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  • Posts: 4,089 Member
    I am cheating with all the hot guys on my FL.......
  • Posts: 2,466 Member
    I am cheating with all the hot guys on my FL.......

    How do I join?
  • Posts: 1,404 Member
    As long as he knows who he put a ring on and sleeps with him at night, he can have all the female friends he wants. Once he forgets that then I'll drop kick him in his teeth.

    loveyoumeanitbaby.
  • Posts: 365 Member
    The approach I take is that if a person is naturally a social butterfly, its going to be that way in all areas of their life - not just online. These kinds of people are going to attract the opposite sex no matter what because of their outgoing nature... It doesn't necessarily mean that they're a cheater or prone to infidelity. They are who they are.

    If you choose to date or be with a person like that, its just something you accept about their personality. If you're insecure then this personality type isnt a match for you. You'll just end up stressing yourself out and making their lives miserable. A waste of time for the both of you!

    I am not and never have been the jealous type, and I believe people should be allowed to be who they are without others trying to change them because they're judgemental, insurece or controlling. In the end a person is going to do what they want to do anyways and you're not going to stop them. If they want to be with you, they will be. If they want to cheat on you and leave you, they dont need the Internet to do it.

    Basically in the end its about knowing yourself and who you're a good match for. Choose wisely and these types of issue wont even be a problem.

    I totally agree with this. You can;t restrict someone from being social, if its in their personality, just b/c your a jealous type.. Ah well. Live and learn with your partner.
  • Posts: 365 Member
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    You definitely shouldn't do it. All of the boob/butt shots on here it's pretty much cheating just by looking at them.

    and I agree with this too.. ^ I don't even know if I want to put my success pics up here anymore bc it's all about showing off your body for attention- the type of attention you should go to a bar to get, not on MFP when ppl are honestly just trying to better themselves. I understand your happy with your new body, but sheesh stop showing your *kitten* around...
  • Posts: 494
    Hearing all the stories about people cheating on their spouses, what is your take on having friends of the opposite sex at MyFitnessPal?

    Do you have friends of the opposite sex in real life?

    Sorry, but silly question.

    Now if we're talking "friends" in either situation, that IS a major problem.
  • Posts: 17,121 Member
    Let's see.. I start MFP for weight loss reasons. I don't friend guys for their looks. If your my friend its bc you have succeed in your goals and you motivated me to succeed in mine....

    which means you look good.
  • Posts: 511
    I'm happily married to the most gorgeous man on earth but I partake in a bit of harmless flirting with both my male and female friends here. Its silly and fun. But it means nothing!
    Simpified perfectly!!
  • Posts: 37 Member
    I am happily married and have male friends outside of the online realm. I have never seemed to have an issue with just being friends with someone. I don't have any male friends on here because I guess I am not on here enough to have befriended any males. I am not opposed to it. I think it is wonderful to be able to have advice and opinions from both sexes, especially in the weight loss department.
  • Posts: 843 Member
    Hearing all the stories about people cheating on their spouses, what is your take on having friends of the opposite sex at MyFitnessPal?


    I am not reading through 14 pages of prior comments, although I am 100% positive that this has already been said: Having FRIENDS of the opposite sex, on MFP or IRL, does NOT equate cheating!!

    Innocent flirting and banter are not cheating unless your SO thinks it is. Otherwise, it is harmless and motivational for some.
  • Posts: 6 Member
    Lord ham mercy...reponses to this topic could go on for DAYS!! i agree with AnnieMC77 and Jesshall281. Where is the trust? And, who has time to be worrying about trying to "control" if your mate has too many male friends or vice versa. It sounds very exhausting to me, which is not healthy. The only thing I want to be exhausted by is a great workout - not worrying about if my partner could possibly be swayed to cheat by having a female/male friend on MFP, facebook, etc. If a man is going to cheat, trust he doesn't need to go online to do it. Know your partner is all I have to say..... If he/she hasn't give you a reason - don't make a "reason".

