"You can eat whaver you want, as long as you eat at a deficit" is true, but it's garbage advice.
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Carlos_421 wrote: »If they say it so much, please provide just one quote of someone claiming that moderation is strictly defined as "eating a little every day" and doesn't apply to the approach of moderating frequency of consumption.
Please go read for yourself. I am not going to sift through threads or quotes to help you see what you likely already see but refuse to admit to seeing. This whole thread has turned into a neighborhood brawl in the most absurd way. Enjoy the rest of your stay here on this endlessly growing MFP rumble.2 -
MontyMuttland wrote: »"For things to change, you have to change." (Jim Rohn, 1930-2009).
This is a fundamental truth and it applies to anyone trying to lose weight and keep it off every bit as much as the formula stating that to lose weight you must burn more calories every day than you consume.
I was obese for most of my adult life, a serial yo-yo dieter who would try this and that diet, lose some weight and then put it back on again plus more.
The reason I kept failing is actually very simple. I didn't change. I just did what the diets said I had to do, but they didn't teach me anything. I didn't learn any new eating habits.
And this is what the OP is getting at with his post.
If you tell an obese person they can eat what they want providing they stay under their daily calorie allocation, you are just sugar-coating the truth to make it easier to swallow.
The simple truth is, if you eat nutritionally poor foods as part of a calorie controlled eating plan, then the weight you lose won't just be fat. Sure, you will lose some fat, but some of the weight you will lose is going to be the good part of your body (your muscle tissue, your organs, your skeleton, etc).
That is the price you pay for eating nutritionally poor foods. They don't contain enough good stuff to maintain the important parts of your body.
If you are already eating less food to stay under your calorie allocation, then it's even more important than ever that the food you eat had high nutritional value - what the hell else is your body going to use to sustain itself?
So here is the real deal: if you want to lose weight and keep it off, better start learning some new eating habits.
New eating habits means making food choices that are nutrient rich.
Does it mean you can never eat another burger? Of course not, but you'd do far better learning how to make a decent burger yourself rather than eating the total non-food they serve at fast food outlets.
"For things to change, you have to change."
Embrace it, do it.
During 2016 I lost 9 stone (126lb) and now I'm happily maintaining my weight under 11stone.
I did that by changing my relationship with food and learning new eating habits.
I don't eat pizza anymore. Why? Because it's nutritionally poor food.
But I make a mean burger meal, a steak meal and a spaghetti bolognese meal all for less than 500 calories each.
I learned how to eat well whilst consuming less.
That's what this is about, and the rest can be summed up like this:
"Suck it up or stay fat!".
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I'm sorry, but the bolded is patently false. How is a thin crust pizza with tomato sauce, cheese, onions, mushrooms, and peppers "nutritionally poor"? This is a serious, honest question. I guess if the only pizza you ever eat comes out of the freezer section of the grocery store, and you are afraid of "chemicals", I guess I could see how you might come to that conclusion. But I'm just not following you
Indeed. Here are some sample pizzas (thin crust, they are supposed to be NY style, heresy that that is) from the Robert's place I mentioned above:
Seafood
Roasted clams, calamari, shrimp, fresh mozzarella, garlic, EVOO
Chicken Breast and Spinach
with artichoke hearts, Fontina cheese and lemon zest
Huevos Rancheros
Black bean, chorizo, queso fresco, scallion, cilantro, salsa verde and eggs ( gluten free crust n/a)
Prosciutto and Arugula
with fresh mozzarella, lemon vinaigrette, grape tomatoes
Brussels Sprout and Applewood Smoked Bacon
with dates, smoked mozzarella and balsamic glaze
Create Your Own
Choose fresh mozzarella with EVOO or tomato sauce, then add your favorite toppings: Artichoke, Basil leaves, Caramelized Onions, Tomato, Garlic, Calabrian peppers, Roasted Peppers, Jalapeño Pepper, Red onion, Spinach, Fennel Sausage, Meatballs, Pepperoni, Chicken, Bacon, Prosciutto, Shrimp
I mean, yeah, they have fewer vegetables and often a bit less protein than I like in my usual meal, but that's why I get a salad on the side and have a bit less pizza, and also why I might compensate with more protein and veg (and less fat and carbs) at my other two meals of the day.
I don't get why pizza is supposed to be "nutritionally poor" at all.3 -
Or enlist in the military.
