WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2022

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    KetoneKaren wrote: »
    Pip Your children are all adorable! How is Yogi adjusting to Lucy and Cheespas? New Bette is sweeeeet! Looks like overhead clearance was impossible. Is Kirby a magician? :D

    Debbie I was wondering what an order gun is, and why someone would hide one.

    Machka Lovely gardens. Goodness.

    Annie in Delaware Everyone has their own way of getting out of a temporary slump. One tried and true method for me in the past (not so much since Covid) was going to a movie in a theatre, one I could become totally engrossed in. I would go into the theatre in a slump and emerge transformed! Do you have any gimmicks that have worked for you in the past? Exercise, music, calling a friend, a long hot bath, starting a new book, dancing or marching, cooking a new healthy delicious recipe, and volunteering/helping someone are other things that have worked to snap me out of the doldrums in the past. Not talking about depression, just the blues. (((Hugs)))

    Heather I am enjoying my vicarious voyage!

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    This afternoon I am meeting someone who will assemble a new bed frame at our apartment.

    This morning will be working on more purging and start staging for my brother's move. The more preparation we do for the movers, that more efficient the move will be, and the less it will cost, so that is my focus.

    Yesterday my brother and I went to DMV for the third time to try to obtain a Real ID. It's a challenge to scrape up documentation to get a real ID for someone who has no driver's license, utility bills, passport, W-2's, etc. - but we finally met the criteria. Amazing how thrilling it was to get this accomplished, lol! We were both in disbelief when the DMV screener gave us a number and told us to have a seat! It took about 1.5 hours, not too bad given how crowded they were.

    Love you gals,

    Karen in Virginia

    Yogi acts like the new kids don’t exist. Kirby did a lot of measuring to make sure that it will fit. Kirby is really happy with the new Bette

  • ginnytez
    ginnytez Posts: 1,400 Member
    Machka-as others have said-your gardens are beautiful.

    Allie-can't hurt to ask hospital to check it out. If they won't reduce, tell them you can send $5.00 a month.

    Lisa-all sorts of vaccines make me tired-thats why I schedule all of them for Fridays if I can.

    KJ-great visit with kids. Exciting they are even thinking of moving.

    Vacuuming-my husband vacuumed very regularly. He did not work outside the home for a number of years before his death. He would vacuum, wash the dishes (didn't think we needed dishwasher), cook and do his own laundry (didn't want to mess up on my work clothes). I did stuff like dust, toilets, bedding, etc. It all worked out.

    Katla-I am sorry you are frustrated. Nursing/care homes can be difficult to get into. It depends on insurance, the person's needed care level, whether they have openings. I'm sure your daughter checked all of that out and made the best choice she could.

    Brother got released from hospital yesterday. Evidently he got out of bed in middle of night (Thursday) and fell. CT scans show no damage. We don't know if insurance was going to approve rehab family wanted. He will get in-home therapy at 0 co pay, so hopefully that works. We are hoping as anesthesia exits his system (and it can take some time) his confusion will lessen (at least go to preserver levels). However, this morning he is at home and excited that I am bringing his favorite pizza and watching the game with him. It's a noon kickoff so I need to get moving-he lives 20 or so minutes from me.

    Take care all,

    Ginny in Ohio
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
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    Morning from Miles....
    Little toofies sticking out lol
    Today is my sister in laws 59th birthday she is meeting her girlfriends at our local winery ..
    Im lollygagging but will get some laundry done and get some stuff done around here today.. I say that and hopefully will get it done.. Nov 5th and the high will be 75 ,sheesh November? Know wonder people are getting sick..nobody knows how to dress for what kind of weather.
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,251 Member
    edited November 2022
    Barbara I use a large toothed comb and a brush meant for wet hair when I wash my hair which is twice a week at most. In between I sprinkle a bit of orange essential oil on my hair brush. Doing this routine cut down on the tangles.

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    Mary You have taken the steps you can at this time to report her abuse. Now it is up to an outside agency to do their job. The power structure she lives in will more than likely do what they can to protect her. SAD but often true. She has shone her true colors and light will be on her now. It will be a matter of when not if she will no longer be able to get away with such behavior.

