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Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    I was almost 800 calories short of my calorie goal yesterday. I HATE being sick.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    I was almost 800 calories short of my calorie goal yesterday. I HATE being sick.

    Can I have your deficit? That would be super helpful. :p
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    I was almost 800 calories short of my calorie goal yesterday. I HATE being sick.

    Can I have your deficit? That would be super helpful. :p

    If it only worked that way. I had a huge deficit last week too.

    Maybe I should have joined the #myfitsquad challenge...
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    I was almost 800 calories short of my calorie goal yesterday. I HATE being sick.

    Can I have your deficit? That would be super helpful. :p

    If it only worked that way. I had a huge deficit last week too.

    Maybe I should have joined the #myfitsquad challenge...

    Maybe, you should go to the doctor. Loss of appetite and cough that lasts more than 7 days....you would make your daughter go.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).

    I've always hated buying jeans because my hips are much larger than my waist. I am a pear.
  • acaldwell3590
    acaldwell3590 Posts: 15 Member
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).

    I'm currently ranging from an 8 to a 14 in pants. I figure it's not me, it's them! LOL
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    From what I've seen on the threads in here, the loose skin slowly snaps back (for lack of a better term) after awhile. It's slow, but it does tighten back up. Don't let that worry keep you from meeting your goal!
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    I'm not going to lie, that could happen. However, it didn't happen to me. I lost close to 75 lbs over the course of a year. I did at least bodyweight resistance training to build muscle and my skin is fine. I don't know how much you need to lose, but don't let vanity take your health. Lose the weight.
  • acaldwell3590
    acaldwell3590 Posts: 15 Member
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    From what I've seen on the threads in here, the loose skin slowly snaps back (for lack of a better term) after awhile. It's slow, but it does tighten back up. Don't let that worry keep you from meeting your goal!
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    I'm not going to lie, that could happen. However, it didn't happen to me. I lost close to 75 lbs over the course of a year. I did at least bodyweight resistance training to build muscle and my skin is fine. I don't know how much you need to lose, but don't let vanity take your health. Lose the weight.

    To the both of you. I definitely appreciate your support! I'm not letting it get in my way this time. I definitely know that my health is the absolute most important thing and really it's taken me quite a bit of time to get to this point. My hope is to not just lose weight but get strong so I'm hoping that helps a bit. Thanks for the kind words!
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    From what I've seen on the threads in here, the loose skin slowly snaps back (for lack of a better term) after awhile. It's slow, but it does tighten back up. Don't let that worry keep you from meeting your goal!
    One of my biggest fears is that when I have a large weight loss I will just have a lot of extra skin that will be hanging around. I know it's unhealthy to be fat but I've learned to love a fat body, I'm worried that when I lose, if my skin is loose I will hate my body. It's often been part of the reason I quite before I can even give myself a chance. I'm a little vain but it happens to the best of us.

    I'm not going to lie, that could happen. However, it didn't happen to me. I lost close to 75 lbs over the course of a year. I did at least bodyweight resistance training to build muscle and my skin is fine. I don't know how much you need to lose, but don't let vanity take your health. Lose the weight.

    To the both of you. I definitely appreciate your support! I'm not letting it get in my way this time. I definitely know that my health is the absolute most important thing and really it's taken me quite a bit of time to get to this point. My hope is to not just lose weight but get strong so I'm hoping that helps a bit. Thanks for the kind words!

    At one point I had lost over 150 pounds (I gained around 50 back & need to kick my *kitten* in gear to start losing again). At my smallest which ranged from 150-159 I did have a lot of loose skin, but it was at least a lot healthier than I am sure my body is now. Don't lose weight for anyone but you! To be honest the only people who made comments on my loose skin were my nieces & nephews, but kids at a certain age have no filter.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
    I've decided that I'm not going to add too much exercise into my weight loss plan until I get my eating on point. I might exercise on my days off, but I really need to get a handle back on my eating. I put a whole package of chicken leg quarters in the crock pot the other day & seasoned it with some Kraft Parmesan with some kind of tomato flavoring. I figure I'll start using the crockpot more & trying in general to make some meals that can stretch out a few days to a week.

    I still have some frozen meals for days I don't feel like cooking or I'm in a rush.

    In November I'm going to try to do a no spend November when it comes to food with the exception of water, soda, & teas.
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    I was almost 800 calories short of my calorie goal yesterday. I HATE being sick.