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Ok, let me clarify. That was not my argument. I had no argument. I just had lunch. It was Pizza. I don't generally eat pizza. It made me feel bad. Not sick, not in pain, not hurting. Just like when I eat any other fast food. Fast food is not something I generally eat, it's not something I ever gave my kid, it's not something I recommend. I am not big on eating out at all. I cook most of my meals. However, I do on OCCASION eat fast food. Like I did today with a friend for lunch, or if I am traveling and the trip is long. So I am not "condemning" (as it was said) any one for eating it. I could careless what you eat. Your an adult. Do what you want. If you take that as me judging you or an oxymoron again I don't care. Your an adult.
For me, not you, but for me I agree with the OP.
Now maybe some people here need support and I get that.
Like one young lady said she eats what she wants she would rather die young and happy and do what she wants. I TOTALLY AGREE. Do what makes you happy!!!! Eat what you want but your way might not be my way if is eating out a lot or having fast food on a daily basis.
You just made two different conflicting arguments in one statement. Wow.9 -
annacole94 wrote: »I'm sorry I mentioned pizza in my initial reply. I had literally finished a piece of Domino's cheese pizza that my kid started and had nothing but regrets for that.
Good pizza can be worth it and easy to make a balanced meal. I maintain that domino's is gross and have no plans to try novelty crust to test that theory.
Newbies need to buy some big girl panties* and not be quite so thin skinned.
*both genders welcome to try them on and see if it helps.
Domino's doesn't even qualify as pizza.2 -
I have read quite a few post since being on MFP. Seemingly we have some career posters that harp on anything that they can turn into something negative. To you I say carry on. Pick another target. You don't have to quote me or you can if you want to but I COULD CARE LESS what you say or think of my comment. Point is "to each is own" do what makes you happy. Now you can try and pick apart what I am saying but my comment is to the OP. Who I agree with and how am I physically sick and needing to see a doctor. Wow!!!!! The drama
I myself work as a trainer, but I don't profit on MFP. I also don't echo what a lot of trainers out there follow when it comes to diet and eating. In fact many would be shocked to see some of these trainers preaching that stuff, but binging on pizza, beer, etc. even though they say it's horrible for you.
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Tacklewasher wrote: »
Not at a healthy weight yet. But am down from 330 last Sept to 250, so I've made damn good headway towards it.
That's fantastic! And what I was trying to say, maybe healthier would be a better word.
Kudos to you for all your hard work, it's inspiring0 -
Why not? I managed a Domino's pizza for years and we used the same things I use to make my pizzas at home. I never understood fast food shaming.6 -
lemurcat12 wrote: »
Indeed. Here are some sample pizzas (thin crust, they are supposed to be NY style, heresy that that is) from the Robert's place I mentioned above:
Seafood
Roasted clams, calamari, shrimp, fresh mozzarella, garlic, EVOO
Chicken Breast and Spinach
with artichoke hearts, Fontina cheese and lemon zest
Huevos Rancheros
Black bean, chorizo, queso fresco, scallion, cilantro, salsa verde and eggs ( gluten free crust n/a)
Prosciutto and Arugula
with fresh mozzarella, lemon vinaigrette, grape tomatoes
Brussels Sprout and Applewood Smoked Bacon
with dates, smoked mozzarella and balsamic glaze
Create Your Own
Choose fresh mozzarella with EVOO or tomato sauce, then add your favorite toppings: Artichoke, Basil leaves, Caramelized Onions, Tomato, Garlic, Calabrian peppers, Roasted Peppers, Jalapeño Pepper, Red onion, Spinach, Fennel Sausage, Meatballs, Pepperoni, Chicken, Bacon, Prosciutto, Shrimp
I mean, yeah, they have fewer vegetables and often a bit less protein than I like in my usual meal, but that's why I get a salad on the side and have a bit less pizza, and also why I might compensate with more protein and veg (and less fat and carbs) at my other two meals of the day.
I don't get why pizza is supposed to be "nutritionally poor" at all.
Apparently because it tastes good. That apparently sucks all the nutrition out the way packaging does.12 -
Chef_Barbell wrote: »
Why not? I managed a Domino's pizza for years and we used the same things I use to make my pizzas at home. I never understood fast food shaming.