    My wish for you is you now focus your energy on your own healing. You have so many tools you have learned over the years examples like diet...TENS... When you are stronger you can decide if there is more that needs to be done.

    Mary surrounding you with healing prayers!

    (((Katla)))

    Kelly wonderful picture love the braided pigtails.

    Allie This is why I have 5 different jackets and sweat shirts ready by the door this time of year we were in the 70's earlier this week and now we are in the forties.
  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 644 Member
    OMGosh Heather, I am so jealous! Thank you for letting me live vicariously through you. Have fun with dancing and relaxing and just HAVE FUN!

    Happy Birthday Vicki!

    WOOHOO PIP! Well done Kirby! I am truly impressed at how neat and clean that garage is. We can't get two cars in our three-car garage for all the crap our kids have left and WE have accumulated. A lot of it is Freddy's mom's stuff that he hasn't had the heart to get rid of yet. We're working on that. New pups seem to approve! How is Yogi doing?

    Happy Birthday Ginny!

    Very pretty picture KJ.

    Grateful for...
    1-coffee
    2-smartphone
    3-red
    4-chili
    5-music
    Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,184 Member
    KetoneKaren wrote: »
    Pip Your children are all adorable! How is Yogi adjusting to Lucy and Cheespas? New Bette is sweeeeet! Looks like overhead clearance was impossible. Is Kirby a magician? :D

    Debbie I was wondering what an order gun is, and why someone would hide one.



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    This afternoon I am meeting someone who will assemble a new bed frame at our apartment.

    This morning will be working on more purging and start staging for my brother's move. The more preparation we do for the movers, that more efficient the move will be, and the less it will cost, so that is my focus.

    Yesterday my brother and I went to DMV for the third time to try to obtain a Real ID. It's a challenge to scrape up documentation to get a real ID for someone who has no driver's license, utility bills, passport, W-2's, etc. - but we finally met the criteria. Amazing how thrilling it was to get this accomplished, lol! We were both in disbelief when the DMV screener gave us a number and told us to have a seat! It took about 1.5 hours, not too bad given how crowded they were.

    Love you gals,

    Karen in Virginia

    He works in a grocery store- the order gun is used to put in orders for their department- There are only six in the whole store. The orders all have to be in by I think 9AM so some people hide them to make sure they have one to get their orders in on time. They are supposed to be checked out and turned back into the office after the person is done with it but that doesn't happen. They charge the store $3,000 for each new one. They know 6 are in the store(they have a gps in them but not good enough to show exactly where in the store they are) and two are not in the store- most likely accidentally thrown away.


    Glad you were finally able to get done with DMV- a huge step done. A great relief I am sure

    Debbie

  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,184 Member
    wizzywig wrote: »
    Morning ladies

    Thanks for starting us off on a new month Barbie, I have read the first few pages, but have some catching up to do.

    I've been busy with the kittens, they are so messy! We were going to take them to the RSPCA once a kennel was available, but my friend Judy has decided she wants them - yes all three! She already has a cat and a dog, so hope they will be okay there. I'm sure they will be, but I feel a bit responsible for them now, they are starting to trust us a bit more and don't run and hide when we go into the room. Judy has arranged an appointment with the vet to give them a health check and to find out what sex they are. She is very experienced with cats as she has rescued feral kittens from the farm where she works with my daughter.

    The mummy cat who is now called Poppy is going to be spayed next week and microchipped and will then become my mums cat instead of stray. I hope she realises this :) no more wandering the streets for her.



    Take care and love to all
    Viv UK

    Up to P5

    my mom now has 5 tiny kittens in her house- they were born in her greenhouse, or at least that is where she found them. Came running right to her and up her pants leg the first time they saw her, none ran away. She is planning on keeping all five(her room mate is still trying to give them away).
    That is a lot but she is loving it. Loves all the love and attention from them. She needs that. Her little dog and my sister's dog that mom has been taking care of for years, are both fine with the kittens.
    Great for this time of year, as the garden is gone now because of the frost, and she has more free time to hang out in the house with them.
    Years ago they had four(the siblings to my big boy that passed away a few months ago). If she can keep up on the litter boxes, she will be fine.

