WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2019
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Katla: Thank you! Bookmarked as instructed.0
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Katla The thanks go to Margaret. I just found and posted the cartoon she alluded to.1
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grandmallie wrote: »morning ladies~
well I dont know if stress causes weight gain but somehow I gained 5 lbs overnight eating the same stuff...
Yes, stress does make us retain water and gain weight. Everything affects our daily weight: stress, mood, weather, what you ate that day, salt, etc....
Rita
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Sitting here with DH who asked for my help but every time I do, he re-does what I did! He is a perfectionist when it comes to his sign making. I can’t draw a straight line with a ruler so wonder why he asked for my help?! Guess he just wanted my company even though he doesn’t talk to me when he is working on his projects.
Oh well... my bursitis in my hip is acting up. Walking aggravates it and so does sitting. Going to look up stretching to help. Can’t stand hurting when I walk. Walking is my stress reliever!
RV Rita, Roswell NM6 -
(((RV Rita))) Best wishes for your hip situation. :flowerforyou:0
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We are all getting older, and in our family things are starting to need attention. DH and the dog are both in similar situations. They have painful joints. DH was referred to a physical therapist by his doctor and has set up an appointment. Hopefully the PT will do a good job. If not, he is thinking about surgery to relieve his pain. The dog is not a good candidate for surgery at his age. Our plan for the dog is to keep him comfortable. My job is to stay as healthy as possible so I can support DH & the dog. To that end, I'm taking a bit of weight off of my bad knee. It sneaked up on me while I wasn't paying good attention.7
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Lanette, no my eldest sister is in Great Falls, Montana, so I can't see her.😔 Maybe another Greyhound bus adventure!
I think it will all work out. I have to be adaptable, non judgemental, accepting, and not say the first thing that comes to my mind. So clicking my filter on now!
Athena found her thumb!
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Margaret--I admire all you are doing for your son. He is so lucky to have you and DH to make sure he gets the care he needs. Please becareful and take care of yourself, sounds like you are stressed. Sounds like he is doing well.
Barbara & Karen--I am still trying to figure out this new phone I got. It is the Iphone XR and I can not figure out how to close the apps. Every once in a while they will pop up and I close them. But no matter how much I swipe from the bottom, side , top they will not show up. And they do not come with much of a instruction book.
Barbara I hope your phone battery lasts until you can get to the other store.
Janetr--I love the new glasses and they look good with your hair. Good picture of DGS and family. They look so young.
Carol--Sorry to hear all the issues with DBIL. Sending hugs for both you and DH. Prayers also.
Allie--Sending hugs and prayers for you also.
Michele--Your Lucy and Snoopy are so cute.
Pip--I am so sorry. Sending lots of hugs and prayers.
Lisa--Congrates on the grant and for all the girls that will benifit.
Feeling a little off today. Guess it could be the feeding party I went on last evening with ice cream. I have to keep it out of the house. But food wise doing better so far today. Going to be a beautiful day around 75.
Blessings, Vicki GI NE4 -
✔️1. weigh in 60
✔️2. log all
✔️30 min exercise
x 4. five minutes meditation yest
?5.Spend at least 2h on long term writing project yest
✔️ 6.produce at least 2-finished pages per day average long term yest
x7. Take care of at least 3 shorter (1 pagish) writing or administrative task/bill, (union work doesn't count) per week yest
x 8. At least 15 min cleaning yest
x9. At least 5 min day filing yest
x10.average 1100 calories net,
• Overall Feeling : ok
• Log all : I think so
• Exercise : just barely
• 1100 calories net average : 45 over?
• Long term writing 2h : maybe not 2h but finished with 1st draft for this round
• produce at least 2 finished pages per day average long term writing project: finished
•3 Short term writing/admin per week: 1 done this week
•cleaning : zilch
•filing : zilch
Grateful :
1. coffee with colleague
2. short talk with other colleague
3. corrector
4. break today
5. finished 100 pages
6. internet on phone working again
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Janetr- what a beautiful family picture of your Grandsons family!0
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Niece called today turns out she worked on the same floor of the young man who suffered the stroke in Beauty in the Broken Places. She know some of the story but did not know a book was written about it. She is married to an optometrist so the story has even more relevance to her. I told her to have hankies ready.
Yes it is a stressful time and I know I have to be extra careful. Fortunately going to hospital for such long periods is slowing down. I now bring lunch to son and go for a mile walk then DH brings dinner. Much more manageable . I am sleeping much better too!. Other DS will hopefully sleep in his new place now.
Margaret4 -
hi ladies!
Pip - sorry to hear about Bullwinkle's cancer. We lost one of our boys, Charcoal, in December to cancer. It seems to be the diagnosis of most of the cats we've lost, to be honest.
