - speak to someone you trust about how you are feeling". I have not been able to do that over the past 4+ years and I'm not sure I ever will. By this point, I'm not sure how beneficial it would be. I don't know that it would change anything or help anything.


    Meanwhile, today, I have more or less focused on the 1st choice ... things I am grateful for and things in my control. I've slept - for which I am very grateful. I'm comfortably watching the Tour de France - which I enjoy. And I've tidied half the house and have gotten a few things done - things in my control. :)


    Machka in Oz

    One thing my psych asked me is do I have a support network. Really made me think. I found 2 people and this group after really thinking about it. The 2 people are long distance and need to be by phone or other electronic means. I have a potential third but not sure I can confide in them yet. I have been using an app on my iPhone called “MoodLinks “ which is helping me daily work out my thoughts and feelings. Not many people use it but I love it and was able to share it with my psychiatrist. Please reach out to one of us or a friend. It will help tremendously to let it all out.

    RvRita

  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,319 Member
    Would someone please sponsor me to join this group?

    Welcome! You joined by posting! Don’t forget to bookmark us to find us easily. Read back a couple pages for different ways to bookmark and find us again.

    Here is another way to get to us without going through the MFP app. Allows you to post pics easier too. Just go to this link and put it on your desktop, phone home page, or tablet main page: “ https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10868254/women-ages-50-for-july2022/p23”. Not sure if this is the correct one. I accidentally deleted my link when copying this. I’ll try to find it again and post the correct link.

    RvRita in NM
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,189 Member
    all that walking this past week- 88,781 steps and I gained back the pound I lost last week.
    I haven't had that many steps in a week ever. 15 straight days of 10K or more. Will do it again tonight- walking the wetlands with my friend(may or may not walk MIL's dog- if I skip it, it will only be the second time in a full month- it is a month today since she fell and broke the bones in her hand and wrist and Tues is a month since the broken ribs and UTI diagnoses.
    I haven't been tracking my food which I need to start doing again. I didn't think I was eating that much more, especially beings I am here alone most evenings. But, have been snacking more- justifying it by how many steps I had for the day.
    148.2 today
    Goal is 125-128.
    Need to get back on track.

    Heading for church- first time in a month then home to cook here at home. Will be nice to just be home and not running errands with DH or sitting at MIL's house for hours while she either eats, sleeps or complains.

    Have a wonderful Sunday Ladies
    Debbie
    Napa Valley
    CA
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,319 Member
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/ You will have to log in but works ever time!

    RvRita in NM