    Debbie

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
    Ol Allie has broken a sweat .. I have laundry in the wash ,started a giveaway box and moved some furniture lol ,not alot done but some... hey its a start.. i did by a roomba that I will set up and start today.. going to put laundry in the dryer.. yipee..
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,590 Member
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,789 Member
    Heehee Michele! My middle son was telling me he wants to have trains go about his house on shelves that encircle the bedrooms.😜😁

    So my ramen was without spinach, the bag had decided to go slimy in one full swoop. But hey its perfect anyways!
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    Rebecca
    Ramen Queen on
    Whidbey
    WA
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,313 Member
    Michelle - Since you aren’t putting up all your outside decorations this year because of the roof, will you be going to see PJ for Christmas?

    Okie in the TX Hill Country

  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
    I forgot to say something about sounds..
    I have issues with loud noises... even when i am out to dinner with friends i wear earplugs.. I can converse fine,but dont hear alot of the background noise of music, clanking dishes,people talking etc.. the rice rocket motorcycles do me in...
    So i carry earplugs with me everywhere just in case..
    Vacuums don't bother me and household things don't bother me..
    Laundry in the dryer.. and have the roomba is charging ,i have alot of the living dining room moved around..
    Will work on some more tomorrow.
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,590 Member
    Sewing: It has taken me 3 or 4 days looking at Youtube videos to get my Singer sewing machine threaded and the bobbin in. Finally got it done today and it actually sews. Now, my question is this, I am 5'1" tall and cannot find any pants that are not 4 or 5 inches longer than I need (probably because I need a plus size in petites). Does anyone have a suggestion on how to shorten them?

    Carol in GA
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    minicooper452 wrote: »
    OMGosh Heather, I am so jealous! Thank you for letting me live vicariously through you. Have fun with dancing and relaxing and just HAVE FUN!

    Happy Birthday Vicki!

    WOOHOO PIP! Well done Kirby! I am truly impressed at how neat and clean that garage is. We can't get two cars in our three-car garage for all the crap our kids have left and WE have accumulated. A lot of it is Freddy's mom's stuff that he hasn't had the heart to get rid of yet. We're working on that. New pups seem to approve! How is Yogi doing?

    Happy Birthday Ginny!

    Very pretty picture KJ.

    Grateful for...
    1-coffee
    2-smartphone
    3-red
    4-chili
    5-music
    Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN

    Yogi doesn’t care
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    Stats for the day-

    Walk w/all 3 kids- 1hr 8min 7sec, 39elev, 2.66ap, 84ahr, 116mhr, 3.05mi= 373c
    Strava app = 374c
    Walk w/yogi- 33.53min, 37elev, 3.64ap, 98ahr, 127mhr, 2.07mi= 215c
    Strava app = 254c

    Total cal 588
    Tomorrow is the run. We re going to ride our bikes there so we don’t have to deal with the road closures.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
    Thank goodness for that Barbie.. and Jakes resourcefulness... my parents had a gas stove so we could always cook something on the stovetop..i remember the ice storm of i think it was 1978,dont quote me.. but we were without power for a couple weeks and we had some french Canadian linemen that were working on our lines.. i offered them some hot coffee. They wanted booze lol..
    Couldn't help them there.. but they were fast workers by golly..
    Well i have my clocks turned back...
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Beth, Nope, haven't made the chickpeas, just looked at recipes.

    Kelly, You are quite beautiful! Inside and out!

    I went to our new apartment this afternoon. Willie came to put together my spouse's new bed frame. My brother went with me. We got a lot of little tasks done while we were waiting for him to finish. I'm super tired. Looking forward to getting a good night's sleep!