No fast food shaming here! I'm all over Pizza Hut carry out. I've just never liked Domino's. Our local one overdoes the sauce and skimps on the cheese, even when you ask for easy sauce/extra cheese. I'm sure yours was better
I'm also a former fast-foodie. Worked at Taco Bell, even met my husband there (he was a customer). I can still wrap a mean burrito!5 -
No fast food shaming here! I'm all over Pizza Hut carry out. I've just never liked Domino's. Our local one overdoes the sauce and skimps on the cheese, even when you ask for easy sauce/extra cheese. I'm sure yours was better
I'm also a former fast-foodie. Worked at Taco Bell, even met my husband there (he was a customer). I can still wrap a mean burrito!
Haha that is awesome!2 -
No fast food shaming here! I'm all over Pizza Hut carry out. I've just never liked Domino's. Our local one overdoes the sauce and skimps on the cheese, even when you ask for easy sauce/extra cheese. I'm sure yours was better
I'm also a former fast-foodie. Worked at Taco Bell, even met my husband there (he was a customer). I can still wrap a mean burrito!
And our local ones are the opposite. Dominos is decent and the pizza hut is terrible.4 -
Chef_Barbell wrote: »
Why not? I managed a Domino's pizza for years and we used the same things I use to make my pizzas at home. I never understood fast food shaming.
I don't even consider pizza fast food. Other than Little Caesar's you have to order and wait on it just like a real restaurant.6 -
MontyMuttland wrote: »
You both illustrate my point perfectly.
If your average pizza actually was just bread, cheese, veggies then you'd be some way to having a bit of nutrition - but they're not.
Try reading the ingredients list on some pizza packaging, you'll see the list of stuff going in them is somewhat longer. Then read the nutritional information about those pizzas and see just how "healthy" they are.
The home-made pizza does sound a ton better, specially the amount of protein there compared to ready-made ones. But I'll make a stab at two slices being what, two sixths of the pizza maybe?
I've been a fat person remember, fat people don't eat two slices of pizza, they eat whole pizzas. And so do most ordinary people as well. Do you order half pizzas or quarter pizzas in a restaurant? Nope, didn't think so.
So yeah, two-sixths of a pizza for 524 calories ain't bad, but that's knocking on the door of 1600 calories for the whole pizza.
And guess who is eating the whole pizza?
Yep, just about everyone...
What ingredients specifically, on the pizzas that you are referring to in the packaging, are you concerned about?
How do extra ingredients translate to "less healthy"?
And I think that others have already covered this, but no, just about everyone is not eating a whole pizza. I don't know what you are basing this wild claim on, but my husband used to own a bar that served pizzas, and the only pizzas that were eaten whole by an individual were 6 inch or 9inch thin crust (cracker thin, St. Louis style, but with mozzerella, not Provel, in case anyone is wondering). So yes, there are some people who eat a whole pizza, but the majority of people are not consuming whole pizzas. If a person is consuming a whole pizza, that is well above their calorie needs for the day, then maybe THEY should make changes to that habit. I'm not sure how the nutritional value of a pizza (again, bread, tomatoes, cheese, meat, vegetables) or the advice offered normally to posters - suddenly is what we need to blame, rather than looking at the individuals who are choosing, of their own free will, to eat entire pizzas that aren't meant as single serving portions... You said that your advice is that people need to make a change. How is learning appropriate portion sizes not a change that people should strive for? Rather, you think cut out the entire type of food because of your rating "nutritionally poor" is more valid?5 -
prattiger65 wrote: »By the way, I have an 8" cast iron skillet, a flour tortilla fits perfect. I make an awesome personal size pizza in it, macros break down just about 30/30/40. Around 400 calories. My garbage advice is to eat some of that unhealthy crap!
This might be dinner tonight.3 -
You make a lot of blanket statements about people that do not seem to mesh with anything I have ever seen. I am sorry, but no, just about everyone is not eating the whole pizza. My experience has been that most people could not even stomach a whole pizza. Maybe I am the minority here, but most people I know only eat a few slices of pizza per meal. The only person I know that can eat that much in one sitting is my brother who happens to be 6'3" 350lbs and is very (and happily) obese.
How many calories in your whole pizzas? Ours have 1280 and when my OH's brother's family is in town, on Pizza Night, several of them will eat a whole pizza and no one but me has less than 5 pieces. (8 pieces in a pizza.)0 -
[Chef_Barbell wrote: »
You just made two different conflicting arguments in one statement. Wow.
