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I love reading all of these and I have to admit, I used to believe much of this before joining MFP. Although I never gave out advice to anyone.
I particularly love the Atkins and Mediterranean diet stuff.3 -
One of my old co workers also tried to lose weight, we had this discussion once about eating after dinner.
She said her trainer told her everything
you eat after dinner would turn into
pure fat and onto your tummy. like literally.
And she believed it.
I told her it's about CICO but she was all 'so you say my trainer is lying? You think you know better than him??'
Even my boss believed it so I just stopped the discussion there.12 -
AllisonRosex wrote: »She said her trainer told her everything
you eat after dinner would turn into
pure fat and onto your tummy. like literally.
Well... I guess if I ate ice cream in bed and dripped some on myself, it would literally be fat on my tummy...20 -
Protein too!1
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GlassAngyl wrote: »When ppl assume I'm saying my way is the only way when someone asks "What has worked for you."
I am always curious what different people do when they are finding success. It gives me new ideas to try or adapt!
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AllisonRosex wrote: »She said her trainer told her everything
you eat after dinner would turn into
pure fat and onto your tummy.
The trainer didn't believe it but was desperate for any way to restrict her intake I assume.
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For a short time I was seeing a trainer who was highly recommended to me. Here are a couple of conversations I had with her:
Trainer: You NEED to eat breakfast when you get up in the morning.
Me: Why? I am not hungry first thing in the morning.
Trainer: You have been fasting all night while you sleep and you need to jumpstart your metabolism.
Me: I lost about 200 lbs, I had to learn to NOT eat when I wasn't hungry, so you are now telling me to ignore all that and eat when I am not hungry because I NEED to?
Trainer: yes
Trainer: what have you been eating?
Me: Meat, fruit, veggies, eggs, cheese, yogurt
Trainer: No! Don't eat dairy!!!
Me: Why?
Trainer: It's so horrible for you!
Me: But you feed your kid dairy, right?
Trainer: that's different
Needless to say... I stopped going to her. My old trainer used to tell me to make sure I had some pizza and a black and white cookie when I would go back to NY to visit my family, but don't go TOO crazy. His style was much better!
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For a short time I was seeing a trainer who was highly recommended to me. Here are a couple of conversations I had with her:
Trainer: You NEED to eat breakfast when you get up in the morning.
Me: Why? I am not hungry first thing in the morning.
Trainer: You have been fasting all night while you sleep and you need to jumpstart your metabolism.
Me: I lost about 200 lbs, I had to learn to NOT eat when I wasn't hungry, so you are now telling me to ignore all that and eat when I am not hungry because I NEED to?
Trainer: yes
Trainer: what have you been eating?
Me: Meat, fruit, veggies, eggs, cheese, yogurt
Trainer: No! Don't eat dairy!!!
Me: Why?
Trainer: It's so horrible for you!
Me: But you feed your kid dairy, right?
Trainer: that's different
Needless to say... I stopped going to her. My old trainer used to tell me to make sure I had some pizza and a black and white cookie when I would go back to NY to visit my family, but don't go TOO crazy. His style was much better!
Oh yeah, "you should eat breakfast". I get that one all the time. Though I got it before I needed to lose weight too. It always struck me as funny the number of people that would tell me I needed to eat breakfast to be healthy. I mean I was in my 40's never been overweight, zero health problems and they are telling me this. ::laugh::6 -
Once when I mentioned to someone who was kind of plump that i was going to be serious about my diet and that I had bought a lot of celery she was shocked, scolded me and told me that celery has a lot of sodium...
P.s. feel free to add me if you need more friends who are active on MFP. I'm at my halfway point! 7 more lbs to go...10 -
For a short time I was seeing a trainer who was highly recommended to me. Here are a couple of conversations I had with her:
Trainer: You NEED to eat breakfast when you get up in the morning.
Me: Why? I am not hungry first thing in the morning.
Trainer: You have been fasting all night while you sleep and you need to jumpstart your metabolism.
Me: I lost about 200 lbs, I had to learn to NOT eat when I wasn't hungry, so you are now telling me to ignore all that and eat when I am not hungry because I NEED to?
Trainer: yes
Though on the other extreme a person in a FB group was throwing a fit and decided to go off a medication because "it made her gain weight."
How did it make her gain weight? It's a med that you need to take with food to not damage your stomach and instead of setting her times to take it at meal times, or just eating a little snack like a piece of cheese or some crackers when taking it, she was taking it away from meal times and eating two extra meals a day when she took it.
(I've lost 20 lbs while taking this same medication)16 -
For a short time I was seeing a trainer who was highly recommended to me. Here are a couple of conversations I had with her:
Trainer: You NEED to eat breakfast when you get up in the morning.
Me: Why? I am not hungry first thing in the morning.
Trainer: You have been fasting all night while you sleep and you need to jumpstart your metabolism.
Me: I lost about 200 lbs, I had to learn to NOT eat when I wasn't hungry, so you are now telling me to ignore all that and eat when I am not hungry because I NEED to?
Trainer: yes
Though on the other extreme a person in a FB group was throwing a fit and decided to go off a medication because "it made her gain weight."