    My two cents:happy:
  • Posts: 1,625 Member
    I am cheating with all the hot guys on my FL.......

    heh! :laugh: you're awesome
  • Posts: 461
    I think it is ridiculous to say people of all genders can't be friends, I would never be in a relationship so insecure that I couldn't even talk to other people.
  • Posts: 534 Member
    Yep, I have lots of both. They are all sexy and either sex can flirt with me and get me all horny and ready to jump my HUSBAND!!! I really dont think he cares. :blushing: :tongue:

    Oh yeah, we can just be friends too, if that's all you want. :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 82 Member
    Let me explain a bit further......Do you feel that having friends at MFP of the opposite sex is maybe tempting? Not that you would really cheat, but maybe consider it because of your friends? Also, do you feel that online flirting is wrong?

    When you are in love and in a committed relationship, having friends of the opposite sex, whether it be on MFP or in RL, does not make it tempting to cheat. My husband and I are both flirts, always have been, but just because we flirt doesn't mean we are looking to cheat. Just because I like to window shop at Tiffany's doesn't mean I want to go out and buy the stuff :wink:
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    Adrian_indy burned 16,778 calories doing cardio, including "flying around the country to bang all of his MFP pals after lulling them into a false sense of security with praise and encouragement"

    Great burn!!!
  • Posts: 688 Member
    [/quote]men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation![/quote]





    I disagree with this statement. A lot of my best friends are men.
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  • Posts: 1,911 Member
    I am happily married. I have many guy friends outside the internet and it's rarely been a problem.
    The few times it was, they were cut out of our lives. Can I hold all men accountable for the actions of 1 or 2 men? That's ridiculous!

    I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who demanded I only have female friends.
    **I will add, I think it's disrespectful to post some of the mostly naked pictures on here that I have seen. That is where I draw the line for my own self respect, not out of respect for my husband, but for myself.
  • Posts: 81 Member
    Married not dead, I have guy friends on here. If someone requests to be my friend I add.
  • Posts: 17,121 Member
    do what you want.
  • Posts: 1,850 Member
    1) You can't control how others around you behave, but you can control how you react to them.
    2) If you are uncomfortable with your partner doing something, then you shouldn't do it either.
    3) We are individuals, do not judge one by the actions of another.
    4) If someone makes you uncomfortable, end your association with him/her.
  • Posts: 1,172 Member
    Having a guy-friend on here and saying. . ."way to go" or "hey...great pace on that run" or "beers and wings sound great. . .enjoy". . .not sure that constitutes cheating. And, I might say, I am VERY particular about not doing something that my husband would find disloyal or disrespectful. The minute he had an issue, I'm done. HE'S my best friend and I wouldn't do anything to hurt his feelings.

    But, some people are really not able to draw or stay inside reasonable boundaries. So, for those folks, the "no friends of the opposite sex" rule makes sense. I'm just not ready to live there.
  • Posts: 565
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    and I agree with this too.. ^ I don't even know if I want to put my success pics up here anymore bc it's all about showing off your body for attention- the type of attention you should go to a bar to get, not on MFP when ppl are honestly just trying to better themselves. I understand your happy with your new body, but sheesh stop showing your *kitten* around...

    Go take your judgemental ways elsewhere.
  • Posts: 49
    VERY well said.... good Job!!!!
    Excellent Take charge attitude...
  • Posts: 926 Member
    Shoot. I thought this was a sign-up sheet. :grumble:
  • Posts: 849 Member
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    Hah!

    Stated like a pro :wink: :laugh:

    You women are just as bad.

    The women are just as bad. I have seen more sexual innuendo (and created some of it myself) from the women than I have from the men on the site. My husband knows I am on here and looks at my profile. He would probably prefer that I have only female friends, but he said he trusts me and doesn't mind that I have male friends on MFP.
  • Posts: 266 Member
    Shoot. I thought this was a sign-up sheet. :grumble:

    hahahahahaha
  • Posts: 68 Member
    What a lot of nonsense!!
    a) men and women can be friends without sex or "inappropriate" behavior :angry:
    b) you're on-line!? How on earth do you know for sure if you're talking to a man or woman?? :noway:
    c) what if you were on-line friends with somebody attracted to people of the same sex?? Is that cheating?? How would you know?? :huh:

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  • Posts: 645 Member
    Shoot. I thought this was a sign-up sheet. :grumble:

    Ahahahaha! Aaaaannnnddd that's why we're friends.
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