I did not realize I was arguing a point. I thought I was clarifying my statement but, ok.0 -
Yeah, chow hall slop isn't great...leanest and meanest I've ever been in my life...2 -
This whole thread almost had me thinking I don't like pizza. SMH. I'm out! Good day0
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Chef_Barbell wrote: »
Why not? I managed a Domino's pizza for years and we used the same things I use to make my pizzas at home. I never understood fast food shaming.
crust is sub par...sauce is meh...their sausage is weird3 -
kshama2001 wrote: »
How many calories in your whole pizzas? Ours have 1280 and when my OH's brother's family is in town, on Pizza Night, several of them will eat a whole pizza and no one but me has less than 5 pieces. (8 pieces in a pizza.)
I will get the numbers for you, and let you know, but I can assure you it is nowhere near that much. Then again, I do not pile toppings on top of mine. And, in that case, that would make you the exception, not the rule. As you can see from the many people that have posted after me, very few people seem to eat whole pizzas in one sitting. Even so, that would equate to 1280, not 1600 as was mentioned.0 -
I have read quite a few post since being on MFP. Seemingly we have some career posters that harp on anything that they can turn into something negative. To you I say carry on. Pick another target. You don't have to quote me or you can if you want to but I COULD CARE LESS what you say or think of my comment. Point is "to each is own" do what makes you happy. Now you can try and pick apart what I am saying but my comment is to the OP. Who I agree with and how am I physically sick and needing to see a doctor. Wow!!!!! The drama
You said that eating pizza, burger, and maple bacon donuts made you feel like crap. I (and others) assumed you meant that you felt physically ill, as in it upset your stomach to eat this way, likely because it is richer than you are used to, or maybe because you are lactose intolerant, or gluten intolerant, or have gall stone issues. This is why the suggestion to see a doctor.
Now in your subsequent posts, it seems that you were speaking about feeling like crap mentally, as in guilty, for eating these foods. Is that correct? If so, then I also think, it would be better to address the root cause of your issues with food as I don't believe it is healthy to have feelings of guilt associated with food.
This is not drama or negativity, but a sincere suggestion to try to address those feelings. Many, many people have negative associations with certain foods that create long term struggles with diet and weight management. Trying to understand why you feel that way, when there is nothing inherently "bad" about eating some pizza, or some fast food, or a donut - may help you in the long run.
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I get where the OP is coming from. You can lose if you eat what you want and stay within your calorie goals, but do you have the will power to eat what you want within moderation. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. As an emotional eater, some foods are very difficult for me to have in moderation. So I have to recognize, that when I am going through stressful times, I will likely not eat just 3 cookies. So best to avoid them altogether.
Also, I don't think there is anything wrong with adopting healthier habits, which may include limiting or eliminating foods that have very little health benefits. Better to do it now, then later when you are faced with many ailments that you have no choice. My mother has congestive heart failure and I'm her caretaker. She is allowed, 2000 mg of sodium a day, that virtually eliminates all processed foods. She is also diabetic so sugar must also be monitored. It isn't easy preparing her food. She still wants crap, but it isn't an option for her now. She is not overweight, but has been at different points in her life. As someone coming from a family with a history of heart disease and diabetes, it is about more than just calories.
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crooked_left_hook wrote: »
@Emily3907 Sweet Jesus you just CHANGED MY LIFE!!! I've been craving homemade peanut butter cookies for weeks and it never dawned on me that I could FREEZE THE DOUGH!!! Usually I pawn them off on coworkers but now I can keep them all for myself. GENIUS!
I learned about freezing raw dough from Nigella. BEST chocolate chocolate chip cookie recipe ever! In fact, I think I decrease the amount of chips cuz I just can't cram them all in there.
https://www.nigella.com/recipes/totally-chocolate-chocolate-chip-cookies4 -
Chef_Barbell wrote: »
Why not? I managed a Domino's pizza for years and we used the same things I use to make my pizzas at home. I never understood fast food shaming.
Cause Domino's doesn't have anything that's even close to my homemade caramelized onions, honey chèvre, smoked almonds, and drizzle of balsamic reduction on top of Alton Brown's pizza dough crust pizza.
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