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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

how many of you would enjoy house arrest

LiftingSpirits wrote: »

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isalsayourface123 wrote: »

Hip_to_be_square wrote: »

LiftingSpirits wrote: »

Hip_to_be_square wrote: »

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CanesGalactica wrote: »

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CanesGalactica wrote: »

Kinda sorta realizing how uninteresting I am and that that probably contributes to why I am so isolated and alone. I can't be like all those curated stories you see on Instagram or the super polished stories on Facebook. That's not the kind of life I have. I don't do interesting things and I keep to myself. Always have, always will.

The more and more I examine it, the more and more social media (not being social, but media that *is* social) bums me out. Most of it is fake or highly curated to omit anything negative. Sure, sure, the filters are fun and there are parts I enjoy (like hanging out and bullshitting here), but a lot of it is just.. well, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Social media bums most people out even if they don't realize it. We have a weird culture now. One I am not so much a fan of. I have friends posting on FB like their lives/relationships/kids are perfect when in reality they are a *kitten* show. And you know what? I love them even with a *kitten* show life. I don't know why they feel the need to pretend. It makes me sad. All the filters make me sad. When will who we REALLY are be good enough?

100%.

Social media has been bumming me out for decades at this point. I barely go on FB now and the only reason I have an account still is because I have family there and they aren't going to use things like Skype or aren't going to text me (different generation). Most of what friends/family post isn't terrible, but it's a lot of dumb memes or *ugh* political stuff and I end up snoozing people for half a year because of it.

Honestly? It's the inability of people to open up and ADMIT that their life isn't all rainbows and sunshine and to be okay with that. Only curating and showcasing the highlights of your life like you're in some sort of *kitten* movie. And what's worse is that I have witnessed the shift. I've been on and around computers enough to witness how the culture went from starting drama and creating a *kitten* show of "unfortunate events" to this wholesome, Country Homes and Gardens type magazine front. And it's all just that: a facade. They aren't fooling anyone except themselves, but they feel they can't be anything else. To be otherwise is to incur judgment and spite from your peers.

It's just.. yeesh. On the one hand, there are a lot of cool things about living in society today. On the other? There are so many negatives that I kinda just want to pack up and go be a hermit in the woods until I die.

Absolutely. It is so weird because on one hand you have people saying "It's okay to not be okay" and encouraging mental health and all that YET you have people trying to hide from reality and putting on these masks.
I don't go on FB much anymore because of it. I use it primarily to find out about events that I will likely never attend 🤣 But IG is the same way. How many people post the ugly stuff? Not many. The people who do are usually the type who find it impossible to find positive so they just get eye rolls anyway. I just wish people were more real. The fake ones make the real people feel incompetent or unworthy and that's so screwed up.

The fake ones are easy to spot from a mile away. One of my biggest pet peeves is when ladies have an Instagram account with almost exclusively selfie poses in yoga pants. It reeks of self-importance & is a total eye-roller On the other hand, airing the negatives of your life serves no positive purpose on social media. But you can still be authentic without being negative.

I disagree. Especially for younger people.... Not too long ago a very well known celebrity came out that she struggles with depression and it made a huge impact on young girls. Some people need to know they are not alone. Everyone needs to see that just because you are rich, famous and have a good relationship doesn't mean you don't have your own internal struggles.
The whole issue with social media is it makes people feel like they are the one with a problem. If everyone they know only posts the positive stuff and vacation photos they think that those lives are perfect.
I don't post a lot of negative crap on FB, but I don't post much to begin with. I am not talking about people posting "woe is me" but it IS okay to not be okay every minute of every day. People who are doing it just to show life isn't a fairytale, not the people who do it for a pity party.
Anyway, just my opinion

I stand corrected. I guess you can air some of the minuses without throwing the 'wow is me' pity party but just to be authentic.

I don't know. I think personal stuff shouldnt be shared. Theres just some things that should stay private. Is it wrong to walk around smiling and laughing and sharing things about my kids that I love or appreciate? Do I really need to announce my recent break up...is it ok to post things that bring a smile to my face?
Not sure if this makes sense.

I don't want people to announce every break up and air their dirty laundry. That stuff IS private. I also live seeing people be positive and find the good even in a crappy situation, but that is not how most people behave. Most people either post only the bad and negative or post only the stuff that makes them appear to be perfect.
I am not judging anyone, post what you want when you want and I will either follow or not. I just wish that people would look at the impact they have. Social media is very powerful and is doing a lot of damage.

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isalsayourface123 wrote: »

Hip_to_be_square wrote: »

LiftingSpirits wrote: »

Hip_to_be_square wrote: »

LiftingSpirits wrote: »

CanesGalactica wrote: »

LiftingSpirits wrote: »

CanesGalactica wrote: »

Kinda sorta realizing how uninteresting I am and that that probably contributes to why I am so isolated and alone. I can't be like all those curated stories you see on Instagram or the super polished stories on Facebook. That's not the kind of life I have. I don't do interesting things and I keep to myself. Always have, always will.

The more and more I examine it, the more and more social media (not being social, but media that *is* social) bums me out. Most of it is fake or highly curated to omit anything negative. Sure, sure, the filters are fun and there are parts I enjoy (like hanging out and bullshitting here), but a lot of it is just.. well, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Social media bums most people out even if they don't realize it. We have a weird culture now. One I am not so much a fan of. I have friends posting on FB like their lives/relationships/kids are perfect when in reality they are a *kitten* show. And you know what? I love them even with a *kitten* show life. I don't know why they feel the need to pretend. It makes me sad. All the filters make me sad. When will who we REALLY are be good enough?