This is Charcoal's twin brother, Ashley. in the photo with me, taken yesterday. He is in for emergency surgery today because he had a dental abscess. His face just kinda blew up overnight, the poor boy. They did about 4 extractions all together, but he did good under anesthetic, which was what we worried about the most. I'm picking him up in a few hours.
Otherwise life is ok here. I'm still doing well with exercise, and I have put a little more effort into corralling in the food a bit. I actually increased my protein and try to hit that macro everyday and it really helps me to feel more full and satiated.
A few people have talked about strength vs cardio - and I find that I do much better with strength training added in. My favourite trainer on YouTube is Pahla Bowers and she has hundreds of videos and most of them are cardio/strength combination videos. The best thing is that she has a wide variety of video lengths - from 10 minutes up to 45 - so on the days I'm just not feeling great I can do a 10, 15 or 20 minute video and feel like I'm getting benefits... She also is very realistic in her advice about weight loss and exercise but also really positive and motivating at the same time.
Hope you're all having a great week.
Shannon in rural Ontario, Canada
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Very, very tired, but back safely from the funeral and wake. Can hardly keep awake.
It was a beautiful ceremony which did my wonderful friend justice.
Talk tomorrow,
Heather UK xxxxxxx10 -
Karen in VA, thank you for the links. I love reading about cat and dog breeds. It’s astonishing how much variety even without direct intervention is found in one genus and species. The picture of the day you bought Bailey is precious! And Bailey could never be a failure! They want so very much to please us! Sensitive skin must have made his grooming a very tough issue.
Evie, you just never hear people say, “I heard the call of the vacuum and I had to follow!” Lol!
Oh, Allie, my heart goes out to you! I remember feeling that way right before I decided to get a Union job and became a truck driver. Double the money and ‘way lass stress. That’s not what I’m suggesting for you, but it sounds as if a dramatic shift of some sort is in order. My thoughts go with you.
Michele in NC, your ceramics are darling! Are they for the garden, or indoors?
Pip, its very tough news, I know, but you’re handling things in the best possible way, right down to the ending. The picture is sweet. I know the other dogs will help. Snatching every moment of joy while you can is perfect.
Machka, there are a number of stair climbing challenges here in Seattle - the Columbia Tower and the Space Needle are two. I prefer to climb steps only when they’re a necessity for now. My breathing needs to improve more. Walking is helping.
Barbara AHMOD, you mention 5 hours of driving. I suspect that may be the culprit for your leg fatigue - that or possibly lack of potassium? Hope they’re fine today.
Lisa in AR, Girl Scouts did wonders for me. I’m glad those girls will get to have the experience! Thank you for having the skills to do what you do so well! And a half hour for a mile on uneven ground is not so had! Any elevation gain and loss in that circuit?
Marta from Kansas, thanks for the info! I was exactly where you are at that stage in my life. I wish I’d learned what I needed at your age.
Nancy from MI, im creating a separate post for you because I relate SO MUCH to what you say.
Vicki GI ME, just ask Siri “How do I close an app?” and she’ll get you the information.
Hugs back, Heather! Emotional experiences can be very tiring too.
Sharon Near Seattle Nearing 90°F3 -
Rebecca: Athena is lovely and cute with her thumb in her mouth.
Heather: I’m glad that your friend’s funeral had a beautiful service that did her justice.
I was able to get prescriptions filled at the veterinary office today, but there were no doctors there. I’m not feeling very good about the situation. I got a message from one of the new doctors that she is taking a few days off & will contact me next week. This is only Wednesday! I can’t imagine an office surviving very long without doctors there consistently. I would prefer to keep our old veterinarian, but he isn’t there anymore and the people who are there have different views on consistent availability than I appreciate. Maybe it will sort itself out. If it doesn’t, I’ll be asking friends who they recommend.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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I have been riding my exercise bike and reading about your interesting lives. Meanwhile Jake has been on the phone for 15 minutes talking to tech support because he couldn't log on to get his latest blood test results. He was very calm and at the end of the call he said, "Isn't it fun talking to old people? "
Barbie from beautiful NW Washington5 -
Oasis - Ignore What comes out of a mans mouth as your walking its always a lie to cut you down! It’s their defense mechanism they think you see them as the bad guy so their trying to drag you down to level it out.