    Can I have your deficit? That would be super helpful. :p

    If it only worked that way. I had a huge deficit last week too.

    Maybe I should have joined the #myfitsquad challenge...

    Maybe, you should go to the doctor. Loss of appetite and cough that lasts more than 7 days....you would make your daughter go.

    Tomorrow will be 7 days. I had a big deficit last week because I worked out like a beast.

    Mel, I promise that if I'm not better by Friday, I will go to the doctor. Or at least call him.
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).

    I'm currently ranging from an 8 to a 14 in pants. I figure it's not me, it's them! LOL

    2-8 here.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    I've decided that I'm not going to add too much exercise into my weight loss plan until I get my eating on point. I might exercise on my days off, but I really need to get a handle back on my eating. I put a whole package of chicken leg quarters in the crock pot the other day & seasoned it with some Kraft Parmesan with some kind of tomato flavoring. I figure I'll start using the crockpot more & trying in general to make some meals that can stretch out a few days to a week.

    I still have some frozen meals for days I don't feel like cooking or I'm in a rush.

    In November I'm going to try to do a no spend November when it comes to food with the exception of water, soda, & teas.

    I keep thinking I need to try something like this. Eating out costs a fortune.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).

    I've always hated buying jeans because my hips are much larger than my waist. I am a pear.

    Try lucky jeans. I have a similar issue in that I have a small waist but hips and thighs. Lucky Jean's fit a woman better.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    Whoo hoo for page 1900!!!

    Let's see if we can get to 2017 by the end of the year!!!

    I love this!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    We are in the midst of refinancing our house. We have been jumping through some serious hoops to make it happen. Including repainting the exterior, getting a termite inspection, and getting our well water tested. The well water came back positive for coliform bacteria (which I don't know what those do, because none of us have gotten sick).

    Confession part - I really want to just modify the inspection report. It's a PDF and I could totally change the "PRESENCE" to "ABSENCE" and send it to the refinance company. Part of the reason I am confessing this is so I DON'T do it. By posting this, I am creating documentation that could bite me in the butt. So, now I cannot do it. But I really, really, really want to. It would be so much easier. >:)

    Don't do it. I always get burned when I do stuff like this. And the original company has the report so you could get in a lot of trouble, Ms. Law Enforcer.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    crosbylee wrote: »
    My eating has been off the rails lately. I injured my back again and now I really need to start logging and keeping track. I am loving the thought of baking stuff for fall, but I have not done that yet. I really need a reset.

    I've been completely indifferent to tracking calories lately. I know I need to tighten it up, but I can't seem to make myself.

    I still can't completely stop drinking again so we are even. :)
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    crosbylee wrote: »
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    I don't think anyone on here watches, but I'm pretty upset about what happened on TWD the other night. I am not going to like this season.

    My stomach was a knot the rest of the episode. After watching the Talking Dead afterward, I can see the new season really going in a new direction. I think I will still be as hooked as ever.

    I felt physically exhausted after what happened happened. I loved him and in my opinion, they killed the wrong character.

    I didn't much care for Abraham. :grimace:

    I don't watch this but lots of folks complaining!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    crosbylee wrote: »
    My eating has been off the rails lately. I injured my back again and now I really need to start logging and keeping track. I am loving the thought of baking stuff for fall, but I have not done that yet. I really need a reset.

    Sorry about your back! Let me know if there's anything I can do to help you. :heart:

    Ditto
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    CRAP! I went over 10,000 posts and didn't notice it. I am totally lame. I was watching it and everything.

    I noticed at 10,003, but I don't know what your 10,000th one was.

    Something worthless I am sure.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Wendy, the soup sounds good. Make it.

    POF, I wish we were the same size. I love hand-me-downs.

    Jeffrey OC, I hope you learned that won't work along term. And welcome to the thread.

    WooHoo! I made page 1900. My PC at work still won't print, but that's a problem for tomorrow.

    Part of the reason I seem to be not making not a dent is this woman from the barn keeps giving me her clothes. They are all nice, my style, and all expensive. So I am replacing what I am donating practically as fast as I can donate it!

    That's an interesting problem to have. (And now I really wish we were the same size.)