100%.

Social media has been bumming me out for decades at this point. I barely go on FB now and the only reason I have an account still is because I have family there and they aren't going to use things like Skype or aren't going to text me (different generation). Most of what friends/family post isn't terrible, but it's a lot of dumb memes or *ugh* political stuff and I end up snoozing people for half a year because of it.

Honestly? It's the inability of people to open up and ADMIT that their life isn't all rainbows and sunshine and to be okay with that. Only curating and showcasing the highlights of your life like you're in some sort of *kitten* movie. And what's worse is that I have witnessed the shift. I've been on and around computers enough to witness how the culture went from starting drama and creating a *kitten* show of "unfortunate events" to this wholesome, Country Homes and Gardens type magazine front. And it's all just that: a facade. They aren't fooling anyone except themselves, but they feel they can't be anything else. To be otherwise is to incur judgment and spite from your peers.

It's just.. yeesh. On the one hand, there are a lot of cool things about living in society today. On the other? There are so many negatives that I kinda just want to pack up and go be a hermit in the woods until I die.

Absolutely. It is so weird because on one hand you have people saying "It's okay to not be okay" and encouraging mental health and all that YET you have people trying to hide from reality and putting on these masks.
I don't go on FB much anymore because of it. I use it primarily to find out about events that I will likely never attend 🤣 But IG is the same way. How many people post the ugly stuff? Not many. The people who do are usually the type who find it impossible to find positive so they just get eye rolls anyway. I just wish people were more real. The fake ones make the real people feel incompetent or unworthy and that's so screwed up.

The fake ones are easy to spot from a mile away. One of my biggest pet peeves is when ladies have an Instagram account with almost exclusively selfie poses in yoga pants. It reeks of self-importance & is a total eye-roller On the other hand, airing the negatives of your life serves no positive purpose on social media. But you can still be authentic without being negative.

I disagree. Especially for younger people.... Not too long ago a very well known celebrity came out that she struggles with depression and it made a huge impact on young girls. Some people need to know they are not alone. Everyone needs to see that just because you are rich, famous and have a good relationship doesn't mean you don't have your own internal struggles.
The whole issue with social media is it makes people feel like they are the one with a problem. If everyone they know only posts the positive stuff and vacation photos they think that those lives are perfect.
I don't post a lot of negative crap on FB, but I don't post much to begin with. I am not talking about people posting "woe is me" but it IS okay to not be okay every minute of every day. People who are doing it just to show life isn't a fairytale, not the people who do it for a pity party.
Anyway, just my opinion

I stand corrected. I guess you can air some of the minuses without throwing the 'wow is me' pity party but just to be authentic.

I don't know. I think personal stuff shouldnt be shared. Theres just some things that should stay private. Is it wrong to walk around smiling and laughing and sharing things about my kids that I love or appreciate? Do I really need to announce my recent break up...is it ok to post things that bring a smile to my face?
Not sure if this makes sense.

I don't want people to announce every break up and air their dirty laundry. That stuff IS private. I also live seeing people be positive and find the good even in a crappy situation, but that is not how most people behave. Most people either post only the bad and negative or post only the stuff that makes them appear to be perfect.
I am not judging anyone, post what you want when you want and I will either follow or not. I just wish that people would look at the impact they have. Social media is very powerful and is doing a lot of damage.

FriendlyNeighborhoodEngineer wrote: »

Also, what do you do when you live in a shoe but you ain't got no soul?

CaliValleyGirl wrote: »

You might have a shopping problem if your husband instinctively gets up and goes to the door when he sees an Amazon van.

LeannJeffers wrote: »

Every little sound in the office is driving me crazy today. I can hear my co-worker sucking on a piece of candy, when she gulps her water, rubs her sandpapers hands together because she's cold and I can especially hear when she talks to herself and laughs at her emails.

Seriously STFU Linda

@tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

*kitten* i need to decorate for xmas

RiderOfWestern wrote: »

Had an old crown break and went to the Dentist to have it fixed; New crown is needed so they had to remove what was there and prepare for the new crown and I asked to have it done without anesthesia. 90 minutes of work, through which the Dentist kept asking me if I wanted anesthesia, and he wants to talk to me about my lack of wanting pain meds when I go back in a couple weeks. I wish I had a sarcastic retort for him.

tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

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Tinydancer106 wrote: »

@tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

*kitten* i need to decorate for xmas

I was thinking about that today too.... course I'll do that all month but hey...it's a start right🤷🏻‍♀️😉



Ps...how's your little girl feeling??💖💖🤗

she turned a corner today so i’m hopeful that wicked fever burned up the bugs a lil bit. still snotty/cough but not like scary lethargic kwim? thanks for asking 💛

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Vikka_V wrote: »

tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

*kitten* i need to decorate for xmas

I was gonna say you got time...but *kitten* it - get decorating and max out that Christmas season!

Oh, and don't forget to make those little Christmas tree pizzas - may steal this idea!

i like to skip over thanksgiving mostly and really stretch the *kitten* out of xmas

George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »

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RiderOfWestern wrote: »

Had an old crown break and went to the Dentist to have it fixed; New crown is needed so they had to remove what was there and prepare for the new crown and I asked to have it done without anesthesia. 90 minutes of work, through which the Dentist kept asking me if I wanted anesthesia, and he wants to talk to me about my lack of wanting pain meds when I go back in a couple weeks. I wish I had a sarcastic retort for him.

Just wear a Chuck Norris T-shirt

Reckoner68 wrote: »

I will embrace my title of “likable and popular”