If your weight mattered that much he would have left the 1st 5lbs! You watch he’ll date a hefty girl or two after you . They just never want to admit the real reason from you deserve better to couldn’t hack the responsibilities. Easier to make it look like your fault y walk off. Lose the weight for you not him it’s not why he left anyways. You can date a 600lb man he’ll call you fat as he leaves too why? Their defense mechanism they yell out anything they think will hurt so you forget what they did wrong or won’t see them as a bad guy tell everyone (this is what they think you’ll do because another Gal did in high school decades ago ). They worry about their reputation just like us Gals do. Even if their doing wrong they don’t want a bad reputation. If their good they don’t want one. They lie about the reason for the break up of course because saying what he told you to his Mama would get him slapped 👋. So don’t be surprised if others say didn’t you break up because...XYZ. Don’t know it’s cause he called you fat walked out the door with the real reason forever hidden who cares he’s not the one. If he was he would have stayed helped you work out 🏋️ or buy healthier foods now that you decided to get healthy plus told you the real reason he was stressed so you could tackle stuff together. He would have communicated it been willing to work together. Hey stressed as a Dad help to my job I can’t provide what you deserve fears etc. If your the one you don’t have to poke prod or nag it out of them they tell you without help. If your not the one they bottle it up don’t say a word because their enjoying the ride . Just light a match burn that bridge don’t let him back over. Move on look for MrRight when your ready be yourself that’s who the real guy will want. Only lose pounds for yourself if he said anything about boobs to teeth 🦷 cancel the plastic surgeon 😷 he didn’t mean it. Was the defense mechanism speaking.
Amber Tx
It’s the grade school your a poopy head runs off - we grow up y mature ,they stay the same.1 -
I found out that I can roast frozen broccoli florets in the oven with the same results as fresh. I spray with cooking oil and Kosher salt. I also roast with onion slices...a little bit of garlic powder. Delish!11
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Carol - what oven setting how long?0
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Evie, you just never hear people say, “I heard the call of the vacuum and I had to follow!” Lol!Sharon, you are so right! lol
Well, in the end, I did the vacuuming, cleaned bathrooms, took care of some dishes and even folded laundry. I do enjoy the feeling of it being done, but just sometimes have a hard time getting motivated enough to actually do it!!
Oh yeah and took the multitude of bananas out of the freezer and made a bunch of muffins. Made some mini ones for our grandson, regular size for us and maybe for our son and daughter in law, although she is feeling much better now (difficult pregnancy, c-section) so is probably up for doing her own baking. Our little granddaughter is one month old already!
Heather so glad the service was a tribute befitting your friend.
Allie, have you tried talking to your boss? I mean really had a heart to heart with him? Does he realize how all the pressure he puts on you is affecting you? Or is he just a jerk? Doesn't seem fair that he hire some cute young thing and cut your hours, sounds like there's enough work there for three full timers! It's nice that you and Elena have officially met and are on even ground. Not sure I could be that generous, but good for you!
Rebecca, oh my, that Athena, what a beauty she is!
Lisa, good for you for your walking! You definitely need to tell that little voice that harps about taking 30 min to walk a mile to take a long walk off a short pier! (wonder how long that would take?? lol) Glad to hear that you are taking it gradually tho, I think you have made such remarkable progress, you are an inspiration! Also congrats on the grant from Americorps! Such a great organization to be supporting, I totally understand how that would warm your heart and make it all worthwhile!
That's it for me for now. Trying to get back on track, have actually tracked my food today and there is even room for a goody after dinner, provided I don't get stupid about it!
Hugs to those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island, where it is quite warm and I am grateful for A/C!2 -
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Had sooooo many posts to catch up on! And now I'm too tired to make comments. *sigh*
Miele failte (A thousand welcomes) to our newbies.
If you are celebrating, congratulations!
Hugs and positive vibes to those who need them.
☘️ Terri N Ireland5 -
Oh my goodness ladies--you miss two days on here and it seems like you can never catch up! So much going on with everyone--no way I can reply tonight! For those having a tough time, I will keep you in my prayers (or well wishes if you prefer). This is an inspiring group that deals with whatever life hands them! Same as with the weight, we can't give up and keep on trying.
Also so much joy shared on here--I can always get a smile.
Doing well with my goals. Sill have steady weight loss. Getting step in. Finding myself more productive at work and home,
Only got 5 hours sleep last night. Really need some good sleep. Going to take a benadryl tonight to help.
Keep up the good work all.
Ginny in Ohio5 -
stats for the day:
just rode to work:
bike ride hm 2 gym- 7.28min, 12.8amph, 123mhr, 1.59mi= 72c
apple watch- 60c
bike ride gym 2 sumner station- 53.13min, 139mhr, 13.4amph, 11.92mi= 455c
apple watch- 438c
jog sta 2 wrk- 4.59min, 9.47min mi, .51mi= 60c
apple watch- 63
jog wrk 2 sta- 4.28min, 144mhr, 9.50min mi, .45mi= 57c
apple watch- 56c
bike ride dome 2 hm- 18.45min, 8.3amph, 157mhr, 2.59mi= 209c
apple watch- 140c
total cal 8533 -
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Took the water aerobics class today. The plan for tomorrow is to do Prevention’s Belly Butt and Thigh DVD
Pip – What can I say? I’m so sorry for you and Winkie. My heart is breaking for you and Kirby. How old is Bootz?