How did it make her gain weight? It's a med that you need to take with food to not damage your stomach and instead of setting her times to take it at meal times, or just eating a little snack like a piece of cheese or some crackers when taking it, she was taking it away from meal times and eating two extra meals a day when she took it.
(I've lost 20 lbs while taking this same medication)
Sometimes you do need to eat, like when you take meds, and you totally should work it out so that you can. To not do that and blame the meds on the weight gain is a little crazy!1 -
Need2Exerc1se wrote: »For a short time I was seeing a trainer who was highly recommended to me. Here are a couple of conversations I had with her:
Trainer: You NEED to eat breakfast when you get up in the morning.
Me: Why? I am not hungry first thing in the morning.
Trainer: You have been fasting all night while you sleep and you need to jumpstart your metabolism.
Me: I lost about 200 lbs, I had to learn to NOT eat when I wasn't hungry, so you are now telling me to ignore all that and eat when I am not hungry because I NEED to?
Trainer: yes
Trainer: what have you been eating?
Me: Meat, fruit, veggies, eggs, cheese, yogurt
Trainer: No! Don't eat dairy!!!
Me: Why?
Trainer: It's so horrible for you!
Me: But you feed your kid dairy, right?
Trainer: that's different
Needless to say... I stopped going to her. My old trainer used to tell me to make sure I had some pizza and a black and white cookie when I would go back to NY to visit my family, but don't go TOO crazy. His style was much better!
Oh yeah, "you should eat breakfast". I get that one all the time. Though I got it before I needed to lose weight too. It always struck me as funny the number of people that would tell me I needed to eat breakfast to be healthy. I mean I was in my 40's never been overweight, zero health problems and they are telling me this. ::laugh::
Exactly, like I lost a *kitten* ton of weight without eating breakfast, and I am super healthy, and telling me to eat when I am not hungry is completely counter intuitive and makes zero sense... at least the way she explained it!3 -
Stationagentjules wrote: »That I should drink my water at room temperature to burn fat.
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OHFlamingo wrote: »That you should never ever drink any water with your meals because it will dilute your stomach acid and your food won't get digested.
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YosemiteSlamAK wrote: »Stationagentjules wrote: »That I should drink my water at room temperature to burn fat.
That is true. You will burn more calories by drinking iced drinks than room temperature. But it's a really tiny amount. If you switched from drinking every drink at room temperature to drinking them all iced you might burn enough calories to lose 1 lb per year.4 -
ladyhusker39 wrote: »Last week I was telling some friends at the gym about an awesome new pizza place I went to over the weekend. They both immediately started lecturing me about how I'd never lose weight if I kept eating all those carbs and how wrong it is to eat carbs in general.
They've literally watched me lose 33lbs in the last 7 months eating a lot of carbs. I don't get it. The evidence is right in front of them and they still want to judge me. I've never commented on how or what they chose to eat.
I started working out a lot (couple hours a day) and was eating way too little to sustain normal function. I went to my doctor and she said "maybe eat smaller portions" I lost 4 pounds yesterday, I don't think smaller is the direction of survival!5 -
Was also told once that once you have extra fat cells even if you lose the fat the cells are still there waiting to blow up again....?
Sadly, this is true. The fat cells empty out their little store of fat as we lose, but the cells are still there . . . waiting. If we don't overeat our maintenance calories, that's all they do. (I'm in year 2 of maintenance).
Once your body creates a fat cell, you will never be truly rid of it unless it is removed by liposuction or something.
That is one of the many reasons that it is so easy to "put the weight back on" after you stop "dieting".
If you do not "permanently" increase your BMR & TDEE (by adding muscle for instance) then the fat cell will grow again if you eat over your previous maintenance level.
Probably sooner / faster every time in fact, because if you are not maintaining (or building muscle) then you are losing it, slow but sure.
Muscle is metabolically expensive and the human body will happily break muscle cells completely down for protein or just to save energy.
You cannot say the same about fat cells.10 -
YosemiteSlamAK wrote: »ladyhusker39 wrote: »Last week I was telling some friends at the gym about an awesome new pizza place I went to over the weekend. They both immediately started lecturing me about how I'd never lose weight if I kept eating all those carbs and how wrong it is to eat carbs in general.
They've literally watched me lose 33lbs in the last 7 months eating a lot of carbs. I don't get it. The evidence is right in front of them and they still want to judge me. I've never commented on how or what they chose to eat.
I started working out a lot (couple hours a day) and was eating way too little to sustain normal function. I went to my doctor and she said "maybe eat smaller portions" I lost 4 pounds yesterday, I don't think smaller is the direction of survival!
Although it's important to fuel your workouts, I am quite confident that you did not lose 4 pounds of fat in a day.12 -
People who tell me I workout too much - uh, no, actually I have a desk job, it's not physically possible for me to workout more than the human body is capable because I literally SIT for 10 hours a day.
Anyone and everyone who is obese and yet telling me what I should do to lose weight - if you aren't walking the walk, don't bore me with the talk.
I do love getting stories from people about things that have worked for them...even if they are big and still working on it, I love hearing about different stuff they have tried.13
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