    Karen in Virginia
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
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  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,184 Member
    I have very long, very curly hair-My hair, when wet is down to my butt and in ringlets.
    I wash it once , occasionally twice a week. Wash it Saturday night and add a little curl activator. I use shampoo and conditioner for curly hair. Use a big comb while in the shower to get the tangles out.Sunday morning before church, get it damp and scrunch it pull just a small amount back or wear a head band. Same thing the next day but pull more back. Third day simple braid or only brush the top and put it in a pony tail- wetting and scrunching the rest. Carefully brush it and braid it the other days. Some days I don't brush it at all. If the tangles are too bad after three days(usually not too bad) I wash it and comb in the shower- that is easier than trying to brush it.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,593 Member
    edited November 2022
    sh0tzz99 wrote: »
    Alone time-I cherish mine and I have quite a lot of it, thankfully. However, when the mister is home, he makes noise. Sometimes talking to me, sometimes to himself. If he isn't talking, he's just making noise. Humming, mumbling, cursing, stomping around, listening to music loudly, or something. I noticed that when I am not in his vicinity (or he doesn't know I am paying attention to him), he is quiet as long as he's distracted by something (the news, his phone, etc.). As soon as I am near, he makes noise. I don't like noise, especially when it's not for good reason. I am very sensitive to it and I've had to work hard to "deal" with it. I think maybe he's afraid to be alone with his thoughts.

    That said, I'm sure that like Ginny, I may miss it someday. I am working on trying to be more grateful.

    As for vacuuming, I use a dry mop whenever possible and when I'm the one vacuuming (and I always am if it's happening at all), I don't mind so much. Probably because I know it's coming.

    Cleaners-I loved having one, but it's been problematic for us. I had to let them go. I clean the kitchen, but I'm in there all the time. I sweep the floors now and then, but they never get mopped or polished. The windows are gross, his office is a cluttered mess, his bathroom is disgusting. I have my own bathroom and if I didn't, we would have a cleaner, no matter what.

    Like Machka's husband, I also struggle with loud cars, motorcycles, dogs barking, loud TV and music volume (the worst), screaming children, etc. Fortunately, those are very temporary noises (with the exception of our neighbor's constantly barking dog-which a long temporary).

    Sending hugs to those in need and good vibes to everyone!

    Tina in CA


    Alone Time - I get none. Unless you count when my husband is asleep or the occasions when I can fit in a lunch walk to areas where there are less people.

    I miss alone time, and it's one of the reasons I stay up late ... so I can have 30-60 minutes of "alone time".


    Noises - I also don't like noise (loud cars, motorcycles, dogs barking, loud TV and music volume, screaming children, etc.) and I struggle with misophonia.

    But I don't mind noises like vacuums, wash machines, etc. They help to block out my tinnitus.

    https://www.healthline.com/health/misophonia
    What is misophonia?
    Repeated noises like chewing, pen tapping, sniffling, or scratching can cause annoyance and frustration for anyone.

    But for people living with a condition called misophonia, originally known as selective sound sensitivity syndrome, these noises are more than just bothersome. With misophonia, those small sounds, and plenty of others, can be downright unbearable.

    To put it simply, misophonia involves an extreme sensitivity to certain sounds. As a matter of fact, the name “misophonia” comes from the Greek word for “hatred of sound.”

    This hypersensitivity prompts a fight-or-flight response to triggering sounds. You might, for example, have an extreme urge to:

    leave the room immediately
    press your hands over your ears
    scream, “Stop making that sound!”


    Cleaning - In my ideal house, I would have hard surface flooring throughout. I am not fond of carpeting.

    My husband takes care of the kitchen - making dinner and loading/unloading the dishwasher. He also does his own laundry. He does the rubbish and cleans the toilet. And he takes care of a lot of things outside.

    He has done most of these things since well before we got together and has just continued. I guess that's one benefit of marrying someone who has lived on his own for a bit.

    In the beginning, we also both worked fulltime. We've both been quite independent.


    Hair - I also use a very wide tooth comb. :)


    Machka in Oz
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,184 Member
    1948CWB wrote: »
    Sewing: It has taken me 3 or 4 days looking at Youtube videos to get my Singer sewing machine threaded and the bobbin in. Finally got it done today and it actually sews. Now, my question is this, I am 5'1" tall and cannot find any pants that are not 4 or 5 inches longer than I need (probably because I need a plus size in petites). Does anyone have a suggestion on how to shorten them?

    Carol in GA

    get a pair of your pants that are the right length. Add one inch to the length and cut the rest off. Fold it under 1/2 inch twice and sew. You can cut three inches and then hem by hand but I tend to do it the quicker way now days.

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