    Me too. Of course Mo has first dibs if she wants stuff beyond jeans.
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    crosbylee wrote: »
    My eating has been off the rails lately. I injured my back again and now I really need to start logging and keeping track. I am loving the thought of baking stuff for fall, but I have not done that yet. I really need a reset.

    We've all been struggling a bit lately.
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    raymax4 wrote: »
    I went clothing shopping today and found I am about two sizes down!!!!
    I was in a hurry to get home and try on my smallest sized of saved cloths because they were the same size.
    I am horribly disappointed because they are still to small.
    How is this possible?

    Great job on going down two sizes!

    How old are the clothes that are too small?

    I find that clothes that are from around the 90's & earlier were made more accurately compared to the clothing now. I've heard a lot of manufactures/designers vanity size clothing which is annoying, because it's harder to know what your actual size can be.

    When I was a lot lighter I had pants ranging from size 6-12 in regular slacks & my designer jeans were either 31-32 (those were more accurate since it was based off my waist measurement).

    I've always hated buying jeans because my hips are much larger than my waist. I am a pear.

    Try lucky jeans. I have a similar issue in that I have a small waist but hips and thighs. Lucky Jean's fit a woman better.

    I can attest to this! Thanks again for the 6 pairs of Lucky Brand Jeans, POF!!! They fit perfectly!
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Wendy, the soup sounds good. Make it.

    POF, I wish we were the same size. I love hand-me-downs.

    Jeffrey OC, I hope you learned that won't work along term. And welcome to the thread.

    WooHoo! I made page 1900. My PC at work still won't print, but that's a problem for tomorrow.

    Part of the reason I seem to be not making not a dent is this woman from the barn keeps giving me her clothes. They are all nice, my style, and all expensive. So I am replacing what I am donating practically as fast as I can donate it!

    That's an interesting problem to have. (And now I really wish we were the same size.)

    Me too. Of course Mo has first dibs if she wants stuff beyond jeans.

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    I was hoping you'd say that!!!
  • Oberon21
    Oberon21 Posts: 13,235 Member
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Wendy, the soup sounds good. Make it.

    POF, I wish we were the same size. I love hand-me-downs.

    Jeffrey OC, I hope you learned that won't work along term. And welcome to the thread.

    WooHoo! I made page 1900. My PC at work still won't print, but that's a problem for tomorrow.

    Part of the reason I seem to be not making not a dent is this woman from the barn keeps giving me her clothes. They are all nice, my style, and all expensive. So I am replacing what I am donating practically as fast as I can donate it!

    That's an interesting problem to have. (And now I really wish we were the same size.)

    Me too. Of course Mo has first dibs if she wants stuff beyond jeans.

    wpo0edko6z8c.gif

    I was hoping you'd say that!!!

    You need to tell me what you want. All of it? Stuff with long legs? I have a few things to drop off consistently.
  • MoHousdon
    MoHousdon Posts: 8,723 Member
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    MoHousdon wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Oberon21 wrote: »
    Wendy, the soup sounds good. Make it.

    POF, I wish we were the same size. I love hand-me-downs.

    Jeffrey OC, I hope you learned that won't work along term. And welcome to the thread.

    WooHoo! I made page 1900. My PC at work still won't print, but that's a problem for tomorrow.

    Part of the reason I seem to be not making not a dent is this woman from the barn keeps giving me her clothes. They are all nice, my style, and all expensive. So I am replacing what I am donating practically as fast as I can donate it!

    That's an interesting problem to have. (And now I really wish we were the same size.)

    Me too. Of course Mo has first dibs if she wants stuff beyond jeans.

    wpo0edko6z8c.gif

    I was hoping you'd say that!!!

    You need to tell me what you want. All of it? Stuff with long legs? I have a few things to drop off consistently.

    SEND IT ALL!!! :smiley:
  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    JeffreyOC
    I certainly hope that you dtarted eating more. That is not healthy long term.

    Oberon21
    My smallest clothing is taylored and fitted so probably really a smaller size. Trying them and not having them fit has renewed my motivation.
    I think that you getting a lot of new lovely cloths is exciting. Ilove hand me downs. I'm working at thinning out my closet too

    Melissa I made the butternut squash soup, I like things spicy so I doubled the red curry paste. It is sooo good and filling too.

    Crosbylee,
    I hope your back gets better fast, Back pain can be a show stopper. It is not easy to stay in calorie limits when you can't be active.