Welcome everyone new!
I’m on hold right now to set my appt for my mammo.
Exercised, went to the Salvation Army, got this portable playpen/crib. I do need to wash and disinfectant it good, then to Aldi, now I want to go out and vacuum the spa
Need to run and take Rover out of the pool. Vacuumed out the spa since it looks threatening out. They started digging for the pool across the street from us
Lisa – love Snoopy dancing! How nice of you to give Marta that link!
Rita – oh, do I ever hear you about hubbys redoing what you did. Mine gives me specific instructions (remember, he’s OCD) how things are to be done. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said “what’s the difference if I do it my way?” Hope your hip is better
Oh..here comes the rain!
Sharon – all the ceramics I do are for out by our pool. I want some color since the rocks are all beige. We’re getting there. There are a few pieces that need to be in the same place every year because we have a piece of PVC pipe that goes inside the ceramic so that the wind doesn’t blow it over like the pelicans, the dolphins, the sign etc. The Peanuts gang will need to be on the side of our garage since that area only gets the morning sun. I want to have Linus’ blanket fade as little as possible. I know that it’ll happen and I’ll have to replace it, but hopefully by it not being in the sunlight it won’t fade as quickly
Katla – our vet was like 20 minutes away. We drove that because we really liked him. Then he left the practice and joined a practice almost within walking distance of our house! The bad part is that there isn’t much parking. Hopefully, that’ll change. But in the meantime, we’re going there.
Carol – you can roast frozen broccoli! That’s great – thanks for telling me. At what temp and for how long?
Sharon - here are some pics of the pool area. I really need to take some more up-to-date pics, but this gives you a good idea
Michele in NC
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Hi Gals,
OMGosh I must have skipped a page! Reading reactions to something I had not seen was a big clue!
Pip, Kirby and the pups – I have done the good bye at home and it is still really hard but not as bad as trying to drive home alone. My heart is with you all .
Janetr – the glasses and new do – between you and Katie bug with a new do and Heathers bling trainers – we have the style queens in our world!
Katla – my best thinking time is while Levi and I walk, he and I talk over all sorts of things and this morning was you DH and the RV – I wondered what exactly his concern is. Is it too much driving? Not sure of where he is going? I would get online or AAA books on camp sites and things to see and break the trip up maybe drive 4-5 hours for a couple of days then spend 2 days in an area you would like to see. Would it help/would you be willing to drive the RV – there are classes! I drove one with friends on a trip and just went into the local RV sales place and got one of the staff to teach me – cost me a 6 pack and home made chocolate chip cookies.
Rebecca – do you have a “way out” if time with middle sister just doesn’t work. Can your son or DIL come get you? Uber/Lyft?
Lisa – wow 400 girls that will have a year of girl scouts! That is a huge huge difference on the girls and the families. Lisa for President of the USA and Corey as the first hubby…. I’ll vote for you!
Allie – check with your state department of labor, there are rules about what a manager can require and what they have to pay for. You need to know your rights before you talk to him… Then you are talking from a place of power.
Michele - your place looks like a mansion!
Newbies – welcome!
It has been over 100 for at least 3 days – I don’t have air conditioning and it has been miserable! Fans and opening windows all night – and when it doesn’t cool down outside, it’s not cool inside – tonight it is 88 F at 7pm with a bit of a breeze, last night it was not 88 until 11pm so this is a huge improvement. I day dream about air conditioning, but I would need all you handy folks to come to my house and work, as the electrical box is still glass screw in fuses, there is no ducting (I don’t have central heat either) so about 15 years ago (my last quote) it was in the $18,000 usd range… not happening and you know in the last 15 years the price has not gone down – LOL! Monday and Tuesday I gardened in the morning; Monday I think I was flirting with heat exhaustion, but Tuesday I had a mammogram early afternoon so came home and got in a cool shower – that is what I need to remember to do on these hot days. I cancelled my gardening for this morning; and got a ton done, laundry washed and dried on the clothes line for about 20 minutes and completely dry! Defrosted and cleaned out the garage freezer. Did a few hours of embroidery, and cleaned house. Life feels more under control.
Kim from N. California
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Hi all!
I had a busy day! I made spinach quiche this morning for lunch, planted zucchini plants, mowed the back lawn (inside the fence) cooked dinner, and went to Bible Journaling class at church at 6 pm. I did have a shower before my class!
I was under my goal for the day so it’s been a successful day!
Have a great Thursday!
Dana In Arkansas5
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